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Do you know the fetishes of your friends or family?

I probably know more about some of my female friends kinks than I know of my wife's fantasies/fetishes.

One of these friends is extremely attractive and we have a lot in common. So much so that since she's been around, my wife has been stepping up the frequency and intensity that we get frisky. Even if I just mention this woman, it seems like it triggers something.

Wife has no clue about her sexuality though, just that her and I get along really well and both drive "crazy" after seeing us play cat and mouse on the freeway (I drive fast, she drives crazy. I won't do a 4 lane dive like she will).
 
I know a kink of a female friend. She and I have never slept together though I know she's fancied me. One or both of us has always had a significant other. Anyway one time she told me that her first porn experience was with a female friend of hers and that they watched gay male porn. She also said one of her fantasies is watching two guys do things to each other. Note: in the right circumstance, I'd go along with some of this for her (though not full on gay sex) if she wanted.
 
Gina42E said:

Do you know the fetishes of your friends or family?​

Not of our family, nor most of our friends.

But of the friend whose fetish we do know…. It’s because we shared the same fetish with them mmmmmmmm Gina x
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And that fetish would be….?
 
live4thebj said:
Ex GFs
Hardcore torture BDSM porn
Incest specifically father daughter
Animal porn
Bondage
That is the only ones I can think of but sure there is more.
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Same here. An Ex GF into same. All of the above except BDSM or Bondage. Found a stash of gay male story books my older brother had. It wasn't a surprise they ended up sort of turning me on as well a bit reading them and looking at the nasty b&w cartoon porn like pictures in these older books. And I'm not gay or bi & as far as I know neither was he. And I know a lot more about my own adopted adult daughter's sex life than I should because her mother/my wife has always been a big mouth. Also her now passed on sister's sex life & her sister's husband also because of the same exposing talk. Smh. LOL. The entire spectrum of what I've found out about other's kinky sex lives has aroused my own fantasies in life.
 
It may have been comedian Larry Miller who said, "Nothing so fascinates me as my orgasm. And so utterly bores me as yours."

My boss was away and called me to ask me to find some documents for him. He directed me where to look in his office. This was in pre-cellphone days. I looked and found the things he wanted. And then I snooped a little. In the drawer where I had been told to look, in the back of the drawer, were bondage fetish magazines.

I am not one to yuck someone else's yum. But I was fascinated that these magazines were, essentially g-rated. All of the models were females, fully-clothed, most in dresses or skirts and blouse combos. They were all white women, attractive and made up. And tied up in various ways. They did not appear hurt or distressed. Some smiled. Some were impassive. Most were slender. Some were busty. But aside from the ropes, there was nothing overtly sexual.

Anyway. Now I knew something I didn't really care to know about my boss. Lesson: Don't snoop unless you can handle what you find.
 
Well, I know a lot of my ex's fetishes of course. And, I know some of my best friends. But, not to many of my family and other friends . Most people keep them pretty secret. Unless, you do stupid things like I do. Getting carried away with challenge selfbondage is a good one. Or, even worse! Somehow syncing the dirty photos in your phone to Facebook without knowing. That really outs you to the world. So embarrassing!
 
I think certain personality types tend to be more observant than others, and if you spend enough time with people, some of the more observant people can see patterns and make inroads as to what others around them have for preferences. I mean, people tend to bring up what they like a lot, so noticing trends, can be suggestive.

For instance, in a non-sexual way, you can tell who are functioning alcoholics when they bring up the topic quickly, or without provocation. It is the same with sex; a coworker brings up bare feet a lot, telling me he has a barefoot fetish. But I can also see trends with my brothers, and my what my father liked while growing up, as they mentioned things that were indicators of their particular fetishes.

But I can even see it in some streaming series. By watching enough episodes, you can see trends as well. One show I watch a lot of; for instance, has had women without shoes, but wearing pantyhose several times. While I admit it worked with the storyline making it non-fetisy, to do so as many times as they did, and not having to write the screenplay that way, that tells me, the writer of that streaming series probably has a fetish for that.
 
As has been said in a few posts on this thread when you are around people long enough you pick up on certain cues from them, how they look at a certain person wearing certain clothes, or how they smoke a cigarette or a great many number of things and you start gain some insight in to them.

As children we observe out parents and how the behave and what the do, habits good or bad, we may not know what any of it means at the time but as we grow older those things stick with us providing more insight to things as we get older

I know a lot of people may not agree or even what to admit they know it, but I guess most of us may know some kinks and fetishes our family members or close friends may have. In some cases families can be so open about things youndont need to look hard to see them.

