Derision

[BedtimeStories77]

Hallowed Eve: Aeroil is a guy.

Did not know that before now.

 

[graceanne]

Did not know that before now.

S'ok. It's not like it's obvious, I think I thought Aeroil was a boy when he first came to lit. *shrugs* Just thought I'd let you know.

 

[Etoile]

I think the avatar throws people off, maybe.

 

[BedtimeStories77]

diligently policing the boards as you have been of late and reporting any infringements you find.

Oh, you are getting those reports too? And here I thought GLBT Chatter was special!

You know, ladies, I am not the only mod who reports violations of Lit in other boards. I've received many reported posts from Shyguy all the time.

Yes, many pics have been vanishing from Am Pics as of late. I'm sure Shyguy does some, and he says Laurel removes many... Ones that they don't remove (when they have removed others of mine in the past) must actually be okay after all...?

It's always been my understanding that Laurel was rather strict about the 18+ rule. It's why I've personally removed posts made my minors in the boards I watch over. *shrugs*


By the way, if we're not allowed to post "explicit" sexual pictures at Lit, as it seems the rules do say, why is it so many people have explicit avatars and/or they post very explicit porn pics (many with the web site's copyright mark on them) on many boards on Lit including this one?

 

[Etoile]

You know, ladies, I am not the only mod who reports violations of Lit in other boards. I've received many reported posts from Shyguy all the time.

Anyone can (and should) report posts that violate the rules. However, Catalina is right that you have all of a sudden been reporting posts like crazy. For some reason you even reported the "First experiences" thread on GLBT Chatter for having underage content, even though it was a sticky - did you really think that we would have made something sticky without knowing what was in there? I can understand a random post that contains age info, but reporting that entire thread makes it seem like you think the GLBT mods aren't doing our jobs. You also report things that aren't against the rules - several of your reports, when checked out, turn out to be mostly fine.

Your diligence is certainly respectable, but I think it might also be misplaced - especially since you don't seem to ever participate in GLBT Chatter (except for that barely relevant creampies thread), so it seems like you're just over there to do my job for me - Queersetti and I have it covered, thanks.

 

[BedtimeStories77]

Actually, as of late I've been reading several boards to see what is there. Didn't know I wasn't welcome in your board since I'm bisexual and not gay.

 

[Etoile]

Actually, as of late I've been reading several boards to see what is there. Didn't know I wasn't welcome in your board since I'm bisexual and not gay.

Don't give me that bullshit. You know damn well that is not what I said. You know damn well that I did not reference sexuality at all in my above post. You know you are putting words in my mouth.

If you decide you like the GLBT board and you want to become a participating member of that community, you are welcome to do so. But you have only posted to a couple of threads there, but you have reported on many more, so my point about it seeming like you are there only to do police work stands.

 

[BedtimeStories77]

Everyone is entitled to their opinions. I never said the words "you've said this to me", or whatever. Just making my own observations. At any rate, I am done hijacking Aeroil's thread with you now.

 

[Etoile]

Everyone is entitled to their opinions. I never said the words "you've said this to me", or whatever. Just making my own observations. At any rate, I am done hijacking Aeroil's thread with you now.

Okay, well, you need glasses or something, if that's seriously what you "observed" from my post. Because like I said, you know I didn't mention sexuality at all.

And anyway, Aeroil loves it when girls have catfights in his threads. Don't you Aeroil?

 

[Aeroil]

Okay, well, you need glasses or something, if that's seriously what you "observed" from my post. Because like I said, you know I didn't mention sexuality at all.

And anyway, Aeroil loves it when girls have catfights in his threads. Don't you Aeroil?

I'm waiting for the tops to come off.

I'm totally gonna get my little modified garbage collector arm and start removing them myself if it doesn't happen soon.

 

[Evil_Geoff]

Why does the phrase "glass houses" pop into my head all of a sudden?

 

[ammre]

Actually, as of late I've been reading several boards to see what is there. Didn't know I wasn't welcome in your board since I'm bisexual and not gay.

Well first... *takes her top off for Aeroil*

eve - I don't like you. You remind me of a troll. You contribute nearly nothing of value in the BDSM and GLBT sections but you manage to complain about them. Don't you have a life outside of this site? jeeze.
and NEVER even let the thought flit across your mind that etoile could be biased against people becasue of sexuality. Ugh... i mean really... ugh... I thought you paid so damn much attention, how could you have even come near that thought?

 

[ammre]

hey Aeroil? wanna play tag or like cops and robebrs... i'll pretend to tie you to a train track!


Hokay, so i've got some legitimate age-like questions to ask... Scratch that, it turned into a rant, but there are questions too!

I joined collarme on a whim and i've noticed a lot of comments like "Don't let anyone under 35 be your dom" " yonger people aren't as expierenced and can't be masters" and sure i can understand the sentiment, but really, if no one trusts someone under 35 then how are these people EVER going to GET the necissary expierence?

