Fellow bi-virgins....

[TomBoner]

Why are we still only fantasizing about it? ... And, perhaps we don't even need to do it again after that.

I'm thinkin' the latter doesn't really happen very often. Most people I've talked to about it once they've experienced it once, there's NOOOOOO turning back. It unleashes desires and wants never before imagined.

 

[MoleskineScribbler]

I'm thinkin' the latter doesn't really happen very often. Most people I've talked to about it once they've experienced it once, there's NOOOOOO turning back. It unleashes desires and wants never before imagined.

I did it with a couple a few times many years ago. Haven't done it since but think about it every day.

 

[malecasual]

Happy to play online sex mentor for terminally horny bi boys. I'm just sayin'....

So what's included in this mentoring?

 

[dougsan]

Finding a lover on-line IMO is asking for trouble. Check out the local gay clubs, bars and organizations. Speak up as to who you are sexually and I assure you the gand will make you welcome (some gay bars are a bit rough, maybe you should avoid such at first0.

 

[Originator]

I have been looking

I'm thinking about trying soon. Just hard to meet someone you trust.
30 m Midwest pm me on here or yahoo. Ia_farmboy

 

[northern54]

How does one get past the fear of STD's & possibly bringing it home?

 

[Aberveen]

I understand the frustration and I personally feel an added frustration from where I'm coming from with this.

I could never see myself attracted to men, I'm a part of that hypocritical "I love the cocks, but men are a turn off" category.
It's not even that I would need the right situation or person, I could never go with the anonymous hook-up or glory hole.
I simply could never actually go through with being with another guy.
Ideally for me to 'actually go through with it' I would have to live in a world where women had penises.

Even with shemales as a real option, I know I couldn't go through with that either.
My fantasy of cock is disassociated with any real world interests. It's basically grown into this masturbatory fantasies that at the same time, I would want to physically fulfill.

It's probably just that I'm simply afraid of going through with it, but I know no matter what the underlying reason, I could never step into a real world setting and suck or ride a cock.
Even when sucking or riding a dildo, I feel "silly" in some way.

But as much as I know I could never actually, in the real world, be with a guy, I STILL have this desire to feel a penis fill my mouth, feel my balls slap against theirs, feel a cockhead push into my anus. I feel like my frustration stems from the "idea" of cock is such a turn on, but the "reality" of it does nothing for me...if that makes sense -_-
Haha, I guess a better hypocritical way of explaining it all is "I'm only gay when I masturbate"

Sorry for the ramblings, just wanted to share

 

[Aberveen]

I'm sure there's more of us out there, don't let the discussion die down.

 

[Mortuis]

Well, there's at least one more....

Trust is a big issue for me. Male or female, I want to be friends before being lovers. Also, I don't want my marriage to end because I took that last step. Does that mean it'll never happen? No, it just means that I want to minimize the risk.

Besides, there's a lot of fun that can be had prior to a face-to-face meeting...

 

[SouthernBiGuy]

I'm thinkin' the latter doesn't really happen very often. Most people I've talked to about it once they've experienced it once, there's NOOOOOO turning back. It unleashes desires and wants never before imagined.

I'd have to agree. I was lucky enough to have a REALLY hot first time, and honestly have never had an experience with a guy that was as hot as the first, but the other times were VERY very fun. I'd have to say that my first experience with a guy was way hotter than my first experience with a girl.

All it takes is the right chemistry. Once you find a guy or couple that will make you feel comfortable while at the same time making you feel unbelievably sexy. Just keep trying.

And hey, if you are ever in NC then maybe even I can help you out.