do you take it up the ass - your input needed

I promise to keep you posted. . . I've gotten wonderful words of encouragement and advice from several of you. . .

:rose: :kiss: :rose:

Nobody has volunteered though. . . . . . :confused:
 
Point me in the direction of 'your own little world' and I'd love to try and make your first time a great experience.

Dunno if the gf would be overly impressed though :rolleyes:

Although what an offer, accept it, turn it down, accept it, turn it down, accept it. Just as well I found a rosebud with 5 petals. :)

When can we start.:rose:
 
too far

Braveheart_1969 said:
Point me in the direction of 'your own little world' and I'd love to try and make your first time a great experience.

Dunno if the gf would be overly impressed though :rolleyes:

Although what an offer, accept it, turn it down, accept it, turn it down, accept it. Just as well I found a rosebud with 5 petals. :)

When can we start.:rose:


I'm in the U.S. - so there's at least an ocean separating us. What a shame. . . . .but we can still play, right?
:kiss: :kiss: :kiss:
 
Oh damn, I always wondered where 'my own little world' was, now I know.

But hey it's only an ocean, what is that when the prize on offer is so great, I'd have a crack at swimming it if I thought I could make it.:)

I'd love to play with you cutie pie (your name certainly seems to suit your personality). Drop me an email if you like.

Have a big smacker from me :kiss: , wherever you want it ;)
 
cutie pie said:
I promise to keep you posted. . . I've gotten wonderful words of encouragement and advice from several of you. . .

:rose: :kiss: :rose:

Nobody has volunteered though. . . . . . :confused:
Cutie pie: I am in the us Arizona, and even though i have never had anal i would love to try, and i promiss to go slow. so let me know sweet thing. ethan
 
Taking it anally

Dear nineincheslong,

I have found that if approached and treated properly, every woman will take it up the ass, so to speak. I have had anal sex with every woman which I have had a steady, or serious relationship.

The relationship thing, or how it is perceived is the key. Not every woman is going to get on her knees the first date, unless the just happen to like it.

In addition I have found that most women will orgasm this way as well.

Good luck in your survey.


Wolf
 
I never had anything more than a finger in my butt, but I love having it licked, hmmmmm.

I think my concerns about anal sex are more about cleanliness than actually doing it.

I don't think I would want to suck a cock that had been up my butt or have it in my pussy. To me that would be like licking TP or wiping myself with soiled TP.

Just not my thing I guess.
 
I'm male, and have enjoyed taking a few lovely ladies to this new (to them) area of pleasure. Have to agree with everyone when they say that slow and easy is the way. One g/f was willing, but was having a hard time relaxing enough to allow it. We had a few drinks, and I spent a LOT of time on her pussy and ass, orally, then she was able to enjoy it. After the first time, she fell in love with it. We fucked that way as often as any other, from then on!

Oh, and cutie pie, if you find yourself in NC, and in desire of a clean and enthusiastic lover, please let me know. ;)
 
Snork Maiden said:

I don't think I would want to suck a cock that had been up my butt or have it in my pussy. To me that would be like licking TP or wiping myself with soiled TP.

Maiden is absolutely right...cleanliness being next to godliness that is. You can get around this problem by using a condom, hon. Unlike the others online, I do not like the later reminders that there's been a visitor up there...not unless I've got a whole day in bed to get past that stage.

Healthcare workers advise washing in between any other contact, the anal bacteria are nasty little buggers which can get you sick real quick. Suggest it be a sequential event with anal going last if you're going to put that sweet hard thing everywhere, then a nice hot shower for everyone after. This for those of you who are monogamous and don't use condoms anyway.

Divorcing/F/53
 
sweet bee

it will be a lucky man who gets to experience you next. i simply love older women!

i love this discussion. like you, snork, I have only had finger up my behind but loved it. i think most men would too or do but don't admit it.

talking about hygiene. i don't get the whole rimming or oral service to that area. I imagine you have to do some intensive cleaning first!
 
intensive cleaning

Yes. I'm not naive :) I figured that anal sex has a lot of messy preparation.

If not it must get pretty messy.

I think I rather have the scent of candles in my boudoir than the odour of a latrine.

I'll stick with the finger I think
 
Max27 said:
sweet bee

it will be a lucky man who gets to experience you next. i simply love older women!

i love this discussion. like you, snork, I have only had finger up my behind but loved it. i think most men would too or do but don't admit it.

talking about hygiene. i don't get the whole rimming or oral service to that area. I imagine you have to do some intensive cleaning first!

Thanks Max, I certainly am enjoying being an older woman these days. It's a real advantage to really know your own body, also have become much more adventurous since reading Lit stories and chatting with all kinds of different people online. I'm eager to try just about anything that might bring pleasure to me and my lovers.

I have heard lots of men tell me they'd like their prostate massaged during oral sex...but never had a chance to try that 'cause my man was too squeemish. Next one better watch out....lol

Ass, oops as, for oral attention to the back side, I'm only going by what I've been told by men....horribly erotic, both doing and receiving. Butt, god can't spell today, but of course a nice shower together would appease most worries about hygiene. You can tell I'm kind of fond of showers, the hygienic kind, not the golden ones.

