Do ladies actually enjoy sucking cock?

[drobert44]

I had ONE lady who loved it.

 

[CuriousinPennsylvania]

I sometimes wonder if prompts like these are simply another way for the OP or others to be titillated by “women talk about how much they love sucking cock”. It doesn’t seem to be good faith, like a prompt that says “No woman looks good in short shorts”, designed as a troll to get plenty of pics of that same thing.

Like, no offence, but no one could reasonably see the sheer breadth of sexuality on display in Lit stories and the boards, much of which comes from women, and think “No, actually women do not like giving oral sex, one of the mildest forms of sexual intimacy”.

I apologise if I am wrong about this particular one, but yeah it seems a pattern.

There is no "good faith" involved. This is not a Public Service survey. OF COURSE, most of these "questions" are posed simply to titillate readers who visit these forums - and elicit responses that, in some fashion, help to satisfy their sexual urges. I visit these forums exactly for that reason. I'm not here conducting or participating in scientific research. This is a Sex Site that exists primarily to appeal to the prurient interests of visitors.

 

[Md6945]

All the guys I've been in a relationship with, I've gone down on. Did I enjoy it? Yes. Because I connected with them and loved them as a person. They didn't force me to suck their dick, I did it because I enjoyed being with them. Women are out there who do enjoy doing it. I think it just depends on the person.

Especially if they orally Pleasure you with the same every. The only time I didn’t like getting head was when it seemed like my partner didn’t want it as bad as I did

 

[Md6945]

Yeah, I can see that as an issue. I always try to please my partner. But that can be a bit frustrating when they don't want it as much as you do.

Exactly. If im tasting you, loving every lick and diving in to lick and suck until you cum on my face, I’d like to feel the same
When you’re deep throating my cock.

 

[AdriaRook]

........

 

[MissPennyLane]

I love doing it because I love making my partner excited for me and hard for me, I personally enjoy being degraded but I don't find the act degrading (I mean, unless I am being forced up against a wall or something, but again, as long as everyone's consenting I enjoy that interaction).

I also love precum, it's like a nod telling me I am doing the right things, so yes - I enjoy sucking dick and I do sometimes enjoy watching it in porn too

 

[zoso682001]

I love doing it because I love making my partner excited for me and hard for me, I personally enjoy being degraded but I don't find the act degrading (I mean, unless I am being forced up against a wall or something, but again, as long as everyone's consenting I enjoy that interaction).

I also love precum, it's like a nod telling me I am doing the right things, so yes - I enjoy sucking dick and I do sometimes enjoy watching it in porn too

And , no doubt you have a happy partner !

 

[Nightspeed]

When I was in my twenties and thirties nearly every girl I dated sucked dick. I can think of ONE that didn't. Now that I'm in my late fifties I haven't met anyone who will even think about doing it, but they sure want me to "take care" of their oral desires. I was with my last girlfriend eight years and never had a single blowjob from her. It's a good thing I love eating pussy but I miss blowjobs A LOT.

 

[Tahoe_granite]

In fact, since 2007, I have had ONE blowjob and she was terrible at it.

Really? I suppose that's possible, but its hard to imagine any blow job that couldn't be measured on a scale of all good things.

 

[the_single_gal_unconfidential]

it's gotten kind of harder, for me, these days.
physically.

 

[Hipshot1554]

The older I’ve gotten, the less I feel that it’s demeaning or a taboo, and so therefore the more it actually turns me on to control a man that way.

Actually it's not a bad way to be controlled.

 

[servant_heart]

I haven't had a decent blowjob since 2007. I was with a woman for eight years who wouldn't do it and after we broke up I was with someone else who was so bad at it I made her stop. When I was younger I met women all the time who were totally into it and loved it. Now, every woman I talk to around my age (45-60) tell me they won't do it.

WHERE ARE THE LADIES WHO WANNA??? WHEEERRRRE!!

*quietly raises her hand*

It literally is my most favorite thing.
I'm impressed that you told a woman to stop and I'm curious about what she did that was so bad.

 

[Hipshot1554]

*quietly raises her hand*

It literally is my most favorite thing.
I'm impressed that you told a woman to stop and I'm curious about what she did that was so bad.

He should have given her some pointers on what he liked...

 

[GabbyDebarres]

He should have given her some pointers on what he liked...

This is right. Not all men are alike and there's no such thing as a one size fits all blow job. From my experience, some men like varying degrees of sucking, others like more tongue, some less. Some like mouth and hands together playing with him, others have only wanted mouth only.

 

[zoso682001]

The worst one I had wasn't horrible !

 

[Hipshot1554]

This is right. Not all men are alike and there's no such thing as a one size fits all blow job. From my experience, some men like varying degrees of sucking, others like more tongue, some less. Some like mouth and hands together playing with him, others have only wanted mouth only.

