lazyhobo
Literotica Guru
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In a sense, editing is necessarily being critical. It does take a certain effort and maybe skill to do it in a way that isn't hurtful. Humor is good, if you can muster it. If that fails, simply being clinical is a good fall-back position.
Sometimes when I'm by myself reading what someone else has written, I'll sit here swearing out loud. But that's never what I write on the paper, even if it's been submitted for a grade.
Different people respond to different methods;
If we take a PowerPoint presentation, you could display all the information in boring text, and people like myself would read it and understand, but for others, it could be confusing. You could add pictures for those ones, allowing them to understand, which may work against those that preferred the simple text approach.
Similarly, A lot of people respond well to feedback, comments and even jokes to mask something. But there will be others that require straight and blunt, to the point criticism. (Telling a volunteer author to stop writing is going too far though) But, when it comes to "How to break it to the author" its a slippery slope, because unless you know which way the author will respond to what method you employ in helping, you're shooting in the dark.