For more information, read up on it in "The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women." You can get that at www.goodvibrations.com along with some of the toys mentioned above.
 
Re: intensive cleaning

Snork Maiden said:
Yes. I'm not naive :) I figured that anal sex has a lot of messy preparation.

If not it must get pretty messy.

I think I rather have the scent of candles in my boudoir than the odour of a latrine.

I'll stick with the finger I think

Sorry if I gave the impression that there's a lot of messy preparation...none ever used by me and we didn't use a condom since monogamously married. I was referring to the same wet dripping after, just seems a little more annoying from the back door. No odor involved. You don't store anything odiferous up there if you eat enough roughage to have a healthy bowel.

I've heard of women using an enema before but that would happen two or more hours earlier in the day if you chose it. Thinks it's probably unnecessary. I'd do it only to set the guy at ease. Have never had a bad experience with anal, for any reason. It is very hot sex and not for everyone. I just had a very good introduction with a very gentle, sensitive lover and so am totally sold on it.

Divorcing/F/53
 
so far. . .

Magister. . .you're the closest to me. . .but still about a 12 hour drive away. . .

To the rest of you. . .Thank You for the offers. . .you are all very sweet!

:kiss: :kiss: :kiss:

I'll keep ya all posted on my progress if you so desire. . . .
 
I love having a big cock or dildo up my ass. As long as I'm well lubed anything goes. I love getting my ass licked while I finger my clit. Makes me very wet. Nothing better than a cock in the ass and a dildo in the pussy, unless its a cock in each hole.
Purrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.
 
I absolutely love anal sex. All of my relationships have included this wonderful form of sex. From a male perspective, the number one issue is PATIENCE. A "quicky", anal sex is not.
1. Put her in the mood to want it.
I generally view anal sex as a potential final act in a long evening of sex and love play. Most women are not going to really enjoy anal sex until they have cum a few times and really been worked up to a fever pitch. This both relaxes them and makes them that more receptive to different sensations.
2. Earn her trust.
There are two major issues here. First, she needs to know that you are going to go slow and that if she says stop, you will. Second, even the most open-minded of us generally have issues with "cleanliness" issues back there. Whether it is the first time or the tenth, at some point, things may get a little "messy". She needs to know that you are not going to be repulsed, grossed out, or make her feel more self-conscious than she already will. Rather, you need to be there making it a non-issue, cleaning her before yourself, and repeatedly telling her not to worry about it.
3. Go slow, add lube, start small
The hardest part of getting a woman to enjoy anal sex is getting her to relax enough, (both mentally and physically), to let you get past the first inch or two. Once you reach that far, (and give her muscles a chance to relax), her body will usually take over, and in no time you both will be in ecstasy. To get to this point, just simply takes time and a lot of lube. My favorite is to employ anal play along with other things I do to my lover. I love to give oral. Along with this, I often play with her breasts, finger her vagina, etc. While doing this, take some water based lube, and start playing around the outside of her rectum. You have to BE CAREFUL that you make sure the hand/fingers playing at the asshole do not come in contact with her vagina. As she continues to enjoy your oral stimulation, you can slowly start to penetrate her rectum with a finger. (Make sure you have close cropped, properly trimmed nails with no sharp corners). Make sure to relube your finger often. Just don't go too fast, or too deep too quickly, and you will find that the anal stimulation will only add to her level of arousal.

Enemas were mentioned by a few posters. I for one think they can make the anal sex experience better for both partners. For the woman, she can have a better sense of being "clean" and the stimulation often helps relax the sphincter.

To give an example....my partner and I often start out with a porno while we neck/tease and watch. We rarely get too far into it, before I have her between my legs sucking me off. Each person is different, but for me, I know I can't really concentrate on her, until after my first orgasm. After I have cum, we usually cuddle for a while. All this time, she is continuing to grow in her own arousal. Then we move to the bathroom where I prepare an enema for her. You can use a douche/enema bag or a Fleet(c) bottle, but make sure you warm the liquid. Too cold causes cramps, and make sure it is not too hot. I put down a towel for her to kneel on the floor, (warmer and softer for her plus makes any liquid clean ups easier). She gets on her hands and knees with her face turned to the side and on the floor. Depending on the woman and her experience, she may take only a slight amount of water, or several refills.

Once you have deposited all the water, then more fun begins...by this time...(if you are like me), you will be good and hard again. Then as she remains on the towel, enter into her vagina and start to gently fuck her. Both parties will not believe how wonderfully warm and tight she feels. While it may feel incredible, when she says you have to stop because she has to get on the toilet, do not delay! Then it is time for you to leave and give her some privacy. It is not unusual for her to have to go back to the bathroom several times over the course of the next half-hour to hour. During this time, you can both continue to watch the porno as you continue to fondle, neck and watch the porno.