I'm in my early 20's, am I doomed to having a socially awkard relationship until i'm 35? I mean seriously now, i go out to a party with my other early 20-somethings and i'm suppossed to bring along George the 48 year old Dom, uh, i'm sorry, no. I'd like the person i'm in a relationship with to be part of my life, that means meeting my friends and family and if they are 12+ years older then I, that can only be an awkard situation. Not to mention we'd be at different places in our lives. I don't want kids, I want to be immature sometimes and I don't intend to move out of my home with my family anytime soon/ever.

I'd thought of saying, "if you're near double my age, you are disqualified"
But then I'll start talking to someone who i'm actually intreagued by and damnit they are 50 (it's rare but it happens), an I'm like, well, we could just play... but really i don't like the idea of a one night stand Dom.


I think it's SO FRUSTRATING being young and in this scene. Then you have those who like to have a time-based pissing contest,
"Well i've been into this stuff for 8 years!"
"So have I, you douschebag, but I'm 8 years younger then you and I wasen't allowed to be involved for 4 of those years. That means you only got involved around my age. Bravo."

 

[Aeroil]

Well first... *takes her top off for Aeroil*

yay ^_^

 

[Aeroil]

Hokay, so i've got some legitimate age-like questions to ask... Scratch that, it turned into a rant, but there are questions too!

I joined collarme on a whim and i've noticed a lot of comments like "Don't let anyone under 35 be your dom" " yonger people aren't as expierenced and can't be masters" and sure i can understand the sentiment, but really, if no one trusts someone under 35 then how are these people EVER going to GET the necissary expierence?

I'm in my early 20's, am I doomed to having a socially awkard relationship until i'm 35? I mean seriously now, i go out to a party with my other early 20-somethings and i'm suppossed to bring along George the 48 year old Dom, uh, i'm sorry, no. I'd like the person i'm in a relationship with to be part of my life, that means meeting my friends and family and if they are 12+ years older then I, that can only be an awkard situation. Not to mention we'd be at different places in our lives. I don't want kids, I want to be immature sometimes and I don't intend to move out of my home with my family anytime soon/ever.

I'd thought of saying, "if you're near double my age, you are disqualified"
But then I'll start talking to someone who i'm actually intreagued by and damnit they are 50 (it's rare but it happens), an I'm like, well, we could just play... but really i don't like the idea of a one night stand Dom.


I think it's SO FRUSTRATING being young and in this scene. Then you have those who like to have a time-based pissing contest,
"Well i've been into this stuff for 8 years!"
"So have I, you douschebag, but I'm 8 years younger then you and I wasen't allowed to be involved for 4 of those years. That means you only got involved around my age. Bravo."[/QUOTE]
Collarme is crazy. Listen not.

I do know a few friends who have 18-22 year old dominants. The one I have in mind is 19, his Domme is 20, I think. Were that I could ask him how that goes, but I almost never see him, and I really like him too so it's a shame : <

I sincerely do not believe that age brings wisdom, reflection and meaningful thinking about your experiences is what brings wisdom. Yeah, having experiences helps, but when you're not extracting anything from them, it's meaningless.

Being young and in the scene is not a ton of fun, hard to find a girl who's a Domme and not heavily repressed by social standards

hey Aeroil? wanna play tag or like cops and robebrs... i'll pretend to tie you to a train track!

Does this result in dirty things being done to one of us?

 

[Aeroil]

I think the avatar throws people off, maybe.

Pfft, how is a cute crossdressing anime boy on a leash confusing in any way?

 

[ammre]

Collarme is crazy. Listen not.

I do know a few friends who have 18-22 year old dominants. The one I have in mind is 19, his Domme is 20, I think. Were that I could ask him how that goes, but I almost never see him, and I really like him too so it's a shame : <

I sincerely do not believe that age brings wisdom, reflection and meaningful thinking about your experiences is what brings wisdom. Yeah, having experiences helps, but when you're not extracting anything from them, it's meaningless.

Being young and in the scene is not a ton of fun, hard to find a girl who's a Domme and not heavily repressed by social standards

Funny thing, i know, in real life, more Dommes my age then Doms.

Does this result in dirty things being done to one of us?

I sure hope so, we'd just have to find someone to do it.

 

[lil_slave_rose]

hey Aeroil? wanna play tag or like cops and robebrs... i'll pretend to tie you to a train track!


Hokay, so i've got some legitimate age-like questions to ask... Scratch that, it turned into a rant, but there are questions too!

I joined collarme on a whim and i've noticed a lot of comments like "Don't let anyone under 35 be your dom" " yonger people aren't as expierenced and can't be masters" and sure i can understand the sentiment, but really, if no one trusts someone under 35 then how are these people EVER going to GET the necissary expierence?

