Yarglenurp
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Arguably the patriarchy hasn't been just about men occupying leadership positions. It also included the oppression women in order to compel certain behaviours that benefit men. The double standard was truly different rules for men and women both formally and informally. Women didn't always behave accordingly, but even when they didn't those rules were part of heir existence. That still exists but has been substantially diluted.
If society became a matriarchy would women do the same and implement different rules for men and women? Or would it be more a matter of leading, but with roughly similar rules except for who occupies the leadership positions?
In my view, what is traditionally called the patriarchy is basically formalized kratocracy, with the strong governing the weak. What goes unsaid in polite society is that patriarchy tends to fundamentally work because the man is more willing and more likely to beat his partner into submission and to death. Even in our more “polite” society, most baseline humans still implicitly operate off this “might makes right” philosophy. We might deride brutes on paper, but we reward artfully hidden brutality with extreme wealth, privilege, and implied breeding potential.
If women were the more aggressive and stronger sex, we’d probably have the exact structures now, just with bigger and more brutish women battering their husbands. I doubt this is the type of matriarchal society anyone actually wants.
For an idyllic matriarchal society to take place in a meaningful way, this fundamental “strength-worship” trait in humans needs to get modified somehow. You can’t eliminate it, since it does serve a useful purpose, but it would need to change so that physical strength and sociopathic stubborness becomes way more under-weighted in our evaluation of worthiness to lead.
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