Fantasising during lovemaking: your partner having sex with someone else!

[screwher]

Before I'd even met my wife I heard her with her then boyfriend in the next bedroom. Later on I found out he was very very big. Even though it was many years ago it still excites me. Plus I've seen and heard her with a few others so thats always floating around in my twisted mind. She thinks I'm nuts when I bring it up lol

Wow! So you have the sweet sounds of your wife getting fucked by another man burned in your brain. Enjoy it!

 

[Gr82meetu2]

Sometimes I imagine her with another guy and sometimes I think about my ex
I don’t know why
But my mind always goes there

 

[Bigaug]

Hi, I am sure we have been to a place where we are "guilty" of thinking of someone else during lovemaking.

But how many of us think about our partners being with someone else and get really aroused by it?

I have done it many times and would love to know if you have!

I have had the opportunity to watch my wife play with a couple of guys and women, not a full on sex thing, but fingering same bed sex, She jerked off my brother in law as he rubbed her clit and I fucked her sister, we all came together it was pretty wild. But I would love for her to have a full blown sex time with a man or woman, without me participating. We came close once, at a friends summer home, 4 of us were naked and high, wife was very horny, my friend's wife was rubbing my wife, they were making out, his wife suddenly left, but he kept rubbing my wife's tits and pussy, he then licked down her body, I stepped aside to watch, when my wife made him stop, got up went to bathroom, then went to bed!

 

[neon_noodle]

I've been a hotwife for like 5 yrs so this literally our whole sex life!

Good girl. Does your husband have sex with other gals too? Or rub cocks with the guys when they're gangbanging you?

 

[PFWilly]

Hi, I am sure we have been to a place where we are "guilty" of thinking of someone else during lovemaking.

But how many of us think about our partners being with someone else and get really aroused by it?

I have done it many times and would love to know if you have!

I somewhat frequently think about my wife bent over our kitchen table gettin long slow fucked by our good friend many years ago. Also imagine what it looked like the first time she got fucked by her work colleague on his work desk. That episode led to a two year sexual affair.

There’s a few other images that violate Lit rules, so I don’t talk about them.

 

[maxwellq]

Love this thread. Me and my wife do something similar. She will pick a person for me to pretend to be and we will then have sex with me pretending to be that person. I will do the same for her but only one of us role plays at a time. It can be somebody famous or just someone we know or work with, Sometimes it can be a complete stranger we see somewhere and make up a back story for them. It certainly spices things up especially when she moans the other guy's name.

Two interesting things about this is that firstly, often when we say who we want the other to pretend to be the reaction is "Oh. Really? You find THEM attractive?". The second is that it revealed to me that my wife clearly spends a lot more time observing guys than I ever would have thought. And thats a big turn on for me.

Sounds really exciting. I would love it if my wife would spice up our fantasy sex like that.

 

[BiWifeMyrtleBeach]

Sometimes when we are having sex, my mind will drift to a sexual experience we have had with others. One thing my guy knows is I am very vocal but if I am a bit more quiet I am usually lost in some fantasy. Recently he was fucking me from behind, holding my hips giving it to me at a moderate pace, while slipping his middle finger in and out my ass. I was hot for it, and told him I wanted him back there. After lubing me and working his cock in my rear entrance, I asked him if he could be fucking any other woman in the ass right that moment who would it be? He was quite for a moment and laughingly but lustfully I asked him again telling him its ok, it would turn me on to know. He worked his cock further in and mentioned the name of an old co-worker of his we had actually been with before. "Tanya"..he confessed. It turned me on so much as she is very beautiful and while we did have threesomes in the past, we never breeched that subject.

I told him I wanted him to close his eyes and imagine he was screwing her ass while I watched. Before long, we were actually roleplaying with him calling me by her name begging him to fuck my ass harder. I closed my eyes and could almost see her 5'1" blonde frame on our bed, ass up taking him. Soon he buried deep and emptied his cum deep in me.

Tanya did almost anything in bed with us, but was not into anal sex, or so she said, but at least we can fantasize about it.

 

[daytr1pper]

But how many of us think about our partners being with someone else and get really aroused by it?

I never ever thought of this - until I started hanging out on lit.
I have no desire for her to actually be fucked by anyone else, but sometimes I fantasize about it during our playtime.
Last night I edged to (supposed) videos of wives being shared. The ones that just seem like porn I jump past, but there are some where it feels like it's a gift to the wife. Those turn me on.

