ever hookup on CL to give blowjob or handjob?

I've had a lot of good experiences

I have hooked up with quite a few guys off craigslist. They have all been great experiences. My best advice is to make your ad sexy and add photos!! (especially sexy ones). It was hot to suck and bottom for those guys.
 
I've been cock-crazed for the most part of twenty years. Ever since I first found out how much fun they could be, and how satisfying sex with cock can be. But I'm essentially a timid guy. I'm not very good at taking the initiative, or making the first move. I've never had the guts to respond to an ad or a Craigslist kind-of hook-up. I've always relied on the guys coming on to me. And usually it's happened that way. I like to feel that I'm safe in being controlled, and having my sexuality 'owned'. I don't get emotionally hung up. I get fixated on the sex, and the guys are incidental to that. It's the way that I am, I've fought with myself over it, now I'm reconciled to it. Now I'm content with it. I watch Porn-clips when there's no real sex available. There's some brilliant cum-in-mouth compilation sequences. I love to watch the expressions on their faces as it spurts into their mouths, those that obviously enjoy it, and those who are vaguely repelled, but do it anyway. There's a whole lot of slurpy blow-jobs going on out there in Porn-land. And lots of us watching. Until I get the next real cock in my mouth...

I love your perspective! Good for you . Steer clear of CL is my advice :)
 
I used to use CL for random hookups, with pretty good success. It used to be fairly easy to find someone wanting to trade blowjobs, or let me come over and suck their cock. I never have been one just to give a handjob, if I have a hard cock in my hand, its going in my mouth lol.

Once all the psycho's started showing up, it freaked me out and I quit using CL for hookups.
 
As of late CL seems to be a bust. Same old posts by the same old guys. I wonder if they get that lucky that they post almost daily for new hookups or they are just that desperate and keep reposting to try and hookup. All my hookups have been from there but it's been almost a year since my last encounter. Never had a bad experience but have had some strange ones.
 
CL is mostly a bust, but over the years I have met a very few good ones. BUT...I don't rely on CL alone. If the guy or couple can't be bothered to exchange a few emails, chat on line, swap some pics, etc... before setting up a face to face meet in a public place, then I don't even bother wasting my time with him/them. Actually, that same principle applies to any hookup site, even here at Lit.
 
As of late CL seems to be a bust. Same old posts by the same old guys. I wonder if they get that lucky that they post almost daily for new hookups or they are just that desperate and keep reposting to try and hookup. All my hookups have been from there but it's been almost a year since my last encounter. Never had a bad experience but have had some strange ones.

I agree completely. When I was in my mid-40's I found the idea of a discrete oral exchange with another guy to be a huge turn-on after an exclusively straight life (not counting some adolescent play of little consequence) and CL provided me with the opportunity to act on my fantasies. Although I never had any horrible experiences, I found that the same guys were constantly posting and the guys of the type I was interested in became fewer and fewer. That being said, I had quite a few encounters with safe, sane, healthy and discrete guys that were quite enjoyable.
 
Some Good, Some Bad

I've met several guys through CL. Some I dressed for; some didn't care.

Mostly overweight; not many good kissers.

Reading the responses, I again see that my experience has not been unusually bad. My problem boils down to the fact that I'm looking to fall in love with a man--and he with me; someone who will view me as his girlfriend and want to feminize me.

As a result, my actual encounters--though satisfying sexually (I love servicing a man's cock!)--often leave me feeling unfulfilled, a bit used, and empty.

Pretty unrealistic, huh? :D
 
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I'm back. I posted an ad seeking someone interested in a blow and go situation - I would do the deed with no reciprocation. A guy answered who was close by, a few years younger and sent a pic of his dick. It looked fine - a little small which meant I could easily get him fully in my mouth. He was quite hairy and I like the masculine nature a hairy crotch conveys. I was turned on thinking about sucking a guys dick. Neither of us could host. If this was going to happen, it would have to be in a car.

