does it count if ..... ?

[Guest]

sweetfeet, Ive tried the bathtub faucet thingy and I didnt like it, I think its too much pressure but I luv the shower stream when you stand with your back to it legs spread just a teensy bit, the water seems to ever so lightly kiss all the right places
BTW about my bf some nights Ill be so hot and horny and sure that I must absolutely positively have sex with him right then and there or Ill die but Ill get over it and then the next night or so Ill be thanking god that we didnt let it happen-sometimes he's actually gotta push me away but I think you know a guy really loves you when hes that controlled.
Update about the vibrator one of my girlfriends got me this gold mini vibe, and I tried it out but it was disappointing and so in the future I think Ill just opt to stimulate my clit with light finger-tip massaging or a warm shower.

 

[Easy Boy]

You're doing better than fine, Kayt

I don't think it matters a whole lot _how_ you get sexual pleasure. You've found ways that work for you, and you involve your bf, too. So you're learning about your body, and what pleases you, together. Sounds wonderful!

BTW, do you do something for him? He sounds like a dear. I hope he gets a reward for all his help. And for his strength of character, pushing you away!

 

[Guest]

Easy boy, Since you asked, my sweety gets lots of love and kisses and he knows the ultimate reward will one day be his so he's very happy-and if you were looking for specific sexual things I do for him, I give him dirty little lap dances that sometimes end with either him watching me masturbate or us taking care of each other and we'll also take showers together and give each other massages. I also keep his belly full with good cooking and baked sweets.

 

[Easy Boy]

I get the picture, Kayt. You're doing everything but, and having a great time. Showers, cookies, lap dances--you practically sound like newlyweds! Sounds very healthy to me. My congratulations to you both, and best wishes for your eventual marital bliss. If you've got any more questions, c'mon back, OK?

 

[Closet Desire]

My real concern here...

Would you believe I never shared love with a "virgin"? Just turned out that way and I don't feel I missed anything.

Pardon me for putting in my own opinion, but your sensuality doesn't belong to anybody but you. Nobody knows more about what brings you pleasure than you. You won't know yourself if you don't give yourself permission to discover it. If you're afraid, for whatever reason, to discover and celebrate your own sensuality then you may find it difficult to share it with someone else in the future...even your current boyfriend. If your future lover feels threatened by a vibrator or your own fingers then how will he feel when you ask him to "do it this way" or "touch me there"?

When a woman chooses to share her sensuality with a lover it is most intimate gift she can give. A man who doesn't respect and cherish this gift doesn't deserve it. A woman's sensuality if fathomless and her capacity to give and receive pleasure is nearly infinite. Some men are frightened to death by this...others rejoice in it.

 

[Never]

Easy Boy: "I say you're a virgin until a penis enters your vagina."
This does not bode well for the Neverkins.