Do you always masturbate to orgasm?

[fullservice65]

Yes - I have no self-cumtrol.

 

[alexx_is]

Okay so for those that manage to edge, how the heck do you stop yourself when you're so close? I try but then seem to hit the point of no return and there isn't any stopping me then, I NEED to cum.
And does it really make your orgasms even better??

I was thinking the exact same thing while reading through the comments. I admire your self control, people.

 

[angelicecstasy]

I am a virgin, so I don't know if this is why, or if maybe I'm doing something wrong?? But I have never reached an orgasm, ever, and I masturbate plenty.

 

[irishblade]

I was thinking the exact same thing while reading through the comments. I admire your self control, people.

Thank you. I admire your beauty Lol

 

[Liz3223]

I am a virgin, so I don't know if this is why, or if maybe I'm doing something wrong?? But I have never reached an orgasm, ever, and I masturbate plenty.

Part of being able to really have a great orgasm is knowing what makes you feel good not what makes other people feel good. You say you masterbate plenty and i am guessing you are focused on your pussy becasue that is what seem to work for many people. I would guess you dont reach orgasm because you just have not been able to discover what feels just right and wnat you need to do to help you feel good. I love to masturbate but when i do it with another person it is even better or when i see two people really having great sex , the visual makes it more intense for me

 

[Kitschshaman]

I am a virgin, so I don't know if this is why, or if maybe I'm doing something wrong?? But I have never reached an orgasm, ever, and I masturbate plenty.

There really is no right or wrong, there is only what feels good, what touches you, what makes your heart quiver. I suspect that number one you need to relax a little and not try to make yourself feel better, but let yourself feel, period. It doesn't matter how long it takes. I had a lady friend years ago who took upwards of 45 minutes, but when she finally did she climaxed so powerfully she would almost pass out. No pun intended, but relax, it will come.

 

[L8tnIt]

I have grown to really appreciate how to edge myself, and save the climax for much later. I like how I can truly burst when I have had a good, long period of edging. I have learned that I can regularly build the pressure & tension to shoot my own load so hard that it hits my own shoulder or chin.

 

[BongoGal]

Okay so for those that manage to edge, how the heck do you stop yourself when you're so close? I try but then seem to hit the point of no return and there isn't any stopping me then, I NEED to cum.

The trick is to stop before you hit the point of no return.

And does it really make your orgasms even better??

It can, for some people, at least. Some of the best orgasms I've ever had have been the result of trying to resist having them at all. The delay builds it up and makes the end result more explosive.

 

[Jaime_H]

Yep......

 

[xLaurax]

Yes. Always climax.

 

[PleasePeesMe]

Yes.

Eventually.

 

[raysallx]

There is a downside to edging for guys. You can get so used to it that you then have trouble actually coming when the woman desires it. I've had women get tired/sore because I held out too long...

As for how to do it without coming, you simply have to stop before reaching the point of no return. Practice makes perfect!

 

[DiskoTroop]

of course I do unless of course my mother, the police, my boss, the pope, or my children arrive unexpectedly

 

[HoldYouDown]

I'll edge sometimes but eventually there's always an orgasm.

 

[nakedworld]

I nearly always go on to have an orgasm. I don't often get the chance to stop and then restart a couple of hours or so later. There could be two or three days before I get another chance and I won't wait that long.

 

[Saudade9]

Edging

My orgasms are more intense after edging.

 

[BareBackRider2]

Odd topic.

What's odd is when I think about my answer.

These days I seldom cum while masturbating.

I'll nipple play more than anything. But I can even stroke away and not cum.

But when we have sex, I cum almost instantly and can't help myself.

I never used to. I used to hold off until after my wife and with no effort.

These days, once I'm inside.... It's over.

 

[fma20fma]

hi

I am more thrilled to watch guys on cam and txt them my encouragement when I watch them do it to their climax.

 

[OpenMouth]

I would say about half the time at most. I love to edge, sometimes for days on end. I've gone 40+plus days of almost daily edge sessions before cumming.

I look at it as two separate activities, masturbating and cumming. There are times where I just need to masturbate..to feel my hand gliding up and down my greased up cock. Then there are times (though much less often) where I just need to pop off a load and get on with things.

What he said! I enjoy the feeling of tight, aching balls and a slight 'edginess' to my personality.

I've never gone more than a couple of weeks, though...

 

[leather_spitfire]

I don't always go until I have an orgasm, sometimes it's just not practical. like if there's nothing nearby to clean up with, for instance. Interruptions are fairly frequent for me too so there might be 20-30 mins , even a few hours before I can get back to what I was doing and have an orgasm. I'm not really in to self denial though, no will power!!

 

[FloridaSmoothie]

Sometimes life has a funny way of interrupting.

In those cases, I didn't think the interruption was funny at all!

 

[Lisalit13]

Uh...yes!

 

[NC_OBX80]

Uh...yes!

Exactly!!!

 

[Dreamer110]

Uh...yes!

Women have an advantage.

 

[KINKYCanada]

Depends how tired I am! I certainly try too though!