erotic asphyxiation

[wenchhh]

Holy Shit, Bi bunny! I am just amazed at your post. Not judging, just imagining, being in such a submissive state. When I read these posts, I feel SOOooooo inexperienced! Watching this post with fascination.

 

[graceanne]

what about 'hootin-nanny'?

LOL That's pretty cute, too.

Or bugaboo. hehe

 

[Quint]

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[MasterPhoenix]

My expierence with breath play is rather limited. I have choked rose with my hands enough to cause some restriction, but I haven't completely cut off her breathing.

As the article posted, breath play is not something to be taken lightly, and I would not feel right at this time, and for the foreseeable future using any implement other than my hands. My hands are the ultimate in quick release. With my hands I can feel exactly how tightly I am squeezing. That does not mean that even with my hands it would be impossible to make a mistake and accidentally damage my property, but it is much less likely with my hands than with another implement.

One of her favourites is when I put a hand around her throat and give a squeeze when I am kissing her...

I know I am writing of mild breath play, rather than full on asphyxiation, but I thought that I would share my thoughts.

 

[SweetCherry]

*sighs* After a discussion with someone (well, multiple someones) who just plain don't GET breath play, it's nice to get a dose of people who DO. Personally, I love it when she's got her hand around my throat and squeezes. It reminds me who is in control. I like that little bit of struggle to get a normal breath. I love the vulnerability of it all.

 

[WriterDom]

Brain damage. Do I win a prize?

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Nice av, Quint. You clean up well.

 

[MasterPhoenix]

*sighs* After a discussion with someone (well, multiple someones) who just plain don't GET breath play, it's nice to get a dose of people who DO. Personally, I love it when she's got her hand around my throat and squeezes. It reminds me who is in control. I like that little bit of struggle to get a normal breath. I love the vulnerability of it all.

I think sometimes that when people hear breath play their minds go immediately to the extremes...

Like everything else there is a spectrum....

 

[SweetCherry]

I think sometimes that when people hear breath play their minds go immediately to the extremes...

Like everything else there is a spectrum....

I think you are right. I think some of 'em were trying to plan my funeral or something. I might not be the most experienced girl, but I've done my homework and know where my comfort zones are. I'd never let anyone put a plastic bag over my head, or tie a noose around my neck. But a good squeeze by Her hand makes my panties wet. It's the only way I'll ever do it, too. I guess that's what I get for trying to talk kink with totally nilla folken.

 

[MasterPhoenix]

I think you are right. I think some of 'em were trying to plan my funeral or something. I might not be the most experienced girl, but I've done my homework and know where my comfort zones are. I'd never let anyone put a plastic bag over my head, or tie a noose around my neck. But a good squeeze by Her hand makes my panties wet. It's the only way I'll ever do it, too. I guess that's what I get for trying to talk kink with totally nilla folken.

Talking kink with the 'nilla world is a recipe for trouble.

LOL

Sounds like you got a good head on your shoulders about it...

 

[SweetCherry]

Talking kink with the 'nilla world is a recipe for trouble.

LOL

Sounds like you got a good head on your shoulders about it...

What can I say? I like stirring the pot now and again. Maybe it was because of a comment how kink was "sick shit" that set me off. I just made sure my "sick desires" were known. Thankfully, it was an online community, so they won't be calling the men in the white coats to take me away. Altho, i confess, the restraints might be enjoyable.

And thank you. I like to try. I think I just have too much time on my hands and spend way too much of it reading. But it's either read or watch porn, and after a whlie, the porn gets dull.

 

[MasterPhoenix]

True on the porn getting dull...

My rose always tells me that I should be nice to the 'Nillas, they don't know what they are doing.

 

[the_pet]

Mild play is OK but nothing extreme.... i like breathing thank you.


pet

 

[Blushing Bottom]

Sure MP but the thread also eluded to "Erotic asphyxiation, asphyxiophilia" as well. Which is highly dangerous.

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I think sometimes that when people hear breath play their minds go immediately to the extremes...

Like everything else there is a spectrum....

 

[BiBunny]

Holy Shit, Bi bunny! I am just amazed at your post. Not judging, just imagining, being in such a submissive state. When I read these posts, I feel SOOooooo inexperienced! Watching this post with fascination.

Thank you. I love being in that particular submissive state.

 

[Netzach]

I agree. AUTO-erotic asphyxiation is nothing to be taken lightly. I would NEVER try this alone and just to drive the point home I have been commanded to NEVER try it alone as well.

I have been trying to find a copy of the Weisman Article you mentioned, Netzach, but have not been able to find a legitimate copy. Would you be so kind as to help me out?

