Feeldoe... anyone tried it?
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I suppose I should have said "What a lovely coincidence that I just now am seeing this thread!"Oh, well, um, *coughcough, blush* . . .anal play of various sorts had just been on my mind a lot lately, that's all.
And Etoile, I shall take this opportunity to say what I think each time I see your av, which is, "what a beautiful woman!"
Just on your mind??
What are your thoughts pray tell!
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Oh, well, um, *coughcough, blush* . . .anal play of various sorts had just been on my mind a lot lately, that's all.
And Etoile, I shall take this opportunity to say what I think each time I see your av, which is, "what a beautiful woman!"
What are your thoughts pray tell!
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If I told you I'd have to kill you. 
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Maybe someone needs to beat it out of me.
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Maybe someone needs to beat it out of me.
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We had a feeloe. Looks cool, but doesn't perform very well. It doesn't have a good feel to it, not flexible enough and the head feels uncomfortable once it's in. I still enjoy being fucked with a realistic cock vac-u-lok system. The feeloe is an excellent idea with no harness, but needs to have the feel, texture of a real cock...makes the experience that much hotter.
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I don't know why, but Vac-U-Lock has never appealed to me. I guess I go more for women-positive stuff than women-neutral stuff. I mean, I don't think Vac-U-Lock is misogynistic or anything, but it just doesn't seem like my kind of thing. Hell, I dunno. I'm happy with my leather harness and a regular dildo.
I'm happy with my leather harness and a regular dildo. 
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I have used many harness/dildos and double ended dildos, but primarily in girl/girl play so I can't really give any good advice. I have used the feeldoe, but prefer the Nexus with a good harness. The Nexus is simlar to the feeldoe, but in my opinion its a better product for girl/girl play. I have no idea how it would work for girl/guy.Etoile said:I don't know why, but Vac-U-Lock has never appealed to me. I guess I go more for women-positive stuff than women-neutral stuff. I mean, I don't think Vac-U-Lock is misogynistic or anything, but it just doesn't seem like my kind of thing. Hell, I dunno.
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Nexus??
Gee no one here has promoted the nexus! (grin... except Etoile!)
I guess I was originally more pro feeldoe due to the "lack of harness", but since then it seems everyone likes a harness with the feeldoe because they really want to thrust hard. So...... I guess I'd be happy with the Nexus again.
CorsetLover.... how do they compare on giving you sensations? Control?
Can you practice all your moves without a partner? (I guess I may have asked that elsewhere)
Is the Nexus fun all by itself?
Say hi to Teaganne if you run into her out there!
Gee no one here has promoted the nexus! (grin... except Etoile!)
I guess I was originally more pro feeldoe due to the "lack of harness", but since then it seems everyone likes a harness with the feeldoe because they really want to thrust hard. So...... I guess I'd be happy with the Nexus again.
CorsetLover.... how do they compare on giving you sensations? Control?
Can you practice all your moves without a partner? (I guess I may have asked that elsewhere)
Is the Nexus fun all by itself?
Say hi to Teaganne if you run into her out there!
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I have never tried the feeldoe without a harness. That was one reason I didn't like it. The lack of control with it. The Nexus is much better and you can be much more active with it compared to a regular double dildo. The biggest advantage to the Nexus with a harness is the control you have with it. Its more like a regular dildo harness combo. You can use the Nexus without a partner, but then its just like any other dildo. Sensation wise, there is a feeling of fullness from wearing it with a harness, but not like you are being actively fucked by a partner. There is some movement, but not a full thrusting feeling. For more sensation, I will slip a little bullet vibe into the harness against my clit.uptoplay2 said:
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The *very* interesting things I learn here . ..off to look for this "Nexus" item . . .
Off to look? CorsetLvr left a nice link!??
Do others agree that the harnesses on that link seem like good choices??
Still waiting for feedback on how ladies out there might be fashioning ways to practice.
Guys? Any advice from all the years you've had nothing better to do then try to create that special feeling a woman can give you....... minus the woman.
Do others agree that the harnesses on that link seem like good choices??
Still waiting for feedback on how ladies out there might be fashioning ways to practice.
Guys? Any advice from all the years you've had nothing better to do then try to create that special feeling a woman can give you....... minus the woman.
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OOOooooOOOOO, the Nexus, Jr. comes in blue! I love blue!
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That site also has some other highly interesting items:
1. The book "The Ultimate Guide to Strap-On Sex"
and an intriguing-looking video:
2. "Bend over Boyfriend"
I love that site, their descriptions just slay me. LOL!
1. The book "The Ultimate Guide to Strap-On Sex"
and an intriguing-looking video:
2. "Bend over Boyfriend"
I love that site, their descriptions just slay me. LOL!
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There is an image of the Nexus at the site linked to . . .or did you mean with it in use?
I've only seen one Nexus in use ....... well not really in use.... more like a demo of it's flexibility while .... "installed?"
If anyone finds any more images..... please let us know. I'm making the public ones I find available at the yahoo group.
If anyone finds any more images..... please let us know. I'm making the public ones I find available at the yahoo group.
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I love the Blowfish website. Its my favorite toy vendor. Their stuff is more expensive, but its also a lot higher quality then the junk you see on a lot of toy sites,
Another good one to go to is www.goodvibes.com. Its a female employee owned toy store out in S.F. They only sell products that have passed their "road test." I even have a book that two of the owners wrote about variations on toy sex.
Another good one to go to is www.goodvibes.com. Its a female employee owned toy store out in S.F. They only sell products that have passed their "road test." I even have a book that two of the owners wrote about variations on toy sex.
What harness did you use with the feeldoe that was so bad? Maybe we need to create a list for the good and the bad to help others avoid problems.
What harness works? for Feeldoes..... for Nexi?
(and still that nagging question....... how do you practice your stroke technique... surely you are more imaginative than guys. A good firm hand is nice....... but there must be better ways to create the right feel)
What harness works? for Feeldoes..... for Nexi?
(and still that nagging question....... how do you practice your stroke technique... surely you are more imaginative than guys. A good firm hand is nice....... but there must be better ways to create the right feel)
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I just went back and looked at my last post. What I meant to say was that I had never used a feeldoe with a harness, not without. Maybe someone else can help out here. The Blowfish website says that they don't know of anyone that has successfully used a harness with a feeldoe.uptoplay2 said:
For the Nexus, I use the harness that the Blowfish folks recommends, the Supple Leather Two-Strap Harness.
I'm afraid that I may disappoint you with my lack of creativity on my "stroke technique." The three basic positions that I use are me on top, her on top, or doggy position. As far as the actual stroke technique, I generally just do some experimenting with my partner initially and see what works for her and just expand on it from there.
"stroke technique"
I guess what I meant is ..... just playing with the strap-on by yourself? Does that hold any interest? If it pleases you as you use it on someone else, is there anyway to create that feeling by yourself? I guess it's a harder workout than just using the good old fashion self-pleasuring techniques. In my mind..... I imagine my lover enjoying the actual sensations enough to get the urge when I'm not around.
I guess what I meant is ..... just playing with the strap-on by yourself? Does that hold any interest? If it pleases you as you use it on someone else, is there anyway to create that feeling by yourself? I guess it's a harder workout than just using the good old fashion self-pleasuring techniques. In my mind..... I imagine my lover enjoying the actual sensations enough to get the urge when I'm not around.