When it comes to my family it's just mum and myself, ny dad walked out when I was young so it was just the two of us while i grew up, now i know mum wasnt and still isnt perfect and i will never expect her to be so nor would i want her to be. She is the woman who raised me tended to cuts and bruises, looked after me when i was ill so I accept her for all her faults as well her good side .

From an early age after my parents split I saw most of my mums kinks and.maybe some of her darker side too, she loved sex back then and still does today and she never hid that from me, For me all I saw was an endless procession of different men going to and from her room through out my childhood, some stuck around longer than others but there was never anyone who lasted longer than a year. When she started smoking it was as I found out later due to a partner who had a smoking fetish, and over the years i noticed many times how she would change the way she smoked when she saw a guy watching her at the time I didn't know why but as I grew older it became clear she to had embraced that same fetish, she would later admit it to me herself..



Does it shock or surprise me that I also share that same fetish? I think in most cases we learn them subconsciously picking them up from those we see as role models in our lives.
 
CurtGiles46 said:
Do you know if your friends and family have fetishes?

When my younger brother was 19, I found his stash of my older sister’s bras and panties. She had been away at college for several years by then. She must have left some of her old underwear at home and my brother found them. I’m certain he was using them to masturbate.

I kept my brother’s secret because I knew I was in no position to judge him since I had gone through my mother’s underwear drawer.

My father appears to have an exhibitionism fetish. When he was hospitalized for a small stroke, he kept exposing his penis to the female nurses at times when they surely did not want to see it.
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I have a good friend that I know likes wearing women's underwear and is a total sub. He often talked of me fucking him, but it never happened as he lives in another state from me.
 
I will have to pay attention to things more too. It can be hard to spot.
I do wish I knew some of my friend's fetishes and what not.
Got one friend I'd love to make him a bate buddy or suck buddy as well as one neighbor too. Yet, don't want to fuck up the current relationships.
 
Yes, I did have to check that one out. It was werid seeing a male dog and female having sex. The dog licking her and in her for a bit bulb included.
Reminded in jr I was taking care of the neighbors golden and was up playing with him and what not. They didn't give me house keys everything was in the yard and garage but I had to pee and didn't want to run home. The dog came over just after I finished peeing and maybe I did stoke myself for a moment too. I didn't expect him to lick my cock oh wow that tongue gave me a feeling that made me shutter.
 
I know my wife has fetish for big tits.

One night at a party a drunk friend of a friend was talking to her and pressing her huge tits into her. My wife was groping me all the way home and she came almost immediately when I slipped a finger inside her dripping wet cunt when we got to our bed.

This was completely unexpected, since she is, unfortunately, rather prudish. It took some digging on my part, but she finally admitted what turned her on so much. Even today, if I can get a glass or two of wine in her and point out a woman with pendulous breasts, I know I'm going to get laid.
 
My boss is a super freak and she shares some interesting details and I’m a closet freak and think we’d have so much more fun if we could talk about, BUT afraid to cross that line and then I’d be afraid we’d end up fucking (we’re both married, she fucks around and I have in the past) and that could be bad.
Example, she told me she does not wear panties and has multiple vibrators that she has told me about. Ugh.
 
lg_65 said:
My daughter moved in with her fiancée suddenly in the early months of Covid. Went to stay with him for a couple weeks and it became permanent. I wanted to use her bedroom so I packed up everything in it for her to pick up later. In her bedside table I found her vibrator, a ball gag, and a bunch of gay male erotica. I don’t spend any time thinking about it or trying to visualize things but it does make me slightly curious about their sex life. And to be fair, if she was ever snooping around our room we had toys stashed all over she could have found, and I’m 100% sure she and her sister would have heard their mom while we were having sex. They probably thought it was disgusting but I can only hope they are having as much fun with their husbands as their parents have had together!
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Great attitude about kids sex lives, just gotta hope that it safe, fun, and satisfying
 
God, I wish I didn't.

My parents divorced when I was teenager, I went to live with my dad. He had a foot fetish and he was not shy about telling random women about it, in public, with me standing right there. He was so casual about it, too. I tried to get him to stop, but he never did.

I know my younger brother has a foot fetish, too. I know this because he saw a foot video that had my name in the title, and he checked with me to see if it was mine. It wasn't.

My mom has told me she's not into any kinky shit, but she did randomly tell me that my dad had a foot fetish, as if he had not brazenly revealed that to me himself. She also told me that she's done shit with other women, but doesn't think she's bisexual.

I can't overstate that I learned all of this against my will.
 
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