Do all f subs just LOVE sucking cock?

[catalina_francisco]

Re: Re: Re: I want my cock worshiped, worshiped I say!

Three lovers come to mind, I'll call them a, k, and l, could never be hungry little cock sucking whores because their mouths were too small for my penis.

Also I've found it hard to teach cock sucking skills. But women who seem to love it the most, have the best techniques. It's not enough just to have my cock sucked, but I want it sucked well. A bad one and you have to wonder if you are going to cum. A great one can get you off 30 minutes after you already came in her pussy.

30 minutes? What are you waiting for?!! Have to say either you love it or you don't and yes, it does seem to alter the way a woman approaches the whole thing. Servicing is one thing, but if your heart is only in it to please him, he is likely to miss out somewhere. Just my 2 cents worth.

Catalina

 

[redelicious]

Catalina

I just want to know why that banana is beating that poor fish.


And so this isn't a complete hijack, yeah I like giving oral sex.

 

[A Desert Rose]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: I want my cock worshiped, worshiped I say!

You probably don't play, or even care about golf, so I'm wasting my time with this analogy. But an 18 handicap golfer average is right around the average, maybe a little bit lower, or higher, I don't know. If my memory serves me correctly, you have to have a handicap of +2 to attempt to qualify for the U.S. Open. Cocksucking and golf are both skills. Can a service sub qualify for the U.S. Open? Hell no, even if it is a male sub and he does what he is told and loves every minute of it. It's like the guy that approached a club pro and said, "I'm 47, and have made more money than I ever dreamed of making, and I'm a pretty good golfer. If I quit my job and practice every day, for 3 years do you think I have future on the Senior Tour? The pro said look down there on the practice green. There is Tom Kite. He's won 19 tour events including the U.S. Open. He's 47 and has more money than he knows what to do with. He has no job and plans to practice every day for 3 years getting ready for the Senior tour.

I have no doubts you suck a good cock though.

I golf and what you are saying is that some people got it and some people don't. Not everyone can be like Tom Kite, no matter how much they practice...and not everyone can give great head no matter how many cocks they suck, is that correct?

 

[Arden]

Seems that way. I was reading a profile where this sub stated that she loved sucking cock more than anything in the world.

I would say that it's the man, and the mind within the man that gets my attention. A cock is just a cock if there is no emotional connection. When that connection exists, however, giving pleasure can be an incredible experience.

I'd guess the person whose profile you read was seeking attention. Not terribly unusual at Lit.

Looking at the picture from a different angle... I read BDSM stories here regularly, and have found that while many male Dominants post conservatively, their writings often give praise to their male Dominant characters as being more handsome or attractive than the submissive expected, are endowed with sexual organs that surprise and delight the submissive on their first meeting, and have incredible staying power, etc. Is that realistic?

Determining what is fantasy, and what is fallacy is the key. Some people bring fantasy into their profiles and posts because they want to, out of good natured fun. Others may see it as an ice-breaker, or a "get to know me quick" train of thought, while still being honest. The ones that mislead to get attention will get bitten in the butt sooner or later. Pretending to be something that you are not will come back on you, eventually.

 

[WriterDom]

One of the worst cock suckers I knew was a service sub. It wasn't out of lack of desire. She loved my cock, and loved my cum, but I never did cum in her mouth without help from my hand. Perhaps I should have brought in another female to give lessons.

The best were g, who later became a Domme and is still a friend, a lesbian who hadn't been with a man in 5 years, and a nurse sub. There are a few others that were skillful, but to be put in the best category, you gotta love cum.

 

[WriterDom]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: I want my cock worshiped, worshiped I say!

I golf and what you are saying is that some people got it and some people don't. Not everyone can be like Tom Kite, no matter how much they practice...and not everyone can give great head no matter how many cocks they suck, is that correct?

Or maybe it's an individual thing. What's bad to me might be great for someone else. I'm pretty confident about my pussy eating skills, but I know they don't apply equally to all women. Everyone is wired a little differently.

 

[Kajira Callista]

I think that when you really enjoy doing something, you do it well. Maybe the subs you have experienced just didnt like it? Semms you arent looking for a bj but a cumslut.....and there are plenty of those in this lifestlye. Just gotta know where ta look.

 

[sweetbea]

Well, for me, it depends. Do I love sucking a cock that is attached to a man who is silent, gives no indication of pleasure or constantly tries to ram his dick down my throat? No, not really.

Do I love sucking a cock that is attached to a man who is really into it, telling me how good it feels, petting my hair? Yup.

