I fully resonate with what you describe. So great that in Germany, Switzerland, etc the saunas are truly textile-free nudist zones. Can’t wait for my next visit… and how exciting it would be to bump into you. Wondering which part you like more “sehen oder gesehen werden”?Depends very much on who and where. For example, I really enjoy being looked at in the sauna. Yes, I know, the sauna is an asexual place for most people. But not for me. Where I'm naked with naked people, there's always a certain tension for me. Maybe because it's not normal for me, because I go to a sauna maybe 5-6 times a year.
But I have absolutely no desire to meet my boss in the sauna, but that's probably a classic.