Fisting and handballing
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crazybbwgirl
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Etoile said:I would say you are exceptional in not needing extra lube! Most people, especially beginners, would do well to have lots of lube available for fisting. You must just be plenty wet on your own.
Automatically self lubricating? lol
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FurryFury said:Yeah, that's what I think I do too. My husband still insists on lube for this and many other activities. I sometimes find that insulting but of course I do it as he prefers.
(I'm such a good little girl.)
Fury
That's funny - cuz sometimes he'll just wet his fingers before he even 'tests' me to see if I'm wet yet. And that kind of hurts my feelings? oh no - that's not right the right words - but sometimes I think to myself 'I'm already plenty wet - just try it!' lol I guess I'm proud of my wetness? hmmmmm
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Ok - Sir says that he does use saliva for extra lube while fisting, and that there have been times when he wished the bottle of lube was closer... I had no idea?
What the hell... he could be using a jack hammer for all I can tell. I'm usually pretty much gone to la la land while being fisted!
Ok - Sir says that he does use saliva for extra lube while fisting, and that there have been times when he wished the bottle of lube was closer... I had no idea?
What the hell... he could be using a jack hammer for all I can tell. I'm usually pretty much gone to la la land while being fisted!
crzydesert
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with lotion!
Here is a cool short vidio of two girls anal fisting with lotion.
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Here is a cool short vidio of two girls anal fisting with lotion.
http://234.fistinglessons.com/?r=searchg
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crzydesert said:
I just want to have this done to me ONCE before I die. I'm not asking for much, just one time... that's all.
These videos make me soooooo achey (in a good way.)
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crazybbwgirl said:
I have always noticed my muscles being extremely tight after having an orgasm from vaginal fisting. So tight, in fact, that it took a second orgasm for the "giver" to get their hand back.
Hmmm...or is that just my way of getting a little something extra...Honestly, if I am going to receive, I have to be in that frame of mind. No matter how tightly crossed and what direction turned, the thumb knuckle is a real pain. HA! Lube or not, it makes no difference. I prefer to give the "final push" myself, during lots and lots of clitoral stimulation.
I would rather be on the giving end - it feels incredible!
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An incredible experience
I have been on the giving end and I must admit that the first time was almost overwhelming. I had all the normal concerns but they were quickly washed away and it went rather smoothly.
Through trial and error, I did come to the conclusion that surgical gloves helped immensely.
I have been on the giving end and I must admit that the first time was almost overwhelming. I had all the normal concerns but they were quickly washed away and it went rather smoothly.
Through trial and error, I did come to the conclusion that surgical gloves helped immensely.
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Etoile said:Well, it might help if you weren't using pop-tarts as lube!
I'll have you know that I only tried Pop Tarts the first few times. By about the fourth or fifth attempt we discovered that cinnamon rolls worked much better.
It may interest you to know that I am at his very moment discussing a new cinnamon roll AV with my publicist!
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Shankara20
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Etoile said:
errrrr if you "stick" with Astroglide don't you think you might try a new lube?
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handpuppets.
I've never been successful.
A guy once tried to fist me vaginally and 20 minuts... a half an hour later... a sore arm, a sore cooter, a half a bottle of good lube later, and still the last knuckle isn't in.
damn.
I'd like to try it with someone who has smaller hands, that might help. I'd also like to try giving.
As for booty fisting, I think that might actually work better for me. My bum is really kinda strechey. I often perfer to have anal sex then vaginal because my vagina will get sore and unhappy where as my bum will just be a little floppy and squishy for a few min afterwards. i need to find someone to do that with. yes, yes, definatelly on my to-try list.
I've never been successful.
A guy once tried to fist me vaginally and 20 minuts... a half an hour later... a sore arm, a sore cooter, a half a bottle of good lube later, and still the last knuckle isn't in.
damn.
I'd like to try it with someone who has smaller hands, that might help. I'd also like to try giving.
As for booty fisting, I think that might actually work better for me. My bum is really kinda strechey. I often perfer to have anal sex then vaginal because my vagina will get sore and unhappy where as my bum will just be a little floppy and squishy for a few min afterwards. i need to find someone to do that with. yes, yes, definatelly on my to-try list.
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Relax!
Have fisted past three gf's and current wife.
Lube is important and also she must be very relaxed. The wife loves it so much that sometimes she's too anxious and it just won't work. It helps if you give her
a really good orgasm first to remove most of the tension, then just go slow working around in circles to let her muscles stretch a little.
The wife is very tight right after I've been fucking her with my fist.
She will usually ask me to fuck her as soon as I remove my hand.
Have fisted past three gf's and current wife.
Lube is important and also she must be very relaxed. The wife loves it so much that sometimes she's too anxious and it just won't work. It helps if you give her
a really good orgasm first to remove most of the tension, then just go slow working around in circles to let her muscles stretch a little.
The wife is very tight right after I've been fucking her with my fist.
She will usually ask me to fuck her as soon as I remove my hand.
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hardmontreal said:
Good advice - definately helps to have an orgasm before hand. (pun intended) And take it slow. Go as far as you can - and next time try to go a little further.
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I always found the breathing and relaxation stuff they teach in childbirth classes works well, to make sure I'm relaxed for fisting.
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Every time I see this poster my eyes start to glaze over and my knees go weak...
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Shankara20 said:Every time I see this poster my eyes start to glaze over and my knees go weak...
SO you like Rosie Shank??
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leeroy jenkins said:
I have someplace I want her to put that right arm.....
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Shankara20 said:I have someplace I want her to put that right arm.....
your braver then I.
