Face it..( picture thread)

Simple thing number 2 .. Brit, I LOVE that short hair on you... WOW.. Looks wonderful and I bet it is SOOOO much easier to take care of .. espeically with your busy life and your Little Brits (for some reason I forget if you have 2or 3 little Brits.. LOL)....

:rose:

Thanks, lovely! :rose:
It is so much easier, especially with the two Mini Brits 'running' around the place. I'm just glad it looks ok too!

winks
 
Thanks, lovely!

:rose:



You're biased! But I knew you'd help me find the style that was right. Thanks, beautiful!

:kiss:



sighs

Ok.

Yes.

The comment was a positive comment in a public forum. True.

However, it's the bolded section of your comment that has really stung.
When lines were drawn by stupid behaviour last time, mainly yours, and I asked that we no longer communicate, you told me I would be put on ignore along with others...clearly, you lied.

As far as I know? I've not been disrespectful, rude or otherwise inconsiderate towards you...and I certainly haven't followed you anywhere, believe me.

You want to claim the moral high ground? Fine. Then you've got to be morally superior, and you're not. You push and push and push until people bend the way you want. To you? No doesn't mean no, it means not right now.

WRONG! So wrong it actually hurts!

Yes, this was just a comment on a photo.
But, while we'll never truly know now, I would have been happy to bet that the following around would have started shortly after...and it certainly wouldn't have been by me.
It was also just a comment on a photo by someone who asked you, politely and privately, not to do so.

You can rail about being victimised and bullied by this fucking 'clique' that supposedly goes around tormenting people all you like. But the second you posted your comment you opened yourself up for attention yourself from those who know what was asked of you.

And this particular clique, by the way, if someone sees them could you point them out so I can have a word? I know I work very hard to make the Lounge an inclusive and active place, I talk to anyone and everyone and I for one would like to meet these socially selective people who are apparently making the place so awful that grown men have to act like two year olds having tantrums.

And for those unsure of what 'clique' actually means (because it's been bandied around for a while now as an insult and that's not actually what it is) ...it's a group of people who interact more intensely and regularly together than with others. The Lounge is full of them. So when you see this vicious and, frankly dangerous sounding, one...do point them out!

FD.
You were asked not to do something, by me.
Asked nicely.
You promised you wouldn't.
You lied.

End. Of.


So, finally, back to the point of the thread.

Thanks, for those who commented on my photo...as someone who had long hair all my life, I can't believe how much I'm loving short hair! :rose:


You are correct about a few things and wrong about the rest. That is not surprising. You have made a lot of assumptions.

First I will address what you did get right.

You constantly and tirelessly work to make this a welcoming place to be for most everyone. The word Clique does not completely apply to you. That was not even going to be my word of choice. The description was not targeted at you. The words I intended to use would have been a lot more inflamitory, and they were targeted at those you chose to surround yourself with. I never said you have done anything of the sort, I did not single you out, hell I didn't even talk to you until you opened the door and addressed me directly.

You asked me not to contact you. You never asked me not to comment on things in the public domain. So if that bothers you then I do apologize.

Now to the things you have wrong.

The fact is I had you and everyone in your inner circle on ignore for quite some time. The problem with that is the majority of the threads where there is activity are created by you and those I have on ignore. So in order to participate in this place in any way I had to pull you off ignore, that did not happen until a short while ago.

The only reason I am bothering to reply to this is you directly addressed me so well that makes any promise I made to you to not talk to you invalid as you have directly attacked my character.

Lets see have to scroll up....

Oh yes. Me pushing and pushing and pushing and pushing until people bend the way I want them. I've never pushed you that way. When you told me you did not want to talk to me I made one attempt to change your mind, then I left you completely alone. Other than that do you know of a situation where I have supposedly pushed anyone that you have witnessed first hand? I stress that fact because he said she said really isn't reliable.

The other fact that requires addressing. You are correct. It was very sad to see Scuttles throw a tantrum, and then when I offered him simple logic for him to fall back on insults and foolishness and not really have an actual argument. That however isn't my problem.

As far as the last little bit it does not even need addressing. Frankly it is not worth the time required to point out those individuals.

So if we are done here? Good, thought so. Have a nice day.
 
semi brave, but with a smile.

Perhaps I will show more, but for now?
 

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Haha.. it's good, no worries. Just surprising, cause you normally don't. I think it's because of the way your hair is did.
 
As one who has been on and off this forum for a while now... and missed all the drama going on.. (thank goodness for that).... I just wanted to say 2 simple things...

Simple thing number 1 .. Not everyone is going to get along. There will always be discord among a group of people. Pretty simple.

Simple thing number 2 .. Brit, I LOVE that short hair on you... WOW.. Looks wonderful and I bet it is SOOOO much easier to take care of .. espeically with your busy life and your Little Brits (for some reason I forget if you have 2or 3 little Brits.. LOL)....

:rose:

very sexy, by the way its raining here now.
 
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