Exhibitionist or Voyeur?

[nightowl75]

Exhibitionist, for sure

I discovered a love for exhibition when I was younger. I was 18, still a virgin who’d never even been on a date. I was terribly shy and careful never to get caught masturbating.

Well, one day I was needing to cum, and had just a few minutes to take care of myself. I was in the bathroom lying on the floor, and just when I was finishing up, my mom opened the door and I jumped up and into the shower. She closed the door and nothing was said. I was embarrassed, but then got hard immediately. I didn’t understand why, and thought I was weird, but later understood.

I don’t try to get caught by strangers, just because everyone is sue-happy these days, and also I don’t want the wrong person catching me. But I do have a desire to be seen.

 

[Smoothshavendad]

I discovered a love for exhibition when I was younger. I was 18, still a virgin who’d never even been on a date. I was terribly shy and careful never to get caught masturbating.

Well, one day I was needing to cum, and had just a few minutes to take care of myself. I was in the bathroom lying on the floor, and just when I was finishing up, my mom opened the door and I jumped up and into the shower. She closed the door and nothing was said. I was embarrassed, but then got hard immediately. I didn’t understand why, and thought I was weird, but later understood.

I don’t try to get caught by strangers, just because everyone is sue-happy these days, and also I don’t want the wrong person catching me. But I do have a desire to be seen.

I totally get you!!!!

 

[Bob_Aganoush]

Which impulse do you feel more strongly? To be an exhibitionist or to be a voyeur? What happened on the first or last occasion when you acted on that impulse?

I definitely enjoy both. Just published a story about it.

https://literotica.com/beta/s/nude-beach-encounter-pt-01

 

[Sassyunicorn]

I'm a girl watcher! Err... That song hasn't aged well, has it? Definitely a voyeur, but I don't care who sees my naughty bits, either.

 

[mellowyellows]

I’m into both really. I can’t say I lean more one way or another.

 

[Goldenfinger]

Exhibitionist. There’s a thrill.

 

[stevie717]

Exhibitionist here

 

[Empteevee]

My sister and I shared a room and both watched each other when our bfs were over. Also a similar situation my freshman year of college in the dorms. I always enjoyed it.

 

[BlondieBliss]

Edited:
Voyeur - watching men masturbate is one of the hottest things to me. I’m most interested in men who really enjoy being watched with audio participation but who aren’t looking for me to be on camera, a dom/sub, or send a ton of pics. (It’s been an interesting week... didn’t realize how specific I needed to be...)

 

[Speshul91]

I’m about 90/15
85% Voyeur - watching men masturbate is one of the hottest things to me. I’d be open to watching other things too... as long as a man is involved... since COVID19 began, I’m enjoying exploring...
15% Exhibitionist - only if I’m in a relationship, I like risk. Sex with blinds open or up against a window... playtime at work... just not with random people.

I'm about the same, sex in public is amazing

 

[devilish_desires_couple]

I’m both, but I’m probably more selective about being an exhibitionist. I get turned on by the idea of someone watching me and my wife. It’s something that we’ve discussed doing but it has yet to happen.

I also really like showing off and exposing my wife. I’m not sure if there’s a name for that!

 

[zoso682001]

i am a big time voyeur as well i like watching women or men or couples.

And we love showing you . Keep watching !

 

[CuttingEdge]

I also really like showing off and exposing my wife. I’m not sure if there’s a name for that!

It is called Candualism:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Candaulism

Candaulism, or candaulesism, is a paraphilic sexual practice or fantasy in which one person (usually a man) exposes his (usually female) partner, or images of her, to other people for their voyeuristic pleasure.[1] Candaulism is also associated with voyeurism and exhibitionism.

The term may also be applied to the practice of undressing or otherwise exposing a female partner to others. Similarly, the term may also be applied to the posting of personal images of a female partner on the internet or urging her to wear clothing which reveals her physical attractiveness to others, such as by wearing very brief clothing, such as a microskirt, tight-fitting or see-through clothing or a low-cut top.

 

[Bob_Aganoush]

It is called Candualism:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Candaulism

Candaulism, or candaulesism, is a paraphilic sexual practice or fantasy in which one person (usually a man) exposes his (usually female) partner, or images of her, to other people for their voyeuristic pleasure.[1] Candaulism is also associated with voyeurism and exhibitionism.

The term may also be applied to the practice of undressing or otherwise exposing a female partner to others. Similarly, the term may also be applied to the posting of personal images of a female partner on the internet or urging her to wear clothing which reveals her physical attractiveness to others, such as by wearing very brief clothing, such as a microskirt, tight-fitting or see-through clothing or a low-cut top.

Cool!

 

[devilish_desires_couple]

It is called Candualism:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Candaulism

Candaulism, or candaulesism, is a paraphilic sexual practice or fantasy in which one person (usually a man) exposes his (usually female) partner, or images of her, to other people for their voyeuristic pleasure.[1] Candaulism is also associated with voyeurism and exhibitionism.

The term may also be applied to the practice of undressing or otherwise exposing a female partner to others. Similarly, the term may also be applied to the posting of personal images of a female partner on the internet or urging her to wear clothing which reveals her physical attractiveness to others, such as by wearing very brief clothing, such as a microskirt, tight-fitting or see-through clothing or a low-cut top.

Well that description certainly fits. Thanks! Now if I only knew how to pronounce it.

 

[NJNudists]

Depends on my mood

 

[Army2010]

Exhibitionist

I like to be watched. Especially if I can see her watching me, but if she’s not comfortable with that, some verbal encouragement is always appreciated. mmmm

 

[ttlvr]

Both now

I started out as a voyeur, but probably because I know how fun and, in my opinion, harmless that is, I've allowed myself to be voyeured on a few occasions. No real harm in somebody getting off on watching me shower, all the better if they think they are getting away with something sneaky.

 

[aya_amano]

I guess I classify under exhibitionist but only when asked by a friend will I dare to expose myself.

I would never dare to do it myself.

I think I would watch if I see someone exposing himself though.

 

[brittneydanger]

Exhibitionist! Without question.

 

[BrokenQuill]

I'm happy to be watched, but I would much rather enjoy watching others. Those sexy glimpses are such a thrill!

 

[Chuckyou]

Love being watched

 

[CuttingEdge]

Well that description certainly fits. Thanks! Now if I only knew how to pronounce it.

Can...as in "I CAN" do that..., then...

Dual...as in "dual tires on a truck"..., then...

Ism...as in any word that gets personified.


Can-dual-ism...

 

[5watcher]

What my name says

I am a visual person. Probably do to being not comfortable with my body and thinking nobody wants to see me.


But I have dabbled into public sex. Would like to go to a swingers event (or another safe place where you wont get the police called on you) and fuck my wife there for all to see. I wonder if I could go through with it.

 

[Cindy69love]

I'm both.