Fantasy of doing sex with another guy

[Learin]

Hello, sometimes I feel like I am the only woman with this issue. I am married with a beautiful guy, fit body, and very active sexually. I couldn't ask for a better sex partner but I have a secret fantasy and from what I see I will not do it anytime soon. My sexual fantasy is to have sex with a totally strange guy while my husband is watching! I'm wet already just from thinking about it. No, I don't want to cheat on my lover.
I already showed him some of these cuckold videos but he didn't like the idea at all. Any girl out there with the same issue? Any hints on what should be my approach?

PS: you guys no need to send me private messages, I am not interested to cheat on my husband.

I don't know how well you communicate with your husband, so unless it's something that has become a craving instead of harmless fantasy, you should keep it private. If your husband gets upset or insecure, it won't help if you try to shove it down his throat.

Let him get used to the idea of being a cuckold. If he doesn't like it.... well, you'll have to keep it hidden as a fantasy.

 

[LicketySwich]

From a guy

My wife and I recently 'came out' about how in to BDSM we are after 6 weeks in therapy for our cheating problem. I told her I wanted to go to brothels where I could safely have group sex without emotional attachment and see a dominatrix. Neither one of us are interested in doing friends, she has experience with threesomes that complicated her relationship afterwards because of that and it all makes perfect sense to be leery of bringing outside emotions inside the bedroom. She told me about a fantasy of a three way with two guys which now, given the circumstances I think is only fair. "There is nothing wrong with having any fantasy at all" I told her, "it is all about communication and negotiation." I would absolutely not be okay with being tied up in that situation, even though I am a switch with women. I would however, and already did prior to this conversation, fantasize about (sexlessly)dominating another, handsome heterosexual or bisexual man(guys don't act like you have never fantasized about 'kicking someones ass' or being held in high regard and praised by men), it occurred to me my wife and I could help each other out and I immediately got a huge rod when we talked about it. Tie my wife up, blindfold her and make her play with herself... tie him up, make him watch... beg for it... call me master... make her tease him or make him tease her depending on who is on better behavior. As long as I run the show up to the sex, so that I can remain confident, I would be cool with a threesome, I wouldn't necessarily have to have sex. Maybe he is kinky like that and you could incept the notion? Maybe you could give him permission to go to a brothel or something like that if you are comfortable with that(i would hope you would be) for a little motivation.

 

[mamola]

In my opinion this is just a fantasy and its not a real desire so don'tfreak out...it will pass

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