Once she is completely cleaned out....it is a good time for a long, hot, soapy and sexy shower. Again, this serves a dual purpose. It is a hell of a lot of fun =), and it will leave both of you feeling clean and refreshed and ready for round two.

After the shower, you can move to the bed, ottoman, swing, or whatever else suits your fancy. Now it is time to start focusing on her needs as she probably has not had an orgasm yet. Like I said above. Do what comes naturally, (I like a little bondage and spanking her), but try to include some anal play. The more stimulated the rectum is, the more it relaxes. I keep hearing that there are women out there who can only have one orgasm. Luckily, all the ladies I have known have not been cursed with that specific affliction. As such, I like them to cum as much and often as possible. This tends to only heighten their pleasure, (and mine). After you have both sucked and fucked each other while you have been including the anal play, they will often want to have anal sex almost as much as you do.

Again, go slow with lots of lube. Let her muscles accept you, and I recommend letting her push back against you. If she finds it hard to relax and let you enter while on her knees, have her lie on her side and bring her top leg up so that her knee is as close to her breast as she can. Then try entering her that way.

While many will crucify me for mentioning this.....alcohol is a relaxant. If you are both comfortable with this, a couple of her favorite drinks can make it easier for both of you to enjoy this the first few times. Someone also mentioned AnalEase. There are many products like this. All of them are a lube with benzocaine added to numb the rectal area. Due to the benzocaine, these products can only be used with a condom.

Dang...after writing this...now I am super horny.....I wonder how she will feel about getting woken up? =)
 
There are times that I just love to have my ass made love to, slow, gentle,lots of forplay with his fingers and toungue. Yes lube is very important. The sloppier the better.
I have noticed that his dick slides in much eisier if I am at more of angle with me on my knees but my head up higher, when I bend over more there is more pressure making it harder to slide in.
After he is sliding in nice and easy and I am wanting it deeper and harder then I will bend over all the way and give him all the room to slam me.
When I am really turned on all this doesn't really matter. I know this goes against a lot I have just read but I love it when he goes from my ass to my pussy and back and forth. I can get off like a rocket with him doing this to me..
I usally douch afterwards and haven't had any problems with any infections. Yes I have had my share of little accidents but not enough to ever want me to quit getting fucked in the ass..
 
Back door lovers are best!

You don't start at the back door. You start front to back. Make that pussywet and loose. Gently massage that ass hole. Lub very, very well. Start inserting fingers, one at a time, slowly...

Gently ease a will lubed cock into that hole. Once the cock has been inserted upto the balls,

Fuck like crazy! There is no feeling like it! I feel like my lover totally owns me and is controlling me. He could keep me a love and sex slave for as long as he wants!

After that, I like it hard and rough.
 
well well

sooo many women here who enjoy anal sex....and I've only been priviledged enough to know a few....but gooooooooodd is it good!
 
I love it!!!

I need it at least once a week. The most wonderful orgasms come from anal sex.
Unfortunately lately, it's been me, a bottle of lube, and my toys.

Haven't had a cock up there since my last visitor...*looks at the young man I know is probably reading this*

When you coming bacK????????
 
ahhhhhhh....the memories.....

Once upon a time, an old soldier ran across a lady that loved anal. Alas, he gave her up for another because she had other attributes that were (sad to say) rather unpleasant. But he remembers her fondly in his fantasies (she had other sexual appetites that were VERY pleasant, but not enough to keep her).

Sometimes, I miss her...but not enough to dredge up the past...in fantasy is where she belongs.
 
My baby needs it up the ass

I am glad to read that so many women love anal sex.

The first time I performed anal sex was an accident. I went home with this girl many years older than me (ex tittie dancer with big tits - yum). I said I wanted to do it doggy style. It was rather dark in her trailer. I accidentally stuck it in the wrong hole and she says ......... oh, baby.

My current lover wants it any time she can take it. She does have to be in the right mood and I see lots of good advice already to create the mood. What works best for her is to watch anal sex. We have a few favorite videos and that almost always does the trick. The one she likes best is a Brazilian she-males flic. Portugeze is such a sensuous language and with she-males, everyone gets it up the butt!

Of course, she had to make me experience what it is like once. All I will say is.........Guys, buy your girl a strapon!
(works great to do her in both holes too). :eek:

Maybe that is the subject of a new thread...."If you let your girlfriend do it up your butt, does that make you gay?.

:rolleyes:
 
Anal loving women are the best

I would have to say, in general, that anal sex with a woman is my favorite. Though in reality my favorite sexual activity is what ever happens to be the favorite of the particular woman I am with at any given time. I have only had anal sex with a small percentage of the women I've known but most of them had one thing in common... There were all either reluctant to experience it or down right against the idea at first. But once they experienced it they all LOVED it. Performing anal sex with a woman who has never had it, or who had had bad previous experiences, and having her love the experience are some of my most memorable encounters. Just as oral sex is better with a partner who absolutely loves it or craves it, there is nothing better or more sexy than a woman who loves and craves anal sex. Also, women who will please themselves anally either during sex or masturbation are the sexiest.
 
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