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LMWM321 said:
My wife has been through menopause and I still get to go down on her every week but I must do it very differently.. When she was younger, I could orally ravish her rather clumsily.. just vigorously and somewhat indiscriminately licking and sucking my way around her vulva. There seemed to be NO wrong way to do it - whatever I did felt pleasurable for her. But not anymore.

Since menopause, oral goes from pleasurable to uncomfortable rather easily. Her mandate now is for VERY VERY light brushes with my tongue and only a few moments of clitoris and labia kissing and sucking, etc.. And, to be very honest, she allows it more because she knows I absolutely crave it than because it's something she loves. But because I'm 100% responsive and respectful of her preferences, it will forever be on the menu. But there are times I want to go about it like I used to...like a starved man devouring a soft-serve iced cream cone ;)
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My thoughts exactly.
 
LMWM321 said:
Very sorry to hear...

My wife has been through menopause and I still get to go down on her every week but I must do it very differently.. When she was younger, I could orally ravish her rather clumsily.. just vigorously and somewhat indiscriminately licking and sucking my way around her vulva. There seemed to be NO wrong way to do it - whatever I did felt pleasurable for her. But not anymore.

Since menopause, oral goes from pleasurable to uncomfortable rather easily. Her mandate now is for VERY VERY light brushes with my tongue and only a few moments of clitoris and labia kissing and sucking, etc.. And, to be very honest, she allows it more because she knows I absolutely crave it than because it's something she loves. But because I'm 100% responsive and respectful of her preferences, it will forever be on the menu. But there are times I want to go about it like I used to...like a starved man devouring a soft-serve ice cream cone ;)

My point? Maybe it would help to make your wife aware that you'll approach oral differently than you used to and you'll be 100% intent on doing it in the way SHE enjoys and you are well aware that may be very different than how she used to enjoy it.

Does she use a vibrator or clitoral suction toy? ..If not, maybe give her one and encourage her to use it on herself. Before finding her way back to enjoying YOU touching her "down there" she needs to figure out for herself what sorts of sensations still feel good, then make those sorts of touches the goal of your oral.

Menopause may indeed be the end of sex the way it "used" to be, but it does NOT have to be the end of sex. Assuming your relationship is still a loving one, there should still be ways of enjoying intimacy. ..And discovering what those new ways are can provide it's own kind of joy...
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Toys are not an option, she's not receptive to toys. Tried a vibrator years ago, used it couple times, now it sets in drawer with dead batteries.

Unfortunately, sex is no existent. It's been months (try 6-7) since any type of sex. Longer yet for any kind of oral, giving or receiving.

I try to initiate sex several times only to meet with one excuse after another. "I'm not in the mood" "The kids are home" "How about tomorrow" only tomorrow I'm rejected yet again. I've given up trying to initiate simple because I'm tired of rejection.
 
Wife feeling extra amorous today so I’ll likely be eating that kitty (not in the hideaway) very soon.
 
LMWM321 said:
Very sorry to hear...

My wife has been through menopause and I still get to go down on her every week but I must do it very differently.. When she was younger, I could orally ravish her rather clumsily.. just vigorously and somewhat indiscriminately licking and sucking my way around her vulva. There seemed to be NO wrong way to do it - whatever I did felt pleasurable for her. But not anymore.

Since menopause, oral goes from pleasurable to uncomfortable rather easily. Her mandate now is for VERY VERY light brushes with my tongue and only a few moments of clitoris and labia kissing and sucking, etc.. And, to be very honest, she allows it more because she knows I absolutely crave it than because it's something she loves. But because I'm 100% responsive and respectful of her preferences, it will forever be on the menu. But there are times I want to go about it like I used to...like a starved man devouring a soft-serve ice cream cone ;)

My point? Maybe it would help to make your wife aware that you'll approach oral differently than you used to and you'll be 100% intent on doing it in the way SHE enjoys and you are well aware that may be very different than how she used to enjoy it.

Does she use a vibrator or clitoral suction toy? ..If not, maybe give her one and encourage her to use it on herself. Before finding her way back to enjoying YOU touching her "down there" she needs to figure out for herself what sorts of sensations still feel good, then make those sorts of touches the goal of your oral.

Menopause may indeed be the end of sex the way it "used" to be, but it does NOT have to be the end of sex. Assuming your relationship is still a loving one, there should still be ways of enjoying intimacy. ..And discovering what those new ways are can provide it's own kind of joy...
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Does your wife still enjoy intercourse after menopause?
 
Lemmetri said:
Does your wife still enjoy intercourse after menopause?
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She does, but not like it used to be. Vaginal dryness can be a big problem for women after menopause. Estradiol cream was prescribed by her OBGYN and it has helped a lot, but we still need TONS of lube for PIV sex.

Before menopause I could basically enter her (usually without lube) and pump away until one or both of us came. ..So long as I didn't bottom out in her (I'm quite long so it happens easily) she enjoyed it. But now, PIV is enjoyed only for a few minutes. Any longer than that and it can become pretty uncomfortable rather quickly.. When I sense that happening, I quickly pull out. I don't want sex to ever veer from enjoyable to unpleasant. After a few minutes of PIV, she often asks me to pull out then grab her much less girthy dildo; I'm responsible for lubing it up, inserting and finding the right depth and tempo as she uses her clitoral suction toy. Nowadays, this is how she usually orgasms, if she orgasms at all. And as I've said many times, we try to focus only on enjoying sex and NOT on necessarily orgasming from it..

Consequently.. Our orgasm success rate is a mere 20%, but our "Glad we had sex" success rate is %100. ..So do yourself a favor and quit fixating on orgasm as a goal, and more on sex as a mutually enjoyable activity.
 
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Absolutely love eating pussy

I would eat pussy daily if I could

However, menopause has not been nice to my wife, she hasn't let me eat her in over a year and 10 months since the last time we had sex

Now I'm starting to understand why married people stray
 
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