Do most men have a candaulism kink?

[impresso]

Bless the husbands who have this kink and are willing to share the physical beauty of their wives with us. There's a YouTuber I watch named The Silicon Siren. She posts more nerdy/computer content, but she has a wedding ring on her finger and is almost always braless and wearing a top that reveals how hard her nipples are underneath. I love that kind of tease, but I wonder how aroused it makes her husband to know that so many men are viewing her and becoming sexually aroused. I definitely would be if I were him.

And he probably reads the comments on her videos, looking for the most vulgar ones, when his wife is not at home and he can give free rein to his imagination and his hands... =)

 

[Kolejdayz]

I watched her and my hands worked over time too -- she the girl of my fantasies

 

[Grant789]

I cannot fathom being jealous (having a fit) over your husband wanting to play with another woman's breasts. It is SO ingrained in girls from a young age that boys will crawl over broken glass to see, touch and suck theirs. That's biology and no amount of marriage is going to cure it.

It seems even less understandable when wives have an opportunity to join in and get their share of lustful male gazes.

The other wives made it clear that they were not going to be naked in front of other guys. I think they would have been upset if their husbands were ogling or lusting over my naked wife.

 

[JackWilson0715]

I intellectually grasp why it would be hot, but I don’t kid myself. Hell, I wasn’t attracted to my wife, never mind anyone else

 

[Nellie60]

Hottest and attraction to someone else's wife or girlfriend is an individual thing. I may not understand why someone is attracted to my partner at times but yet I desire someone else's wife at times because of that thrill factor she belongs to another.

 

[Grant789]

The other wives made it clear that they were not going to be naked in front of other guys. I think they would have been upset if their husbands were ogling or lusting over my naked wife.

My comment above should have been: "I think they would have been upset if THEY KNEW their husbands were ogling or lusting over my naked wife." I'm sure they didn't want my wife in front of their husbands naked. Although I'd been friends with these couples for years (and knew the wives could be considered conservative or conventional regarding being risque) my wife (who often enjoyed being risque and daring) was new to the group.

 

[Whispor]

I just found her on YoTube and she certainly turns me on -- gave me a hard on actually. Some time back my wife played cello at a school concert, wedding ring visible. She had on a slitty black skirt and I could see all the men staring at her. She is small and thin and nerdy too.

Oh yes, the confident nerdy girls can be so arousing. Her nipples are mouthwatering! I hope it turns her husband on seeing how men lust over her the way it would me!

 

[liqueur]

My wife told me later that while supposedly talking to her their eyes were glued to her breasts. But she admitted her nipples "were standing at attention under their gaze" and she was proud that it was obvious they wanted to lick and suck

I'm wondering what else was standing at attention. Did she say?

 

[One_ping_only]

My comment above should have been: "I think they would have been upset if THEY KNEW their husbands were ogling or lusting over my naked wife." I'm sure they didn't want my wife in front of their husbands naked. Although I'd been friends with these couples for years (and knew the wives could be considered conservative or conventional regarding being risque) my wife (who often enjoyed being risque and daring) was new to the group.

In our friend group it seems as if my wife is sometimes the villain so to speak since she garners a lot of attention from the other husbands ........ but rightfully so I must admit. She's the prettiest and is in the best shape of her life atm and yeah jealously often plays a big part for the other wives so my wife is very cautious with what she wears and how she acts when everyone especially the wives are present.

On our days when it's just the guys watching a game and she's the only wife then she's much more relaxed and not tense at all ...... if anything she eats up the guys attention and I love every moment of the afternoon watching them banter and joke around with her tbh.

 

[liqueur]

On our days when it's just the guys watching a game and she's the only wife then she's much more relaxed and not tense at all ...... if anything she eats up the guys attention and I love every moment of the afternoon watching them banter and joke around with her tbh.

I hope on those days she (un)dresses provocatively.

 

[One_ping_only]

I hope on those days she (un)dresses provocatively.

Nothing too, too crazy nor provocative tbh because she doesn't want to be too obvious with my friends so leggings during the winter and probably a simple yet sexy sundress during the summer is usually her " go to " attire when they're around.

I'd have no issue if she ever did decide to entertain the guys with beer and chips wearing one of her numerous sexy lingerie outfits but yeah that ain't happening anytime soon

 

[liqueur]

Nothing too, too crazy nor provocative tbh because she doesn't want to be too obvious with my friends so leggings during the winter and probably a simple yet sexy sundress during the summer is usually her " go to " attire when they're around.

I'd have no issue if she ever did decide to entertain the guys with beer and chips wearing one of her numerous sexy lingerie outfits but yeah that ain't happening anytime soon

Hardly anything sexier, in my mind, than a simple sundress, with little to nothing underneath.

 

[jchtlit]

Hottest and attraction to someone else's wife or girlfriend is an individual thing. I may not understand why someone is attracted to my partner at times but yet I desire someone else's wife at times because of that thrill factor she belongs to another.

I agree completely. My wife is an attractive women that some men find sexy and as far as I am concerned I have no problem with that. I get the opinion that she appreciates the satres and attention though she would never admit it.

 

[Nellie60]

I had a couple of ex girlfriends in the long gone past, that were both very attractive and men magnets.

I enjoyed the attention they got from others particularly from strangers who liked to flirt with them. However I wasn't agreeable if they intentionally lead guys on or were touching some bloke in a suggestive manner.

Yet the odd thing was it was the very thing that I fantasied about, them making the move on another man and seeing how she reacts to him. One became a reality only cause I consented and was present to watch.

 

[TryingTooHard]

I have this major candaulism kink that is on my mind constantly. Even if it isn't nudity maybe as simple as going out with my wife and she is braless showing lots of cleavage or a tight shirt that shows her nipples and areolas just turns me on. We took a cruise once and men and women couldn't take their eyes of her boobs. I was in heaven watching all this.
Do others enjoy showing off their wives or wives that loved being showed off as much as I do?

Being able to persuade your wife to wear skimpy thin dresses in Summer that show off her panties and body is breathlessly arousing, especially if men are around and they then approach us.

 

[OralAllOver]

Generosity!

Pizza, beer & wives: some things BETTER when shared

 

[Theatreslut]

Is this kink the same thing as enjoying sharing pictures of your partner? If so, my husband absolutely does

 

[liqueur]

Is this kink the same thing as enjoying sharing pictures of your partner? If so, my husband absolutely does

It is indeed.

 

[One_ping_only]

Being able to persuade your wife to wear skimpy thin dresses in Summer that show off her panties and body is breathlessly arousing, especially if men are around and they then approach us.

I'm fortunate that I don't need to persuade my wife per we to wear something nice but sexy since she dresses this way on her own. I learned early in our relationship that she likes to dress " nice " to make herself feel good ......... not necessarily to garner attention from other men so she says?!?!?

I leave it alone and simply wait until she's done getting herself dolled up and she never disappoints tbh