Dirty talk in bed

[absorb]

I was wondering what kind of dirty talk...
... you like to hear~~ I like to hear that I am sexy and wet and hot that it feels good to him.
... you like to say~~ I like to say right there, feels so naughty, fuck me harder, deeper, YES!

when you are with a lover. What turns you on?~~ I love to be kissed and nibbled on my neck and licked and sucked on my breasts.

 

[tonyp]

hmmm

love to tell a woman how had she makes me
how wet she feels
how i am going to pull her knickers down and spank her

 

[Hipshot1554]

Dirty talk does really turn me on when having sex, I love to be told that others are interested in me!

Why shouldn't the mental connection be as enjoyable as the physical connection? The mind can be fondled too.

 

[Itsahard1]

It makes me giggle inside when I'm talking dirty in bed and he says "keep talking"....
now how often does a guy say that to a woman...I'm just saying...

Some of us love to hear a woman talking dirty. Telling me exactly what she wants, or how good it feels, just makes we want to please her more. I enjoy the sounds of sex as part of the whole experience: the feeling, seeing, tasting, . . . and hearing her. The more stimulation, the more senses involved, the better. So, talk dirty to me. Scream or moan how you are feeling. It just makes it more exciting for both of us.

 

[clearlight30]

This is a good thread topic

I found out later in life just how much fun this is. I never really had the partners early on that were comfortable to go here.
I think that is one part of it. First you both have to be comfortable with each other- then it takes a bit of time to find out the right words each of you like to use and hear.
And then have a bit of compromise. If I know a woman really likes "A" to be said even though it may not be the top choice for me, we learn to share and she learns some of my top saying list and uses some of them.

The key is to find that middle ground where each feels they get to say what they want mostly and get to hear what they want mostly.

I find it helps at the begining to either send some messages by email or text first, or even just some notes left for each other. There is less stress in going about it as words first to test the water and see what is working, then begin to add how those conversations go to actual words with each other. The text becomes the testing ground for the later dirty conversation.

 

[coacheric]

My wife loves to talk dirty to her. Me explaining to her how good it feels to be fucking her, how I'm going to fill her full of cum and lick her well fucked pussy after. Tends to drive her crazy and almost never fails to make her cum. I can't get her to talk dirty to me but her moans and orgasms while I talk normally drive me over the edge also

 

[clearlight30]

I thought this thread would take off again
mmmm?

 

[funtimekary]

I was wondering what kind of dirty talk...
... you like to hear: Love to hear how great i feel. How hot this is, what a great pussy I have, etc. basically i love compliments about me, my body, my pussy
... you like to say: I usually tell them how great their cock feels inside me. how much i want them to cum. how big they are, etc.

 

[gabriel16]

Love dirty talk in bed

and telling her,.....

 

[legally_non_blonde]

I love to hear how much he wants me and what he wants to do to me and if he really does usually all I can manage are encouraging moans

 

[luv2bfkd]

I like having him telling me how sexy I am and how much he enjoys fucking me. How good it feels having the silky soft wetness of my pussy grasping his cock. I like being told how my pussy is nice and snug on his cock. Asking me how I enjoy having his cock in me, urging me to tell him how good it feels having his hard cock inside me. How he just wants to fuck me all night, or fuck me till I can’t walk. To hear him urging me to cum all over his hard cock and hear his satisfaction and pleasure of feeling the contractions of my pussy when I do cum. I want him telling me how I belong to him, that my pussy is now his pussy, his to master, his to fuck. I like him telling me how he is going to mark me as his and pump me full of his sperm.

I’m mostly urging him on, urging him to just give me that cock and fuck my brains out. I tell him how good it feels to have his cock buried way up inside me, filling me completely. I tell him how I love just how rock hard his cock is. I let him know that he’s fucking me really really deep, going way up inside me, and assuring him that is exactly what I’m wanting. I try to urge him on by letting him know how I want him to just fuck me. Things like ‘Fuck me…fuck me…fuck me.’ ‘Give me that big cock…give me all of it…fuck me as deeply as you can.’ ‘Make me cum…make me cum…I want to cum all over your hard cock.’ When I can feel he’s nearing his release I’ll urge him on even more. “That’s it…that’s it, baby…fuck me…fuck me. Now, cum in me…cum in me…shoot your hot cum deep inside me.’

 

[kingkoll]

i love a girl who talks dirty.i love telling a girl how slutty she is being,how hard she has made me.i love dirty talk.such a turn on

 

[DannyJay]

From your 1st post you seem like you're perhaps a little less experienced and looking for ideas.

As obvious as it may sound, with dirty-talk you want to work up, not down. Start mild, gauge the response, and either tone it down, or continue, the last thing to want is to insult the person you're getting intimate with!

If your sex life is in a relationship/marriage, all the better, as you can talk about what each of you likes, or would like. Remember that (especially if you're having sex with someone for the first time.) to not allow your dominance in the bedroom to turn into intimidation or degradation.

All that said, done right it is great fun.

edit: While I love both giving and receiving dirty talk, my biggest turn-off is just saying a load of stock-phrases like a porn star would. Practice and let it become natural and personal to you.

 

[Audrey DA Hottie]

usually dirty talk is assumed to mean degrading expletives. I dont think it needs to be so.

 

[Gerontion]

I like to think of it as natural talk. Talking about what feels good, and how good it feels. Letting it out, using whatever language is instinctive. Or talking about what we will do next, building anticipation. All the senses should be involved for great sex; hearing is one of the most important I think.
The nicest thing to hear - "Oh, FUCK, YES!!"

 

[Imp1982]

Dirty talk is a must. I need someone who tells me how it's feels, what he needs, what he's enjoying. Dirty talk turns me on so much more.

 

[bibethhotwet]

Yes it is a regular part of our sex. Sometimes it is directed toward each other. Telling each other what to do, how to do it, encouragement and so forth. Often it is fantasy chat involving ourselves and other. Always hot

 

[citychick29]

I have never been with a man who is a talker.... Well, maybe I have but he couldn't get a word in...

I would love, love, love to hear a man's carnal thoughts while he is using my body.

 

[Imp1982]

I have never been with a man who is a talker.... Well, maybe I have but he couldn't get a word in...

I would love, love, love to hear a man's carnal thoughts while he is using my body.

It is the best and most erotic thing during sex for me. It's wonderful.

 

[Ginger41]

love it

 

[XsNrg]

love it

I cannot imagine not talking in bed........and given what is happening there it is just natural it is descriptively dirty. IMHO

 

[vibes]

Without it sex is just like the first audioless movies

 

[MissBlondie]

i like to hear him tell me how much he wants me and what he is going to do next and I like to do the same

 

[kingkoll]

love having a girl who can get loud and talk really dirty.such a turn on

 

[nevergetenough]

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