Guilty of this as well. Also during oral, i spread her ass and imagine her being fucked.

I had to look at who posted this. I thought I might've responded already.
I don't really picture anyone specific, but sometimes when I'm laying in our bed and she's standing and bent over me giving me a bj, I grab her ass cheek and spread it a bit for the imaginary guy fucking her from behind.

I've always fantisized about the FMF threesome. But more recently I've been watching video of MFM. Again, not interested in the stuff that is clearly just porn. But love watching the ones where it seems genuine two guys doing what they can are to please the woman.

I've thought of watching a partner with someone and also being the partner fucked while my lover watches, but I probably won't bring this up or actually do it as I'm monogamous once I decide I want to be in a relationship with anyone.

I waffle here. When I'm having a hard time cumming, occasionally I'll imagine another female in the room encouraging my wife. And sometimes I'll imagine my wife is watching while I'm playing with that female.

 

[MaxwellSmart86]

I haven't thought of my wife with someone else while we're having sex, but I have imagined a female friend of ours watching us and masturbating while encouraging me to finish in my wife. That usually does the trick to push me over the edge.

 

[maxwellq]

Big time! I often imagine my wife's past experiences. She even played along a few times, calling me by her lovers name while I fucked her. I came so hard.

I wish that my wife would play along. It would be so exciting if she would pretend that I am a former lover and call me by his name while we are fucking.

 

[SPARTAN047]

I love the fantasy so much and I'm willing to talk about it and imagine it.

If it really happens there won't be a relationship anymore and I'll be free to fuck anyone else while they watch, which isn't a bad thing.

 

[Jordanjack]

Oh my god yes. I fantasize about her getting fucked by other men frequently. She has no idea about that. I’m to shamed to tell her for fear of her reaction.

 

[SPARTAN047]

Quite normal, I've been embarrassed to tell any of my lovers.

 

[amigayorbi]

bumping this up!

 

[SPARTAN047]

I wish I had, but it didn't work out for so many people who said they wanted it with me.

 

[MamaBitte]

Before I'd even met my wife I heard her with her then boyfriend in the next bedroom. Later on I found out he was very very big. Even though it was many years ago it still excites me. Plus I've seen and heard her with a few others so thats always floating around in my twisted mind. She thinks I'm nuts when I bring it up lol

Lucky you!

 

[calmlikeabomb]

I once told the mrs while fucking that i wished she had a twin sister so that I could watch her fuck herself.

It was a valuable lesson in how sometimes it's ok to keep my thoughts to myself.

 

[SPARTAN047]

I keep doing it, especially in interracial sex which I find amazing. I figure it won't really work out.

 

[Kolejdayz]

We went to a nude beach and played "who would you do." Some of of the nude bathers were especially cute. Then we went back to the hotel and fucked while we pretended that we were fucking the ones that we especially liked

 

[LMWM321]

My wife will occasionally perform oral on her dildo while I am inside her, she knows it drives me nuts. Usually while she is on her back with her knees over my shoulders as I am sitting upright. She’ll look at me, then slowly turn her head to one side, pull the dildo from beside her pillow then begin gliding it in and out her mouth, being sure to make lots of wet, sensual, sloshing noises.

She knows I love the fantasy that we are at an orgy and she needs two men to please her. The fantasy play excites her too.

 

[cadman7777]

I use to express fantasies with my ex........especially while I was. finger fucking her....then I moved on to using a dildo on her or when I had her suck on the dildo......she wasn't into it at first and just went along although I do think as she got turned on she kind of liked it. I really love fantasizing while having sex, I'd love a woman to do it as well, but my current wife isn't into it at all

 

[SPARTAN047]

We went to a nude beach and played "who would you do." Some of of the nude bathers were especially cute. Then we went back to the hotel and fucked while we pretended that we were fucking the ones that we especially liked

I love it, if it's done mutually I'd actually love to try that!

 

[SPARTAN047]

I once told the mrs while fucking that i wished she had a twin sister so that I could watch her fuck herself.

It was a valuable lesson in how sometimes it's ok to keep my thoughts to myself.

Does she keep her thoughts to herself?

 

[Kolejdayz]

I love it, if it's done mutually I'd actually love to try that!

It was fun. I was surprised the cocks that attracted her.

 

[SPARTAN047]

It was fun. I was surprised the cocks that attracted her.

I suppose we don't really know what cock or pussy our spouse is attracted to.