First time anal play

[kelloveslit]

Being the anal sex fan that I am , I've had quite a bit of experience putting things up my rectum so I can completely understand the concerns you mention. Cleanliness and lubrication. On more than one occasion I have had a guy try to force his penis up my rectum thinking that because my vagina was wet, and some of that was on their penis, that it should go in just fine. Then exclaim how tight I am while I am speechless with pain. I have also learned that along with keeping my vagina fresh and rinsed out, I do the same with my rectum before any sex.

But all that aside, I have found most men dislike even a touch on their sphincter with a finger or even my tongue if I am giving them a blow job and I happen to wander south. But I admit a few men have loved the sensation and wanted me to go back for more.

Once my hub learned that I loved anal touching, he learned to explore my body more. Eventually after fingers and toys we had full anal sex (and I loved it!). After two years of pleasuring me, I suspect he was curious, so he asked me to touch him one night. I gently and slowly made my way down, just circling the soft flesh. He went crazy, but I didn't go inside. After a few more of those, he opened his legs wide one night, and I got to finger him. We both enjoyed it so much. Now anal play for both of us is always on the menu. And I love doing the same with my special female friends too...

 

[lisad83]

Once my hub learned that I loved anal touching, he learned to explore my body more. Eventually after fingers and toys we had full anal sex (and I loved it!). After two years of pleasuring me, I suspect he was curious, so he asked me to touch him one night. I gently and slowly made my way down, just circling the soft flesh. He went crazy, but I didn't go inside. After a few more of those, he opened his legs wide one night, and I got to finger him. We both enjoyed it so much. Now anal play for both of us is always on the menu. And I love doing the same with my special female friends too...

Thats hot Kell

 

[Ngata]

Well I must say I love anal touching, giving and receiving, and a blow job or hand job while having a finger or two up my bum really drives me over the edge towards the best orgasm ever.
Unfortunately many men are too scared to try this experience.
When a couple trust one another and are open to new experiences I suggest they try this - there is a huge amount of information about how to give your man a prostate massage on the internet. Check it out.
Women, if you love that guy, suggest gently to him that you'd like to try