Exhibitionist or Voyeur?

[Nellie60]

Which impulse do you feel more strongly? To be an exhibitionist or to be a voyeur? What happened on the first or last occasion when you acted on that impulse?

Very good question. Both have there moments. Depends if you are watching who? And if like to show off with your girl or someone else.

 

[hulmule]

I enjoy both , but willing to do either in a certain situation

 

[KyleR215]

I am someone that gets off on both, being the voyeur as well as the exhibitionist. Sometimes at the same time and sometimes not.

I feel sexy and desired when a woman wants to see this 50 year old dad bod guy in all his naked glory. So it is a thrill for me to show off.

At the same time, I appreciate a woman that is confident to show herself in all her nakedness to me.

Both are arousing and I don't lean strongly one way or another.

 

[vibes]

Probably more of a voyeur myself, but I have had moments of unashamed exhibitionism

 

[TalkToMeInSB]

My GF recently pegged me as a voyeur... Could not deny it. Told her she was a visual delight... But it's true, I love the sight of anything sensual, sexual, even just a well put together outfit on a woman who knows how sexy she it...

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

Exhibitionist, I love getting undressed in a window of my hotel room where nobody knows me.

Betty, I can just envision this. I am staying in one of those large hotels, one with wings or towers that face one another, so that there are similar rooms to one's own visible from my window. I look out and see you undressing, revealing all your sexy, enticing curves. My hand slides to the bulge in my slacks as I watch you. You look up and see me watching you. Smiling, you stare directly at me and...

 

[friendlyoldman]

definitely an exhibitionist. But not the kind that jumps out of the bushes or suddenly opens his rain coat. I just like to walk around nude on places where one usually is dressed. Getting caught is frightening and exiting at the same time. But most of the times nothing happens. Then it's more the idea of what can happen that still makes it a thrill.

My most scary moment was when I was very close to getting caught. That was even more scary then the times someone really saw me. I wrote down what happened: https://literotica.com/s/scary-moments-at-a-photo-shoot

 

[cunme69]

Exibitionist is a big turn on for me but voyeurisms' is next to best.

 

[travelenman]

We are a hot-wife couple, and I enjoy watching but have no issue with being watched in action. I have videos to prove it....lol

 

[JulieAnn42]

Exhibitionist, I love getting undressed in a window of my hotel room where nobody knows me.

This, absolutely. Or, coming out of the shower with only the towel around me, pulling on panties then dropping the towel to put my bra on. It is exciting knowing a complete stranger might see.

 

[travelenman]

This, absolutely. Or, coming out of the shower with only the towel around me, pulling on panties then dropping the towel to put my bra on. It is exciting knowing a complete stranger might see.

I was working in an office, and my window overlooked an apartment. A young lady in one of the apartments would put on a show, it started off innocent enough but it became very raunchy.

 

[Jordanjack]

Count me in as an exhibitionist. I'm often naked in my house or when in a hotel, windows open. My wife gives me a hard time; "People can see you!". "Yes, babe, that's the point, if they're looking in our windows this is exactly what they're looking for." Get's me so hot thinking about someone looking at me and getting themself off. I also enjoy going commando and wondering if anyone is looking at my cock outline.

 

[Nellie60]

Which impulse do you feel more strongly? To be an exhibitionist or to be a voyeur? What happened on the first or last occasion when you acted on that impulse?

The very first closest exhibitionist situations committing any sexual acts in public eg car, beach or cinema happened a few times over the years accumulating with a boyfriend of a girl who finished me with her hand while he watched. That was incredible feeling

 

[Nellie60]

Absolutely both for me, but the main thing needs to be desire for the other party to watch or be watched. Like, it is not a turn on at all to flash someone or for someone to watch me stroke who has no interest in it.

However, having someone watch me stroke who really loves it and wants to watch - that is extremely hot. Same with watching women or couples.

Totally agree!

 

[Nellie60]

hmmmmm



I suppose that I would conclude that I enjoy both aspects. I really enjoy watching my loving hot wife having sex with another man..., but I also like performing in front of others myself, definitely not shy naked in a crowd...lol

As far as being a voyeur..., deep down if I wasn't watching my wife I don't think it would be as enjoyable as being an exhibitionist... it's all good!

I encouraged a previous girlfriend to finish another man with her hand which to this day was one of the hottest voyeuristic acts I have ever witnessed. I still get off big time every time I think about it.

 

[CEOescape]

Exhibitionist. I could spend most of yesterday naked at home doing some study. I know a neighbour can see me if is am in my bedroom at the window or even more so if I am in the utility room that has a glass door that their kitchen overlooks. He works at home so I managed to stand at the window when he was in the garden and idly stare out into our garden for about ten minutes and pretend I didn't know he was out there. At lunchtime I did some washing and ironing knowing he was in his kitchen getting food and eating. Again, pretending I wasn't aware.

I HAVE DONE MUCH THE SAME

 

[Nellie60]

Which impulse do you feel more strongly? To be an exhibitionist or to be a voyeur? What happened on the first or last occasion when you acted on that impulse?

While actually watching live act, its pretty erotic, watching and listening the going's on but actual experiencing it while people watched is incredibly mind blowing especially when the other party is really into it

 

[zach20092]

Exhibitionist. I could spend most of yesterday naked at home doing some study. I know a neighbour can see me if is am in my bedroom at the window or even more so if I am in the utility room that has a glass door that their kitchen overlooks. He works at home so I managed to stand at the window when he was in the garden and idly stare out into our garden for about ten minutes and pretend I didn't know he was out there. At lunchtime I did some washing and ironing knowing he was in his kitchen getting food and eating. Again, pretending I wasn't aware.

Where do you live? Anything up for sale?

 

[zach20092]

This, absolutely. Or, coming out of the shower with only the towel around me, pulling on panties then dropping the towel to put my bra on. It is exciting knowing a complete stranger might see.

There are more women than at least I expected out there who like this.. always pays to keep an eye open and a smile ready..

 

[rob50yorks]

Both...
I love watching men jerk and seeing women jill.
I also enjoy being watched.

Sending vids back and forth is great.

During the pandemic, I mutually masturbated with a hetero couple. It was so lustful and desperate. We all needed it.

I love an audience for sure

 

[Bettytheboo]

There are more women than at least I expected out there who like this.. always pays to keep an eye open and a smile ready..

I think most women like to be appreciated for their sexuality, and it's a compliment if a man looks at you that way. Despite what political correctness might say about toxic masculinity, it's nature and nobody can dictate about natural attraction.

 

[Nellie60]

I think most women like to be appreciated for their sexuality, and it's a compliment if a man looks at you that way. Despite what political correctness might say about toxic masculinity, it's nature and nobody can dictate about natural attraction.

Agree its a shame that some can be looked upon as a "predator" cause you looked at someone the "wrong way"

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

I think most women like to be appreciated for their sexuality, and it's a compliment if a man looks at you that way. Despite what political correctness might say about toxic masculinity, it's nature and nobody can dictate about natural attraction.

I know I like looking at you that way. No comment about what most women like.

 

[KeenVoyeur]

I think most women like to be appreciated for their sexuality, and it's a compliment if a man looks at you that way. Despite what political correctness might say about toxic masculinity, it's nature and nobody can dictate about natural attraction.

Pretty sure I would appreciate you for your sexuality if I got to watch you undressing and indulging in some naughty acts

 

[Wageslave]

Exhibitionist, I love getting undressed in a window of my hotel room where nobody knows me.

Let me know next time you go away