whenagain
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I can only speak for myself as a sub...I think the hardest thing online is aftercare. Being a sub and turning fantasy into reality is amazing in the moment, but then dealing with the shame, guilt and embarrassment afterwards can be really hard and unless you are in a relationship where the domme is willing to play the compassionate domme during those periods of "drop", I think it makes long term success difficult...at least it has been for me.
I think this is a solid observation.