Do you tell your lover when you're cumming?

[eroticspank]

I'm sure the guy who is having sex with me already knows but I do like to let him know,plus if my husband is watching he likes to know if I'm cumming plus if the guy is cumming too

I like this a lot. If someone is watching and perhaps masturbating, it is great to let them know when you are coming. We did a 4 some once, with both couples were fucking doggie style. We were facing each other, and it was hot watching the other couple as I was fucking my gf. The lady from the other couple yelled that she was coming, and it led the rest of us to coming. It was hot.
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[Mrs_and_mr]

I don’t really think she’s telling me, I think she’s just saying it my wife can get loud. I must have a tell I don’t say anything and she knows. When she’s pegging me she says I squeak like a girl. I once’s said I don’t hear me squeak. Then she recorded me and I didn’t squeak. Then a week later she recorded me without me knowing. I squeak like a girl.

 

[BrownHornet72]

Yes, I do. I love letting her know before cumming deep in her pussy. She can already tell I am about to. Breathing changes, stroke changes, eyes rolling back into my head and the grunting starts. Then I call her name and drop some expletives and she usually cums with me. That's why I always tell her.

 

[spawnofdavey]

On the rare occasions we do, yes, mainly so I can pull out in time.

 

[Crankbait88]

I do, but not verbally. I like to send a nice hand written card or note.

 

[ElannaCalli]

Hi, long time lurker, infrequent poster. Got a question for the lovely ladies and studly gents of Lit. How many of you tell your lover when you're cumming?

Personally I think it's about the sexiest thing a woman could whisper (or scream) in my ear, but I know it's not for everyone. As a guy, of course I'm conditioned to believe I should never ask a woman if she came. "If you can't tell, you're not doing it right," they say, and there's some truth to that, but honestly you just can't always tell. Especially if the relationship is new, but sometimes even if it's not.

So I'm wondering how many folks tell their lovers? Do you tell them because it feels sexy to say and hear it, or more for informative purposes? Do women feel more pressure to say it than guys, because they know us stupid guys can't always tell? Do guys always announce it?

I try not to tell him or her it is about to happen. Takes the fun away for me.

 

[Solsurfer]

I normally do. And I love it when she tells me she’s close and when it hits. Nothing is hotter than a vocal woman.