Exhibitionist Rush - Do you experience it?

Its definitely a rush. I'm not big on public displays (except on the beach) but undressing, or being undressed, in front of a new guy for the first time... wow.

I still remember the feeling the first time a guy peeled my knickers down and stopped when tthey were down to my knees and just stared. I felt so exposed and vulnerable and the butterflies in my tummy drove me mad.
I dont show pics of myself much except when looking for a new sugar daddy, and then they tend to be teasing rather than graphic and dont show my face. I learned that lesson a very hard way. Guys can be shits. I get a buzz when guys react though.
What kind of reactions from guys do enjoy most?
 
There was a time when i could only cum while being watched on cam masterbating, it was always a rush being watched
 
The moment I got married it’s like an exhibitionist switch was pulled. Next thing I knew I was on this site posting pictures. I’m in a position that if I was caught or recognized both my career and relationship would be over. I almost did get outed already and the fear and panic didn’t stop me from coming back a month later.

It’s a rush I can’t escape. And I slowly start posting and adding more…
Dont let him know you are on Lit.
 
There’s certainly a rush to taking pics and sharing them here with others. I go through phases where I know I shouldn’t be doing so, but I always seem to find my way back.
 
I like to take pictures of myself naked and in lingerie. It feels...sexy. I want to know that my pictures turn you on and that you will get off on them...Its just so hot. I havent posted pics of myself here yet. I did on another site. Other women there I was friends with would have a "throw down" night in the chatroom...each posting pics of ourselves to all positive feedback from one another and the men. It was so much fun. It was thrilling to have the attention. We all had different bodies...but the variety and playfulness was great.
 
I like to take pictures of myself naked and in lingerie. It feels...sexy. I want to know that my pictures turn you on and that you will get off on them...Its just so hot. I havent posted pics of myself here yet. I did on another site. Other women there I was friends with would have a "throw down" night in the chatroom...each posting pics of ourselves to all positive feedback from one another and the men. It was so much fun. It was thrilling to have the attention. We all had different bodies...but the variety and playfulness was great.
Looking at your profile pic I can already assure you you will have many fans, if you ever decide to publish some pictures on Lit.
 
Somehow this thread popped up in my feed and I realized that I treat nudity or exhibitionism very different in different situations.

-PDA that is much more than holding hands.
Hot, exciting, scary, probably even more exciting because of this.

- Being naked at home, or in a hotel room, or at work (ok, when I work on my own and my job is not at an office)
I don't treat this as exhibitionism as I truly don't care if I am seen or not. No, I can't be bothered to close the curtains, but I don't like to have them closed whether I am dressed or not. I just don't like covered windows.

- taking pictures or videos for Him.
It is an LDR with no way to close the distance. At first there probably was a bit of excitement in knowing that I was doing something that I probably shouldn't. But by now that is gone as I don't see it as something wrong. I would much prefer to be with Him in person, but since I can't, I have to use images. For the most part, at least with videos, I don't even know what exactly is there. I don't watch them, it doesn't matter - I get the thrill of imagining Him being really here while I tape, and I hope it translates over.

- taking pictures for Lit or for any other public display.
I am a photographer, so I am a bit weird with this. What is shown in public is carefully curated and those are images that I wouldn't mind my teen kids to see. Not that I want to show them any of that, but if they happen to see them, I wouldn't be upset about it. Some of my selfie nudes are posted on my professional site. Some I was considering to use in an exhibition. To me nudes, or any images for that matter, when done right, tell stories. And "oh, all those men are going to see my ass" is not a story worth telling.
 
Thought a bit more about it and realized there are at least two very different types of people that deal with public nudity: nudists and exhibitionists. To me the main difference is the attitude towards the audience. Nudists, as far as I know, don't really care if there is an audience or not, it is much more for them then for anybody else.
Exhibitionists, on the other hand, need the audience, there is nothing in it for them without it.

I guess I am a nudist at heart, that's why exposing myself to masses doesn't really do a thing for me sexually. It's just a body, nothing so special about it. When there is a personal connection, then yes, things are very different. But I don't think anybody would call a wife stripping for her husband an exhibitionist.
 
I like to take pictures of myself naked and in lingerie. It feels...sexy. I want to know that my pictures turn you on and that you will get off on them...Its just so hot. I havent posted pics of myself here yet. I did on another site. Other women there I was friends with would have a "throw down" night in the chatroom...each posting pics of ourselves to all positive feedback from one another and the men. It was so much fun. It was thrilling to have the attention. We all had different bodies...but the variety and playfulness was great.
I’ve done that before in chat rooms and it is indeed wild and stimulating fun. Men and women alike all sharing their nakedness.
 
Thought a bit more about it and realized there are at least two very different types of people that deal with public nudity: nudists and exhibitionists. To me the main difference is the attitude towards the audience. Nudists, as far as I know, don't really care if there is an audience or not, it is much more for them then for anybody else.
Exhibitionists, on the other hand, need the audience, there is nothing in it for them without it.

I guess I am a nudist at heart, that's why exposing myself to masses doesn't really do a thing for me sexually. It's just a body, nothing so special about it. When there is a personal connection, then yes, things are very different. But I don't think anybody would call a wife stripping for her husband an exhibitionist.

So much this.

I like being naked. It is more comfortable. I sleep better. I feel more free and relaxed. I am fine if certain other people are around when I am naked. But I don't care if I am seen.

I don't have this need to be looked at.

Hell I don't even want to be looked at by most people, clothed or not. Like... go away stranger. Leave me alone. Doesn't matter if I am fully dressed at Home Depot or naked in my living room. Don't stare at me it's creepy.

If I know you and am naked with you and you find me sexually appealing and seeing me naked turns you on.... that is an entirely different thing. I like that too (I mean... duh) but it is a very different situation than me just feeling relaxed and free naked on my couch watching TV at night. One is sexual. The other is just comfort.

On that same though I think when a woman has this exactly same attitude about nudity at home alone that it's appealing to me. That is a bit of a conflict in my philosophy of how I feel about it myself. But I can't help it. It is attractive if a woman enjoys being naked by herself. I think it's the confidence factor. Insecure people tend not to enjoy being naked alone. And I think it's her confidence that is the turn on more than the actual nudity.
 
I always try to make it look accidental but I get the biggest rush exposing in public places when I think I can get away with it
And it's a thrill to unexpectedly see someone showing more than they should
 
I did an audition at a strip club once years ago in college. I was wet seeing all the men in the audience looking at me. It was the best job for 6 months.
Glad you were well-suited (though no suit required)

I too get a good exhibitionist rush. I had a friend who if she was feeling a certain way would ask to see me naked, that feeling of being able to please someone simply by undressing is.. I get/got a lot of pleasure from it. The feeling that I'm attractive, that I can do something for someone, a little bit of power, in this case trust too.
If it's with a stranger that feeling is really stripped back to the raw thrill of: a stranger is devouring me with their eyes and they barely know the first thing about me.

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I definitely feel a rush from being an exhibitionist. Really, it's one of many things that keeps me on Lit. Sure, I enjoy the threads and chatting with people, but having an outlet for my exhibitionist side is just as important. Not much opportunity to embrace it in the outside world.
 
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