Jaime_H
Seahorse in a tree
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Well, you've been nice so far.![]()
Ah, but you haven't answered the question....

Better tell me privately....
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Well, you've been nice so far.![]()

I would much rather see an outline thru a pair of swimmers or undies or even a pair of tight jeans than an outright cock shot. I so much prefer letting my imagination do the work. I find this very erotic.
I am curious to get your opinions on this and don't worry if you say, "yes I love them!" I won't be sending one.
When I look at my own cock I think, "wow it is a miracle all women are not lesbians, I would not be turned on at all at the sight of this," not that there is anything wrong, it's a perfectly fine penis, but the female body is just so much sexier and I could look at different pictures all day long and never get tired of it.
So, my three part question is does it turn you on to get a dick pic? What would you like to see if not a dick pic? Or are no pictures at all your preference and you'd just like to be dazzled with words alone?
Not especially.
Disembodied genitalia does nothing for me at all. So just a picture of a penis is a yawn.
If said penis was attached to someone I was attracted to, and said penis was hard, and the owner of that penis gave me cause to believe the reason it was hard was in some way related to me, then, yes, that would be a turn on. Especially if there were some accompanying wordsmithing with some details surrounding what happened in the denouement.![]()
You had me at disembodied genitalia
<<So, my three part question is does it turn you on to get a dick pic?>>
As has been said here before, I don't care for them when they're given unsolicited.
I prefer to get them during or after we've played online or on the phone, in context.
<<What would you like to see if not a dick pic?>>
Chest, arms, hands. And I have/will actually request such pics. I find the men are quite willing, but there's often first a "Seriously? Just roll up my shirt sleeves and get you a shot of my hand/forearm? Oooook, sure." But usually after my enthusiastic response, they are much more game the next time around to take any photo I ask.
Or if we've not played yet, receiving a cock-teaser photo then, NOW THAT is yummy beyond words and so damned fuckin' sexy... similar to one that HoldYouDown has in his profile, with the silhouette of a hard cock through a pair of dress pants.
Through anything: bedsheets, jeans, underwear... that's considerably more of a turn-on for me far more often than just flat-out nekkid penis, hard or soft, especially if we haven't chatted, texted or talked much.
As for the tangent question about cock avatars, I don't feel strongly about them either way. Even though I frequent Lit and FetLife and am no prude, I just simply don't get it... the presenting of your cock or tits in your profile pics, certainly nothing wrong with it on adult sites, but I still prefer the dance, the subtlety of getting to know someone online, both mentally and visually. That's just my choice, no judgments.
The rare instances where I've accepted a man's invite to watch his webcam, I've already gotten to know him, a bit non-sexually as well as sexually and usually I have already had a "true" hand in getting his cock hard and then some with our voice chats. To see him getting hard because of my voice and my mind is a huge turn-on. Sharing pics at this point feels like a natural extension of the other things I've been doing with him.
<<Or are no pictures at all your preference and you'd just like to be dazzled with words alone?>>
I'm an old fashioned gal, if I can't get the real-life/in-person deal, then my next choice is phone sex/voice chat. Yes, I am ok to text, cyber, trade pics, watch porn together... but I am more often an aural gal than a strictly visual gal if I have a partner at the moment.
T.
I love the human body in general. It's an amazing piece of kit. I like seeing how the make and female bodies differ in all ways. And yes, that includes female breasts and pussy and the male cock.
Do I love seeing cock pics ? Yes I do. I find human arousal fascinating and beautiful. A slick, ripe pussy and a hard cock ready to fit together ( thinking in purely het terms here of course. )
That said, having lots of chat as well does make an online encounter sweeter. I want to get some idea of what's in a guy's brain, otherwise what he has between his thighs loses my interest with great speed.
Other than cock. I'd go with whatever other body parts he's comfortable with showing.
IMHO the mind is the biggest sex organ there is.