All perfectly logical. Personally I like it slow.

 

[tristantrotsky]

Oral sex is a beautiful thing...
If your wife/partner/significant other won't suck your cock (and she's perfectly entitled to refuse) I'm sure there's a close friend who would be more than willing to help you out of that situation...
A mouth is a mouth, regardless of gender

 

[CuriousinPennsylvania]

Oral sex is a beautiful thing...
If your wife/partner/significant other won't suck your cock (and she's perfectly entitled to refuse) I'm sure there's a close friend who would be more than willing to help you out of that situation...
A mouth is a mouth, regardless of gender

A long time ago, had a girlfriend who didn't, but I also had a close friend (an older man) who was way more than willing to help (he craved cock and cum) and so he did suck my cock regularly and we both loved it.

 

[tristantrotsky]

A long time ago, had a girlfriend who didn't, but I also had a close friend (an older man) who was way more than willing to help (he craved cock and cum) and so he did suck my cock regularly and we both loved it.

I do love a story with a happy ending...

 

[CuriousinPennsylvania]

I do love a story with a happy ending...

Oh believe me, there were MANY Happy Endings.

 

[Nightspeed]

He should have given her some pointers on what he liked...

Well, as far as offering pointers go, I did try. She asked me to tell her how I liked it and I told her I enjoyed the head and my balls being sucked most of all as well as switching back and forth from her mouth to her hand. Teasing my frenulum with her finger or tongue was also very fun. But when she started I had to ask her to literally quit biting my dick and she tried to argue with me that every man she'd ever been with before was into that and I should be, too. When she moved to my balls, it was the same thing all over again. I don't mind a playful tease with someone's teeth but she was fucking chewing on me and it was very painful.

I finally got her to the point where she wasn't causing me any more pain, and then the moment my precum hit her tongue she began gagging and acting like she was about to vomit. I asked her if I tasted bad and she told me I didn't. I also told her that if she wanted to stop I was fine with it because I didn't want to make her feel uncomfortable. But she insisted on going back and her reaction every few seconds was as if she were fighting off the urge to puke. I suggested she just finish me off with a handjob and when I came in the palm of her hand she began to freak out, almost sobbing. She got up and ran to the bathroom and I could hear her talking to herself while taking several minutes to wash her hands.

In retrospect I should have listened to my dog. He has never once growled or acted upset if someone came over until that night. In fact, he generally ignores everyone after an initial greeting at the door. He planted himself in front of her and began snarling and baring his teeth. He was literally warning her to not enter the house. I got him to at least step out of her way so she could come in. Last Christmas she stopped by to say "Hi" but I had to talk to her outside. As soon as he recognized her he began the growling and teeth-baring all over again. I wasn't going to risk him biting her and then her having to make a visit to the ER.

 

[Hipshot1554]

Well, as far as offering pointers go, I did try. She asked me to tell her how I liked it and I told her I enjoyed the head and my balls being sucked most of all as well as switching back and forth from her mouth to her hand. Teasing my frenulum with her finger or tongue was also very fun. But when she started I had to ask her to literally quit biting my dick and she tried to argue with me that every man she'd ever been with before was into that and I should be, too. When she moved to my balls, it was the same thing all over again. I don't mind a playful tease with someone's teeth but she was fucking chewing on me and it was very painful.

I finally got her to the point where she wasn't causing me any more pain, and then the moment my precum hit her tongue she began gagging and acting like she was about to vomit. I asked her if I tasted bad and she told me I didn't. I also told her that if she wanted to stop I was fine with it because I didn't want to make her feel uncomfortable. But she insisted on going back and her reaction every few seconds was as if she were fighting off the urge to puke. I suggested she just finish me off with a handjob and when I came in the palm of her hand she began to freak out, almost sobbing. She got up and ran to the bathroom and I could hear her talking to herself while taking several minutes to wash her hands.

In retrospect I should have listened to my dog. He has never once growled or acted upset if someone came over until that night. In fact, he generally ignores everyone after an initial greeting at the door. He planted himself in front of her and began snarling and baring his teeth. He was literally warning her to not enter the house. I got him to at least step out of her way so she could come in. Last Christmas she stopped by to say "Hi" but I had to talk to her outside. As soon as he recognized her he began the growling and teeth-baring all over again. I wasn't going to risk him biting her and then her having to make a visit to the ER.

Dogs are generally good judges of character... maybe cock sucking talent too!

 

[Nightspeed]

Dogs are generally good judges of character...

True! I listen to him now...LOL

 

[zoso682001]

True! I listen to him now...LOL

Agreed !

 

[drobert44]

This. All of this exactly

Right you are, I had ONE dame in my life suck me dry..........