We met at the local post office parking lot. I arrived and the only vehicle there was a mini van with its engine running. I got out and approached the drivers door. He looked fine and I said I'd be willing to proceed. I knew of a secluded spot that served as an informal parking lot for a popular hunting area. It took us 5 mins to get there and we barely spoke. We arrived and he pulled in. "Is this okay?" I asked. "Looks fine" he replied. I love the moment when it's time to start the action. He turned everything off and then slid his sweat pants down. He then reclined the seat back and I leaned in and quickly sucked his soft cock to erection. I am turned on by the excitement of engaging in my secret part of my sex life - I like sucking dicks and Once again a mans hard dick was in my mouth and I was enjoying its presence there. We both liked it when I took him deep to the hilt.

I needed a short break and stroked him with my hand. He announced that he was about to cum. I do not always like swallowing but I was into what I was doing. "What? Did you say you were about to cum?" I asked, despite having heard him clearly. "Yeah" he confirmed, his body showing the usual indications he was telling the truth. "In that case...." , I answered and started sucking his dick quickly and deeply. He grunted and moaned in response to my unexpected intentions. He started thrusting up off the seat and then a warm earthy fluid began to flow and I knew he was cumming. It tasted quite mild and was not at all unpleasant. I swallowed, cleaned him up and then sat up. He pulled his pants up and started the car.

This story got me hard.
 
I've met several guys through CL. Some I dressed for; some didn't care.

Mostly overweight; not many good kissers.

Reading the responses, I again see that my experience has not been unusually bad. My problem boils down to the fact that I'm looking to fall in love with a man--and he with me; someone who will view me as his girlfriend and want to feminize me.

As a result, my actual encounters--though satisfying sexually (I love servicing a man's cock!)--often leave me feeling unfulfilled, a bit used, and empty.

Pretty unrealistic, huh? :D
something like silverdaddies.com might be for you?
 
Fuck, this is so hot.
Wish I had the guts to troll for cock before I got married...now the guilt would kill me.

I would love to watch this. Don't mind me, I'll just be creeping on this thread. ;)

I'm back. I posted an ad seeking someone interested in a blow and go situation - I would do the deed with no reciprocation. A guy answered who was close by, a few years younger and sent a pic of his dick. It looked fine - a little small which meant I could easily get him fully in my mouth. He was quite hairy and I like the masculine nature a hairy crotch conveys. I was turned on thinking about sucking a guys dick. Neither of us could host. If this was going to happen, it would have to be in a car.

We met at the local post office parking lot. I arrived and the only vehicle there was a mini van with its engine running. I got out and approached the drivers door. He looked fine and I said I'd be willing to proceed. I knew of a secluded spot that served as an informal parking lot for a popular hunting area. It took us 5 mins to get there and we barely spoke. We arrived and he pulled in. "Is this okay?" I asked. "Looks fine" he replied. I love the moment when it's time to start the action. He turned everything off and then slid his sweat pants down. He then reclined the seat back and I leaned in and quickly sucked his soft cock to erection. I am turned on by the excitement of engaging in my secret part of my sex life - I like sucking dicks and Once again a mans hard dick was in my mouth and I was enjoying its presence there. We both liked it when I took him deep to the hilt.

I needed a short break and stroked him with my hand. He announced that he was about to cum. I do not always like swallowing but I was into what I was doing. "What? Did you say you were about to cum?" I asked, despite having heard him clearly. "Yeah" he confirmed, his body showing the usual indications he was telling the truth. "In that case...." , I answered and started sucking his dick quickly and deeply. He grunted and moaned in response to my unexpected intentions. He started thrusting up off the seat and then a warm earthy fluid began to flow and I knew he was cumming. It tasted quite mild and was not at all unpleasant. I swallowed, cleaned him up and then sat up. He pulled his pants up and started the car.
 
I've met several guys through CL. Some I dressed for; some didn't care.

Mostly overweight; not many good kissers.

Reading the responses, I again see that my experience has not been unusually bad. My problem boils down to the fact that I'm looking to fall in love with a man--and he with me; someone who will view me as his girlfriend and want to feminize me.

As a result, my actual encounters--though satisfying sexually (I love servicing a man's cock!)--often leave me feeling unfulfilled, a bit used, and empty.