I suppose it is all about interaction for me. I like to feel that there are 2 people there, not just me and a cock. If I am giving head to someone who is very much into it (and I am in a comfortable position), I could do it for hours. I am not particularly fond of the blowjobs that are specifically to make someone cum. I want to spend a lot of time, teasing, licking, sucking.

Do I love when I make someone cum with my mouth? Hell yeah. I love for my partner to be satsified. Do I think cum tastes good? No, not particularly. I certainly wouldn't be in line to try out the new cum flavored Jelly Belly jelly beans But do I think it's disgusting? No. Do I desperately want it in my mouth after I have given someone a blowjob? Definitely.

 

[PinkOrchid]

 

[Krinaia]

Well, WD, as a woman with a small mouth and a bad gag reflex- I still have to say I've gotten high praise. I don't know if it was to spare my feelings but I did get a belly full - several times. But I was enthusiastic and wanted and worked at it. But if some grabs my head and starts thrusting into my face ... as sexy as it sounds and as much as i wish it could happen, i'd probably throw up and that would be very unpleasant.

It isn't the cock itself I love, it's the way i can make his legs twitch or his breath hiss betweeen his teeth in pleasure. It isn't about power exchange or anything. I like knowing he felt REALLY good and I like knowing I did a good job, I want to be proud of my work. Granted some days or some blowjobs aren't as successful as others and if that happens, I don't let myself feel ashamed or bad .. well maybe a little ... I just will have to find another way to make his orgasm sexy and possibly.

As dorky as it sounds, I think nine years of clarinet playing gave me a sort of oral fixation and certain level of skill I miss the feel of a clarinet in my mouth, of a reed on my tongue and they way my tongue slapped or tapped the reed and the reed vibrated in my mouth and my lips grew tight and sore after a few hours To have that endurance again.... at least I was proven correct when i found cock sucking is a great substitute for my old musical habits

 

[WriterDom]

Well, WD, as a woman with a small mouth

nothing wrong with a small mouth. Usually it means your other mouth is small too.

 

[Krinaia]

nothing wrong with a small mouth. Usually it means your other mouth is small too.

well I can't verify that per se but I'm under the circumstances I'd allow verificiation if you catch me drift


this theory is just that theory - but I'd wager money that quality of a blowjob is also entirely dependent on said male's standards. some girls might be good like i am at the licking bit more than throat fucking bit ... and if you're a guy that likes to just ram it home, well i will just have to offer you another choice of holes. doesn't necessarily mean i don't give a good blowjob, just might mean i don't give the kind of blowjob you like... i won't go so far as to say that all girls can give good blowjobs, i imagine many really are bad at it ... but i will go so far as to say it's all a matter of taste and skill development

i would also like to add that if a man goes into receiving with the thought in his head that i will be unable to make him come, then it makes it all the harder for me to do so ... but if he gives me the benefit of the doubt well he'll be more than satisified to know I did my damnedess trying

 

[WriterDom]

It doesn't need to be ramming, a kinder gentler blow job is fine. And I like to start early with a blow job so I'm usually pretty primed. I've always been multi orgasmic, and need 3 or 4 orgasms a session, so I can wear out a one holed girl pretty fast. If I get that release early, it allows me to focus more on you without the sexual tension getting in the way. Your sexual tension isn't as important since mainly you just have to react and not think.

well I can't verify that per se but I'm under the circumstances I'd allow verificiation if you catch me drift


this theory is just that theory - but I'd wager money that quality of a blowjob is also entirely dependent on said male's standards. some girls might be good like i am at the licking bit more than throat fucking bit ... and if you're a guy that likes to just ram it home, well i will just have to offer you another choice of holes. doesn't necessarily mean i don't give a good blowjob, just might mean i don't give the kind of blowjob you like... i won't go so far as to say that all girls can give good blowjobs, i imagine many really are bad at it ... but i will go so far as to say it's all a matter of taste and skill development

i would also like to add that if a man goes into receiving with the thought in his head that i will be unable to make him come, then it makes it all the harder for me to do so ... but if he gives me the benefit of the doubt well he'll be more than satisified to know I did my damnedess trying

 

[Krinaia]

It doesn't need to be ramming, a kinder gentler blow job is fine. And I like to start early with a blow job so I'm usually pretty primed. I've always been multi orgasmic, and need 3 or 4 orgasms a session, so I can wear out a one holed girl pretty fast. If I get that release early, it allows me to focus more on you without the sexual tension getting in the way. Your sexual tension isn't as important since mainly you just have to react and not think.

I know it isn't very submissive of me but if i can "control" the "ramming" action of a blowjob, then I can be sure to only take what I can handle as fast I can handle it. I just can't deep throat ... and i remember reading a how to on Lit once ... that was not only highly educational, but filled with good advice. The lessons I learned there served me well I should go back into the story section and figure out who wrote that thing ... I may have actually gotten to know the bloke (okay so I just saw an English film, so shoot me).

