Female perspective on exhibitionist tendencies

Guys, we’re not dressing so you can look at us.

We’re doing it for ourselves.

We realize it’s inevitable that sometimes you’re going check us out, and if you’re subtle about it—that’s okay.

But don’t act like we’re asking for it.
I agree but sometimes some women do dress like that on purpose I mean maybe 10 % do that so men will look at them
 
I've been an ardent exhibitionist since my teens when I would masturbate with my curtains open in view of the windows in the high rise buildings surrounding mine. To this day, decades later, I still enjoy doing so! I often take out my trusty tripod and camera to video my playtime, as the internet has allowed me to expand my horizons. While I most certainly also have a voyeuristic side, the idea of having someone's eyes sear in to my pussy as I pleasure myself still makes me wet and I'd like to think that I'm not the only one! :)For both voyeurs and exhibitionists, NYC is a fantastic place to be!
I hope that some here read my "stories", experiences and memories I hold dear and still sometimes masturbate to. I only wish my writing skills could do them more justice! My stories are here (3 so far):
https://www.literotica.com/authors/NightBirdNYC/works/stories

And for those voyeurs who might be here, I hope you enjoy this as well! 🔭😍🍆😈💦💦
https://vlix.io/video/c84d5239d1a12a4f7187/
Just love your presentation and your being an exhibitionist, stunning
 
I'm going to start by saying I am a voyeur, people watcher, whatever you want to call it. I'd love walking up on somebody masturbating, or people having sex, or even just topless ladies...lol. I also love when women go out looking good(and dirty), and seeming like they know it. From a woman's perspective, does a woman usually know and enjoy the looks she is getting when she is showing a lot of skin, or clothes so tight there is nothing left to the imagination. Or are a lot of women oblivious to how good they look and the fact that a lot of men are checking them out. I enjoy walking through a store or mall, or library for that matter, where a woman looks like she wants to be noticed, and wondered if it is actually a turn on for women to catch guys looking. Add the the thread or message me with thoughts on it
I'm not going to speak for women, but, as a man who has recently started deliberately wearing something very revealing, I've learned that it is really really easy to know when someone is looking. Even if they're trying to look like they're not looking. Even if they're just looking almost unconsciously.

For years I wasn't aware of this at all. I never looked for it, I almost never noticed it. It never occurred to me that they were pretty much doing the same thing I do (I look , you know?) when I'm around women dressed revealingly or flatteringly. But now that I'm deliberately showing an obvious basket, it makes me notice when I get looks.

This was probably happening all along and I was just oblivious. But now it's probably happening more AND I'm definitely noticing more.

Basically my point is that from personal experience, I know that anyone who knows their body can be seen is not oblivious to the looks they get. I can do a good job of pretending I don't see them looking, but that's just being polite, in most situations. Right?

And that's me. For me, it's a matter of politeness.

For women, pretending not to know they're being looked at comes from a whole different set of motivations. And they must be doing it all the time.
 
Last edited:
I've been an ardent exhibitionist since my teens when I would masturbate with my curtains open in view of the windows in the high rise buildings surrounding mine. To this day, decades later, I still enjoy doing so! I often take out my trusty tripod and camera to video my playtime, as the internet has allowed me to expand my horizons. While I most certainly also have a voyeuristic side, the idea of having someone's eyes sear in to my pussy as I pleasure myself still makes me wet and I'd like to think that I'm not the only one! :)For both voyeurs and exhibitionists, NYC is a fantastic place to be!
I hope that some here read my "stories", experiences and memories I hold dear and still sometimes masturbate to. I only wish my writing skills could do them more justice! My stories are here (3 so far):
https://www.literotica.com/authors/NightBirdNYC/works/stories

And for those voyeurs who might be here, I hope you enjoy this as well! 🔭😍🍆😈💦💦
https://vlix.io/video/c84d5239d1a12a4f7187/
This is a fantastic video. Watching you trying to catch some of your squirt on your hands so you can taste it and rub it on yourself….I need a glass of water myself
 
I've always enjoyed showing my body. I 'matured' in high school during my junior year to a 36dd. Surprisingly, I didn't lose my virginity until I was almost 19, but I was pretty popular and dated regularly. My parents would have killed me if they knew how I altered my clothing when not in their presence. An extra button undone on my blouse to show my cleavage or rolling up my skirts to show more thighs was a regular thing.

