Don’t Let Anybody Tell You That You’re Safe

Here’s the thing. Much has been said about the new format and some people have become more comfortable with it and that’s good.

It may not be reared toward ampic posters like me though.

An ampic thread requires interaction. This has been a source of difficulty for me for several years. I understand that lit isn’t as vibrant as it once was. I understand that I’m older and not quite as fun to look at too.

This is a public service announcement as I do not feel I’m alone.

I think reactions may be the nail in the coffin. It’s fun seeing a notification for a reaction, but reactions do little to create interaction.

In the past somebody may used to go to a thread and “bump” it in order to get the OP’s attention.

Reactions are nearly the opposite of a bump. It allows a thread to sink further down and pulls attention further from the post.

It would be different if there were notifications that let one know that another poster reacted to this picture so go check it out. It’s not like that.

I’m an occasional poster regardless. I’ve accepted my place (not really).

Note that I’ve fed you that bit.

Have some breakfast.

Even though it’s not really the most important meal of the day.

And, yes, I have a bad habit of eating while cooking.
I agree with your thoughts on using a reaction in place of an actual posted response, especially here in AmPics. Not only have I seen it on the part of the people who are commenting on the photos, but also in the photo posters’ responses to those who comment. In my opinion, it’s the actual interactions that make things fun here, and I definitely wouldn’t want to lose that.
 
I agree with your thoughts on using a reaction in place of an actual posted response, especially here in AmPics. Not only have I seen it on the part of the people who are commenting on the photos, but also in the photo posters’ responses to those who comment. In my opinion, it’s the actual interactions that make things fun here, and I definitely wouldn’t want to lose that.
Agreed.

Each poster has to determine their level of responsiveness. Some multi-quote, some respond individually, some respond only to comments which intrigue them, and some get away with not responding at all.

That’s their choice and comfort level.

My rule has always been that I don’t want to post after myself too much. I refuse to flirt with myself.

I’m not getting younger. Maybe I should start.
 
Thoughts that ran through my head upon seeing this photo...

..."Lovely, dark, and deep..."

...A chiseled peeping tom.

Your cabin in the woods may be nice come spring and summer... just load up on Off Bug Repellent.
 
These words were important

Why I provided options. Didn’t want to make anybody uncomfortable.
If someone was made uncomfortable by seeing your chest, I doubt they would have made it past your AV. But I applaud your thoughtfulness towards all comers.
 
Thoughts that ran through my head upon seeing this photo...

..."Lovely, dark, and deep..."

...A chiseled peeping tom.

Your cabin in the woods may be nice come spring and summer... just load up on Off Bug Repellent.
Nobody here to peep.

I’ll pay attention to the bugs. I mean the store is right over there *points NW*

Which I need to go to if I’m going to get something cooked today.
 
If someone was made uncomfortable by seeing your chest, I doubt they would have made it past your AV. But I applaud your thoughtfulness towards all comers.
Got it.

New av.

I’ll work in this today.

The av is one thing, but nobody needs to be blindsided.
 
Got it.

New av.

I’ll work in this today.

The av is one thing, but nobody needs to be blindsided.
Well, I wasn't saying that your AV *should* make anyone uncomfortable. If for some reason it did, I don't think that Lit's the place for them. I didn't respond to this post at first because I thought that you were being sarcastic/teasing me. I liked the naked thigh that appeared between the chest and the jean-covered thigh. I liked those as well. None of which should make anyone here uncomfortable.
 
Took the dog out this morning.

As much as this place frustrates me, it is on four acres and is very quiet. It will be nice this summer.

I hope.
Super happy for you. Hopeful for more peace and comfort as you make it your space. The retirement community and new ways to explore your next chapter look promising.

Love the lines and lighting in your pic. Sexy and inviting spot. Just need some pillows and blankets.

Great for star gazing?
 
Well, I wasn't saying that your AV *should* make anyone uncomfortable. If for some reason it did, I don't think that Lit's the place for them. I didn't respond to this post at first because I thought that you were being sarcastic/teasing me. I liked the naked thigh that appeared between the chest and the jean-covered thigh. I liked those as well. None of which should make anyone here uncomfortable.
I can be difficult.

While I appreciate receiving feedback, I do what feels good.
 
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Super happy for you. Hopeful for more peace and comfort as you make it your space. The retirement community and new ways to explore your next chapter look promising.

Love the lines and lighting in your pic. Sexy and inviting spot. Just need some pillows and blankets.

Great for star gazing?

Stars out here?

Honestly, if I step in the wrong spot of that deck I will fall through.

I’ll let you know this summer.
 
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