Fear of being Slutish

I was accused of being a male slut as a teenager, very ironically by one of my school's undisputed leading sluts. Really just because I always wanted to make out with her friends and never, ever passed up the chance to flirt with anyone female.
 
Many in this community are familiar with my sexual life. It's urges, the love for my son and several marriages. Now am often called a milf, nympho etc. It makes me feel slutish. Have often gone over the limit and afraid to share it here, because I would be worse then being a slut.
For now am sitting here calmly but the idea that it would be daring and risky to say more turns me on. ❤️❤️
Hi Angela, I've just come across yojr thread. If you are happy when you feel slutish then embrace it. I am not familiar with your sexual life and your urges but I would love to hear more.

Can I DM you if you are willing to share more privately. No judgement made.
 
It's my own fault being called a slut and milf. You may like that your wife embraced slutishness, what about when another chap wants her
I feel like the term “slut” has a lot to do with context and culture. Much in the same way the Black community casually uses certain slurs and terms of endearment, but no one else outside that group can. They understand among their same community that the term isn’t used out of malice or hatred.

During sex, I love dirty talk, saying and having it said to me. Wild and intense during sex. One girlfriend loves being called a slut, whore, and nasty during sex. However, I’d never use those terms for her as a personal attack outside of sex. There was consent and respect between us. She trusted to show her vulnerable side to me.

The term “slut” can often be used just to mock anyone who has confidence in their sexuality. Even for people who aren’t intensely sexually active. I think confidence and experience are attractive min a woman. Give me a “slut” who’s sucked 50 dicks, knows what she’s doing someone, and what she enjoys over some prudish virgin who’s not enjoying herself and doesn’t know what she’s doing.

If guys would stop slut shaming so many women, they might enjoy themselves more. How is the average woman suppose to trust a man to show her wild desires if all she sees are men and women mocking women who are open about their sexuality. Guys wonder why some woman are so passive in sex. It’s likely she doesn’t feel safe to show her wilder side. Fear of judgment or shame.
 
What would a male slut be like, just perhaps having a hard cock most of the time
Came across this old post and had to ponder this @angela40 ... Having a hard cock and showing all the girls...eh erm, no thats a different sort altogether. 😄

What about this example...
 
My wife has had a busy and myriad sex life. She has done three somes, both MMF and FFM, black guys, and gang bangs. Her previous husband and she were swingers. He traveled for work, so she had carte blanche to do whatever she wanted as long as she told him a good story about her adventures. I'm sure there are a few things she wouldn't do again, but she makes no apologies for her desire for sex and to appeal to men. When we first got together, we drank some wine and told each other all of our secrets, so there are no surprises between us. Also, knowing about her past took away any power or threat from previous husband. She is a fantastic storyteller and hopefully she'll share some of her stories her someday.
She is retiring early so maybe she'll start writing sooner than later.
 
My wife has had a busy and myriad sex life. She has done three somes, both MMF and FFM, black guys, and gang bangs. Her previous husband and she were swingers. He traveled for work, so she had carte blanche to do whatever she wanted as long as she told him a good story about her adventures. I'm sure there are a few things she wouldn't do again, but she makes no apologies for her desire for sex and to appeal to men. When we first got together, we drank some wine and told each other all of our secrets, so there are no surprises between us. Also, knowing about her past took away any power or threat from previous husband. She is a fantastic storyteller and hopefully she'll share some of her stories her someday.
She is retiring early so maybe she'll start writing sooner than later.
Awesome!
 
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