(BTW, Netzach, I just LOVE your screen name. Is it in reference to the Seraph angel or do you use it in translation; meaning Victory among other things? Or could it possibly be in reference to 'Means to an End'? Have you much interest in Kaballah?)

/Hijack
I have limited, not even Madonna deep knowledge of the Kaballah, but I love the "victory ascendence judgement" meaning as well as "creating a painful/adversarial situation that somehow brings the greater good." - that was my more detailed understanding of the means to an end, whereas the Hod means to an end would be "creating a situation of comfort and ease which holds more complexity than would seem"/Hijack

 

[Netzach]

I'm of the femdom persuasion and I find breath control highly erotic. However, for safety reasons, I don't engage in it much except through more tame measures:

* Hand over mouth (gloved is even hotter)
* Facesitting/smothering
* Roleplaying
* Gas masks/Hoods
* Air tight plexiglass coffin

Oh, wait, that last one was just my twisted, erotic fantasy. When I was just a budding young femdom and barely dating, I used to order my boyfriends to hold their breath as long they could, or until I said they could stop. That to make me so incredibly wet, and I had no idea - I was still a virgin at the time.

Many years later I realized that I was very fond of breath control, but I am extremely keen on safety. I am also not so nuts about it that I can't "get my rocks off" even by *talking* about it, rather than engaging in it. I can put my hand over a guy's mouth, make him struggle, and be on cloud nine just at the make believe notion that somehow little ol' me has some control over him.

Akasha

YES, talking around it is the ultimate in hot, it's what I do a lot of. Get them into the leather hood with the eensy mouth grommet and poke my finger in the grommet and explain how I totally COULD snuff them and they don't even look human, with my finger in the grommet for maybe 10 seconds.

 

[graceanne]

My biggest issue with breath play actually has nothing to do with the actual breath play. It has to do with my size. I'm a small person, and K has large hands, if he's not careful he pushes into the bones of my jaw and it hurts in a bad way.

 

[catalina_francisco]

I think crushing is my new favorite method. T likes to overpower me and press me into the bed so that my chest can't expand enough to get a complete breath. It's terribly hot.

I read Wiseman before I tried it, after I tried it, and will probably continue to read his article. And I will still choose to have my breath controlled.

LOL, sounds similar to some we do. He has a variety if methods apart from just using his hands around my throat, all of which restrict breathing from very little to nil. One of his favourites is a position he uses during sex which means my own body causes the restriction and pressure, though not immediately but through gradual build up until I no longer have the enregy to force that tiny bit of air into my lungs against the pressure and so breathing stops.

Catalina

 

[lil_slave_rose]

Master will put His hands around my throat and squeeze, sometimes really hard, but i've never had my air completely blocked off. more like 'fighting for air' than anything. i don't' think i'd like the whole passing out thing, and i think it's a bit too dangerous. you just never know, so i'll stick to the way we do it now, though my life is nowhere near perfect, i do like the fact that i'm living...

 

[SweetGigi]

/Hijack
I have limited, not even Madonna deep knowledge of the Kaballah, but I love the "victory ascendence judgement" meaning as well as "creating a painful/adversarial situation that somehow brings the greater good." - that was my more detailed understanding of the means to an end, whereas the Hod means to an end would be "creating a situation of comfort and ease which holds more complexity than would seem"/Hijack

oh how wonderful. We simply must sit down sometimes and discuss things.... I would love to discuss some ideas with you.

 

[Quint]

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[SweetGigi]

yeah yeah.... flirt smirt...

*giggle*

no really though... I do want to gather some opinions sometime.

honest.

 

[CutieMouse]

I exsist in the same breath play world as AAkasha and Netz...of course I have this really mild twitch of claustrophobia, so beingtoldasked to hold my breath does way more to me psychologically than some. *cuckle*

 

[chun_gong]

Thanks for the post sg! It came at a good time for me.

i hadn't really given it much thought before now... but, i DO get all giddy when i think about having His hands around my neck. (Maybe that's why i like "choker" style necklaces & collars.)

// For me it's the illusion of control, the threat, the implication anyhow.

Netzach, you've hit the nail on the head!! That's what makes it feel so good.

// Personally, I love it when she's got her hand around my throat and squeezes. It reminds me who is in control. I like that little bit of struggle to get a normal breath. I love the vulnerability of it all.

i don't know about the struggle part... Haven't ever been down that road. (Watch, He'll try it now. lol) SweetCherry, you have captured the heart of what i'm feeling about this. It's a step beyond the illusion that Netzach spoke of, but yes, very steamy.

Thanks for getting me all worked up ladies. haha

j

 

[SweetGigi]

my pleasure, ma'am.