First time bottom what should I expect

[default24]

They make special butthole lube, FYI.

A friend told me.

My friend told me that it's not that much better than the regular lube? These friends are unreliable

 

[Suz_anne]

They make special butthole lube, FYI.

A friend told me.

My friend told me that it's not that much better than the regular lube? These friends are unreliable

He's talking about WD-40. His "friend" was extolling the virtues. Itt can fix a creaky hinge, soften leather, erase crayon marks, make your sweet little daffodil all slippery...

 

[Tnman3838]

Same. So with that idea in mind, personal steps I take is a quick enema (you can find small ones at a drugstore or sex store. That is a personal hang up but it makes me feel a bit more confident) and I find experimenting with anal plugs before hand helps. Also lube. Lots and lots of lube. Look for silicone based. Good luck!

ok cool I was wondering about that

 

[FGB]

My friend told me that it's not that much better than the regular lube? These friends are unreliable

Mixture of Passion and Anal Lube the thick stuff, works well.

(second hand information...I just mixed and applied it.)

 

[blade_rocknut]

Same. So with that idea in mind, personal steps I take is a quick enema (you can find small ones at a drugstore or sex store. That is a personal hang up but it makes me feel a bit more confident) and I find experimenting with anal plugs before hand helps. Also lube. Lots and lots of lube. Look for silicone based. Good luck!

Never bottomed per se, but have an awful lot of anal play experience, including a great session yesterday.
I second the enema advice;I actually find *that* experience pleasurable also, but use the shower hose and strive for absolute emptiness.
If you go the enema route, it's best to do so a few hours ahead, to allow any remnants thereof to evacuate, and also let the body replenish the mucous you just rinsed away.

I'm not a huge silicone fan, because I'm generally using silicone toys, and find that water based original I-d glide results in less friction. As a couple, that's the wife's preference also. Silicone in the water, otherwise I-d glide, and lots of it. They make a little injector thingy that'll let you squirt some inside, and that changes EVERYTHING for the better.

Besides all that, relaxation is key. Clenching and releasing the sphincter several times right before entry helps tire the muscle, making it more cooperative.

Otherwise...hang on.