Do women find straight guys that like anal play sexy or disgusting?

I personally used to find the idea rather repelling. That was, until, I had a man that was trusting enough to tell me all of his fantasies, which included anal play. It was so hot and in the moment, it definitely changed my mind. Anything that turns on my partner, usually turns me on, just seeing him writhing in pleasure. It wad definitrly an experience, getting to feel him from the inside. He came so hard.....I now find myself thinking of his tight little butt when I am aroused and look forward to playing out any and all of his fantasies in the future. I guess, to me, what makes it really hot is that he told me his fantasies and I can help make them come true....:)
 
I personally used to find the idea rather repelling. That was, until, I had a man that was trusting enough to tell me all of his fantasies, which included anal play. It was so hot and in the moment, it definitely changed my mind. Anything that turns on my partner, usually turns me on, just seeing him writhing in pleasure. It wad definitrly an experience, getting to feel him from the inside. He came so hard.....I now find myself thinking of his tight little butt when I am aroused and look forward to playing out any and all of his fantasies in the future. I guess, to me, what makes it really hot is that he told me his fantasies and I can help make them come true....:)
i too find it very hot and love his ass. Men often are too shy to share their desires.
 
Trust + Intimacy + Incredibly Sexy Sensations

I personally used to find the idea rather repelling. That was, until, I had a man that was trusting enough to tell me all of his fantasies, which included anal play. It was so hot and in the moment, it definitely changed my mind. Anything that turns on my partner, usually turns me on, just seeing him writhing in pleasure. It wad definitrly an experience, getting to feel him from the inside. He came so hard.....I now find myself thinking of his tight little butt when I am aroused and look forward to playing out any and all of his fantasies in the future. I guess, to me, what makes it really hot is that he told me his fantasies and I can help make them come true....:)

What a powerful mixture of erotic discovery and vulnerability when a man confides his interest, discloses such an intimate means of enjoying sexual pleasure with his lady! As you indicate, being inside him during sex and experiencing his arousal and release in such a manner was a huge turn-on for you and created a mind-blowing orgasm for him.

Have you shared how very, very arousing this intimacy is with any of your girlfriends? Is there a way to let them know what they're missing without referring specifically to yourself? More women need to know about this glorious intimacy and how it can drive their men wild.

And what a nice addition to your own fantasy life -- perhaps you are devising wonderfully erotic scenarios for future explorations of his "tight little butt"?
 
I'm just glad this wasn't placed in glbt, LOL.

I think a guy who takes it up the ass is smart. Prostate play feels good. If you're too homophobic to get with what feels good, I feel sorry for ya.
 
I enjoy slightly fingering my ass when masterbating doesn't seem gay to me just a lot of fun and sometimes ill find something to use every now and then its not wrong is it? No just furthers ones excitement.
 
I have brought the subject up with women on quite a number of occasions, and mostly outside of people that would be openly into "kink" I have found it rare for them to be absolutely repulsed (only had that once), some are indifferent, but mostly they are quite enthusiastic and excited by the idea. It is usually the quiet shy ones that get really turned on by it. I was first introduced to anal play through my own liking, after a couple of months of slowly working my way to licking my girlfriends arse whilst going down on her, she eventually asked me did I want to fuck her in the arse, which I did. I had never even dreamed of anyone doing it to me, but with my next lady, I began eating her arse (in the hope of getting to fuck her in the arse also) and, she used to touch around my anus in foreplay, which I thought nothing of, and on occasion would like on top of me whilst I was on my stomach and gently undulate her hips, pushing her pussy against my arse. When I started to push my arse into her a little, she lubed up a finger, and finger fucked me like that with her hand between her legs, and it just went on from there. From that point on, I found the best way (if you werent quite at the point of asking for some arse play) to start things off was by eating the ladies arse. It nearly always ended up with her reciprocating with my arse in one way or another.
 
I've found that the type of women I'm attracted to are very sensual,highly sexed and very open minded. This is a must as I've grown older and have become more comfortable with my sexual likes and needs and my willingness to share my thoughts about anal pleasure.
When I was was much younger I hesitated to say " I like my ass played with..." for fear of being looked at like I was bi or gay. I think most young guys have that fear.
Nowadays I don't care.
It feels good and I really enjoy anal both recieving and giving.
I've been lucky enough to have met some wonderfull females who like myself enjoy seeing their partner completely turned on and are openminded enough to explore.

I've found that they appreciate a man who can be comfortable enough with himself to just say what he likes and not feel awkward or shy.

Getting older does have its benefits.
 
Off topic but why are si many Aussie women open minded?

On topic, I think it it as varied as possible. Women run the gamut but I do think that among the Fet community including BDSM you will find more openness to things like ass play, pegging etc.
 
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