Pretty unrealistic, huh? :D

If you want to fall in love, list everything that is absolutely essential in the type of person you are looking for. Don't list superfluous stuff, just the essentials about someone who would form the basis for a mutual loving relationship. As you make this list, remember everything that either has or has not worked out in past encounters. Take a month or two to develop this list, and write the final edited version.

Then, do not limit yourself to on-line dating or connecting services. These are often a bastion for self-gratifiers. Get out and socialize, and not just bars or night life. Just get out a lot during the day going anywhere where people gather, either in work, shopping, recreation, or other social activities. Take time to notice the people who are willing to notice you and/or speak to you. Practice starting conversations.

The list is a conscious expression of what you are looking for. It will help you find someone. Real life situations increase the chances of finding a partner who will fulfill the needs on your list. If you meet someone who does not display something that is essential on your list, don't waste your time on sex with that person if you want to fall in love.
 
I've met several guys through CL. Some I dressed for; some didn't care.

Mostly overweight; not many good kissers.

Reading the responses, I again see that my experience has not been unusually bad. My problem boils down to the fact that I'm looking to fall in love with a man--and he with me; someone who will view me as his girlfriend and want to feminize me.

As a result, my actual encounters--though satisfying sexually (I love servicing a man's cock!)--often leave me feeling unfulfilled, a bit used, and empty.

CL is not the place for you. What I'm after is exactly just to get dicked. His dick goes inside my body. He cums. He leaves. Best possible scenario is if his dick is all I ever actually see of him. That's what CL is all about. You need to find a different site than CL.
 
Fuck, this is so hot.
Wish I had the guts to troll for cock before I got married...now the guilt would kill me.

I would love to watch this. Don't mind me, I'll just be creeping on this thread. ;)

Yeah, I'm loving hearing from guys who do this. I did it twice before I was married, but it was before CL was a thing (he says, dating himself.) But met up with strangers just to give them blowjobs. I thought it was just kind of "meh" at the time, but somehow the memory gets hotter every time I think about it. :)
 
Mine

CL has been hit or miss for me like most people the first time was great met him at his i sucked his dick and then he fucked me the gave me a cock to play with but he was not as good i was giving head but i could feel his cock pulsing and i did not want to cum i wanted him in me after a few minutes of in gliding in and out of me he came then the third and last was a straight guy who was experimenting after we both got naked i gave him a blowjob he then left bit of a shame as he said he wanted to do anal might have to try another web site.
 
Fuck, this is so hot.
Wish I had the guts to troll for cock before I got married...now the guilt would kill me.

I would love to watch this. Don't mind me, I'll just be creeping on this thread. ;)[/QUOTE Yes it wouod be cheating even though its just oral but if you didnt take it any further after all its only cock. I felt guilty after my first couple of times but since my wifes not giving up i feel the need to unload.
 
Has anyone met up with a guy that you ended up knowing?

Some years ago a guy answered my ad and I went to his hotel to give him a blowjob. He was a representative for a company our business did business with. I didn't know him well but we definitely recognized each other. It was awkward for a moment but then he asked me if I still wanted to do it.

He sat back in a chair and I got on my knees to suck him hard and then gave him one of my first rate blowjobs. Within a few more minutes his warm, creamy load was in my mouth.

Crossed paths with him at the office a few times after that. All was well
 
hooked up with a guy the other day,didnt turn out as I would have liked,in fact the entire thing was rather off putting
 
Not exactly from Cl
But a tranny escort Ive been with many times actually took me up on an offer I gave her one time after a really good fuck. While making out I told her that if she ever just wanted her cock sucked to call me, it was said as a joke and we both giggled about it.
One Saturday night while clubbing I get a text from her. She was at a club close by. I left immediately when the next message asked if I wanted to suck her cock.
Turns out, a friend of hers didn't believe that I told her i would come out where and whenever just to suck her dick. Eventually she came in my mouth and invited me to her apartment for more.
 
confession:
sometimes i go on CL to just read the casual encounter adds​
 
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