I didn't get the opportunity to go to college, just to a vocational school and then to an electrical company as a secretary. By that time, I was wearing low-cut tops and mini skirts.
Oh, I forgot to mention my love of performing fellatio! I would ride to work with a man from my neighborhood, who I would pay daily with oral on the way home. He kept my behavior to himself, but soon, he wanted me to stop at a bar on the way home.

I guess he was the one who showed me how my exposure could be beneficial. We would sit at the bar, and he would suggest if I went into the lady's room and removed my bra, and return with my blouse open to below my breasts how I could get admiring looks from the men.

An exhibitionist was born!
 
I've always enjoyed showing my body. I 'matured' in high school during my junior year to a 36dd. Surprisingly, I didn't lose my virginity until I was almost 19, but I was pretty popular and dated regularly. My parents would have killed me if they knew how I altered my clothing when not in their presence. An extra button undone on my blouse to show my cleavage or rolling up my skirts to show more thighs was a regular thing.

I didn't get the opportunity to go to college, just to a vocational school and then to an electrical company as a secretary. By that time, I was wearing low-cut tops and mini skirts.
Oh, I forgot to mention my love of performing fellatio! I would ride to work with a man from my neighborhood, who I would pay daily with oral on the way home. He kept my behavior to himself, but soon, he wanted me to stop at a bar on the way home.

I guess he was the one who showed me how my exposure could be beneficial. We would sit at the bar, and he would suggest if I went into the lady's room and removed my bra, and return with my blouse open to below my breasts how I could get admiring looks from the men.

An exhibitionist was born!
Sue you can show me your breasts any time. Show more too I will enjoy mmmmm
 
I've always enjoyed showing my body. I 'matured' in high school during my junior year to a 36dd. Surprisingly, I didn't lose my virginity until I was almost 19, but I was pretty popular and dated regularly. My parents would have killed me if they knew how I altered my clothing when not in their presence. An extra button undone on my blouse to show my cleavage or rolling up my skirts to show more thighs was a regular thing.

I didn't get the opportunity to go to college, just to a vocational school and then to an electrical company as a secretary. By that time, I was wearing low-cut tops and mini skirts.
Oh, I forgot to mention my love of performing fellatio! I would ride to work with a man from my neighborhood, who I would pay daily with oral on the way home. He kept my behavior to himself, but soon, he wanted me to stop at a bar on the way home.

I guess he was the one who showed me how my exposure could be beneficial. We would sit at the bar, and he would suggest if I went into the lady's room and removed my bra, and return with my blouse open to below my breasts how I could get admiring looks from the men.

An exhibitionist was born!
I love sexual awakenings! :)
 
I've been an ardent exhibitionist since my teens when I would masturbate with my curtains open in view of the windows in the high rise buildings surrounding mine. To this day, decades later, I still enjoy doing so! I often take out my trusty tripod and camera to video my playtime, as the internet has allowed me to expand my horizons. While I most certainly also have a voyeuristic side, the idea of having someone's eyes sear in to my pussy as I pleasure myself still makes me wet and I'd like to think that I'm not the only one! :)For both voyeurs and exhibitionists, NYC is a fantastic place to be!
I hope that some here read my "stories", experiences and memories I hold dear and still sometimes masturbate to. I only wish my writing skills could do them more justice! My stories are here (3 so far):
https://www.literotica.com/authors/NightBirdNYC/works/stories

And for those voyeurs who might be here, I hope you enjoy this as well 🔭🔭😍😈🍆💦💦💦💦
https://vlix.io/video/b7b9e745775793141e2b/
 
Back
Top