I'm in my early 20's, am I doomed to having a socially awkard relationship until i'm 35? I mean seriously now, i go out to a party with my other early 20-somethings and i'm suppossed to bring along George the 48 year old Dom, uh, i'm sorry, no. I'd like the person i'm in a relationship with to be part of my life, that means meeting my friends and family and if they are 12+ years older then I, that can only be an awkard situation. Not to mention we'd be at different places in our lives. I don't want kids, I want to be immature sometimes and I don't intend to move out of my home with my family anytime soon/ever.

I'd thought of saying, "if you're near double my age, you are disqualified"
But then I'll start talking to someone who i'm actually intreagued by and damnit they are 50 (it's rare but it happens), an I'm like, well, we could just play... but really i don't like the idea of a one night stand Dom.


I think it's SO FRUSTRATING being young and in this scene. Then you have those who like to have a time-based pissing contest,
"Well i've been into this stuff for 8 years!"
"So have I, you douschebag, but I'm 8 years younger then you and I wasen't allowed to be involved for 4 of those years. That means you only got involved around my age. Bravo."

my Dom is younger than 35, and he's a perfectly, wonderful, Sadistic, loving, Master i don't think age has much to do with it at all. maturity has A LOT to do with it though.

 

[Aeroil]

Funny thing, i know, in real life, more Dommes my age then Doms.



I sure hope so, we'd just have to find someone to do it.

lawlz

 

[graceanne]

First - that's a boy in your av, Aeroil? I would have never guess. *shakes head*

Beyond that I'm 28. I'm more of an adult than most adults I know. I agree that it's not fair to judge someone by their age, but it does happen (from both pov's). It's moot point, but if i were to look for a relationship i would not look at anyone younger than me. If a perfect guy fell in my lap I might be willing to reconsider, but I wouldn't look for them. *shrugs* But then look at the number of the younger ones (like me ) who are not in the slightest bit interested in anyone older than them. (I believe one of my 18ish friends said about someone over 30 - EW THAT'D BE LIKE FUCKING MY DAD.)

As to finding a younger dom/sub I'd bet that they're out there, but not in public areas for the same reasons you aren't there - the bias against younger dom's and sub's. I know of quite a few young doms. I know a lot more young subs . . . but I think we all do.

 

[Xelebes]

I find that putting yourself in social situations with lots of other young people, you might find one. I find internet to be quite lacking - maybe I'm not determined enough to use the internet for dating but I haven't got anywhere with it. On a purely social level, you might be able to score something.

Such situations may include going to concerts or parties and the sort.

 

[Aeroil]

I find that putting yourself in social situations with lots of other young people, you might find one. I find internet to be quite lacking - maybe I'm not determined enough to use the internet for dating but I haven't got anywhere with it. On a purely social level, you might be able to score something.

Such situations may include going to concerts or parties and the sort.

Parties are THE DEVIL!!!

 

[Xelebes]

Until you get shitfaced.

 

[Aeroil]

First - that's a boy in your av, Aeroil? I would have never guess. *shakes head*

Beyond that I'm 28. I'm more of an adult than most adults I know. I agree that it's not fair to judge someone by their age, but it does happen (from both pov's). It's moot point, but if i were to look for a relationship i would not look at anyone younger than me. If a perfect guy fell in my lap I might be willing to reconsider, but I wouldn't look for them. *shrugs* But then look at the number of the younger ones (like me ) who are not in the slightest bit interested in anyone older than them. (I believe one of my 18ish friends said about someone over 30 - EW THAT'D BE LIKE FUCKING MY DAD.)

As to finding a younger dom/sub I'd bet that they're out there, but not in public areas for the same reasons you aren't there - the bias against younger dom's and sub's. I know of quite a few young doms. I know a lot more young subs . . . but I think we all do.

I was about to upload another pic but I forgot that lit is A GODDAMN WHORE ABOUT LETTING ME UPLOAD IMAGES and so I have not.

 

[ammre]

I find that putting yourself in social situations with lots of other young people, you might find one. I find internet to be quite lacking - maybe I'm not determined enough to use the internet for dating but I haven't got anywhere with it. On a purely social level, you might be able to score something.

Such situations may include going to concerts or parties and the sort.

I have a hard time finding someone my age and serious in this area. I know or am somehow connected to everyone in the goth/rockey/renn/industrial scene in north jersey. There's a HUGE sway towards BDSM like activities there, but I find it really hard to find someone who's actually serious about and isn't just intreagued by the style or the thrill effect. Eventuitally I hope to get out to the NYC group and go to some of their learning demos and maybe a munch... other then that, it's mostly just left to hoping i get luckey with a vanilla who has a secret.

As for looking online... it's basically just that. I haven't met anyone from on the internet in well over a year. It's just a way to keep my eyes open in all the areas.


p.s. I don't do the drunk thing. Boo!