I think most men would say you are lucky to be so orgasmic. I myself have a hard time being completely satisified. Damned high sex drive. Sigh.

I'm not sure what you mean by my sexual tension versus your sexual tension. If the play session is about denial and is about my learning to give pleasure or make things for my partner very pleasurable ... well then my tension plays a very intense role. And in such a case, I do much thinking. Many analyses are performed and there is always a silent war... how far can I push myself out of my shell to be well "wow"ing ? Forcing me to into a position where I have to make all the moves - talk about torture that is pleasure. Okay sometimes an urgent need to just lick until I hear moans takes over but often there is more calculation and thought in it for that.

If, however, you were basing that on situations that revolve around my pleasure and not yours ... then I understand. But I would also enjoy watching you suffer your sexual tension whislt teasing me until that point where you just fucked me ... course who would I be to stop you, no one, I'm there for your pleasure anyhow. It's a fun game though - to see who begs first or rather if I beg first or if you just fuck me. Course, if that's the game, then I have to know it ... or i'll beg without needing to I rather have no shame about that - and I'll ask nicely too.

Sorry if it seems I went off on a tangent but the thread rather seems to be about finding fulfillment - through the ability of your partner to please you orally. I just think that you have to remember there are always ways to get around your partner's disappointing lack of talent. Not to say, I don't sympathize. I know it would be painful to be with a man who doesn't know to restrain me while he ravishes me or who does an inept job at it. Perhaps I'm still naive in thinking all shared acts of intamacy have their own beauty even if they are rather unsucessful attempts. I like the ones you can laugh about ... sometimes a shared laugh is better than a mind-blowing orgasm.



edited to add - i looked it up and here is the article I read here at Lit that taught me some basics for which I am grateful and I think gave me well grounded expectations .... http://www.literotica.com/stories/showstory.php?id=69353

 

[WriterDom]

Sexual tension

I don't know if it is normal male behavior to push a woman past the point of her begging to be fucked. I don't think most men would care about a blow job if the woman was purring "Please fuck me hard right now" in their ear.

Typically, what I like is some ritualistic D/s play with some nipple torture and pussy examinations, that sort of thing, but before getting too far along, I need to be pleasured, and at that point, I prefer the mouth. That drops my excitement level down from a 9 to a 3 or 4, and I am more focused on you at that point.

And to keep things interesting for the sub, you have to shake up the order of things at times so she doesn't know what is coming.

 

[SierraMoon]

i am a female sub who definitely LOVES to give my Sir blowjobs.... unfortunately we live in different states, so i can't do it for him as often as i would like to...

 

[Krinaia]

Sexual tension

I don't know if it is normal male behavior to push a woman past the point of her begging to be fucked. I don't think most men would care about a blow job if the woman was purring "Please fuck me hard right now" in their ear.

And that is such a shame.

I must say, I really enjoy waking up a guy be either stroking or sucking his equipment.

 

[WriterDom]

And that is such a shame.

I must say, I really enjoy waking up a guy be either stroking or sucking his equipment.

then you'd have no problem with my rule #8

8. The first thing you do in the morning is suck my cock. If I am still asleep, and you feel like I have rested enough, wake me that way. Rarely will you suck it to orgasm in the morning, unless it pleases me. I perfer intercourse in the morning. It's more of a symbolic gesture. After 20 seconds or so, you may ask to use the bathroom if you really need to go.

 

[Krinaia]

how many rules are there?

 

[WriterDom]

8 right now, and half or so are more rituals than rules.

 

[catalina_francisco]

8 right now, and half or so are more rituals than rules.

Oh man, at last count of Master's rules, I think there were 27....ugh and I am supposed to learn them word perfect, not just understand the content?!! Let's pray he does not then ask me to learn them In Dutch and Spanish!! LOL.

Catalina

 

[A Desert Rose]

I want a show of hands....

Does anyone really care if I like to suck cock?

I'd say that's a resounding NO.

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

I want a show of hands....

Does anyone really care if I like to suck cock?

I'd say that's a resounding NO.

I care...

 

[A Desert Rose]

I care...

Hey! I had a train of thought going here and you just knocked it off it's track.

 

[WriterDom]

Oh man, at last count of Master's rules, I think there were 27....ugh and I am supposed to learn them word perfect, not just understand the content?!! Let's pray he does not then ask me to learn them In Dutch and Spanish!! LOL.

Catalina

you might want to pray that he doesn't read your post.

Who thinks Catalina should learn the rules in Dutch & Spanish?

I do, I do.