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Flirting with boundaries

eric_erosfan said:
Yeah, not interested in harming either marriage. But these flirtations do fuel fantasies when I am alone and sometimes even when I am with my partner. Thinking about the glimpses up her skirt or how she would forget what she was saying when eying my bulge.
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Ya. And for me, it's provided story ideas as well, though I haven't written any based on it as of yet.
 
eric_erosfan said:
I think I get away with more because I am considered fairly handsome or at least not a troll. Lol. But I still take my time until I know they are into this flirting game.
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It doesn't really matter if both parties are in agreement. If it's outside company rules or local laws, you can still get fired, sued or both. All it takes is someone else, someone you might not even know to file a complaint based on what they saw.

If one party happens to be in management over the other, here are places in the US where you could be arrested.

I've gotten crap just for looking in someone's direction, basically staring off into space thinking about how to solve a problem, not even knowing the other person was there.
 
I had to meet my flirt partner in the office this week to work on an issue that required us in the office. Nobody else was there. She actually wore these hot light gray leggings. I've never seen her wear leggings to work before. She kept getting a sexy cameltoe and I tried not to stare because it has been a while since we have been able to flirt in person. But I don't think she was wearing anything underneath. I decided to let my dick bulge in my Dockers without trying to stop or hide it. The same ones in my avatar. It was so obvious and she stared at it often. At one point she could not reach some equipment to plug in some cables so I walked up close behind her and grabbed the cables from her to plug them in. My hard bulge pressed against her butt through her leggings. I pretended I was having trouble with the cables so we stayed like that longer than we needed to be. Of course this made me harder and bulging out more which she noticed as I backed away and she turned around. Amazingly we got our work done in between all this flirting. At one point she sat with her legs bent up in her chair so I had a nice view of her crotch and cameltoe. There was a moist spot there. I stared at that spot for a while and noticed she was noticing me staring. That is as far as it went. But I think we both went home horny.
 
eric_erosfan said:
Does anyone enjoy engaging in flirting that is not overt but somewhat subtle especially at work? What I mean is a combination of "accidental" flashing of down blouse or upskirt or growing bulges in pants. Or "Innocent double entendres" such as "careful you'll get wet" then pointing at their dripping water bottle. I engage in this kind of thing with married female coworkers. When I start getting double entendres back I know they are playing along. The other day I complained of all the penis enlargement Spam I get in my inbox and she said "Why do they keep sending spam for things you don't need?" My dick bounced a little with that perfect comeback. 😀

I say "with boundaries because I am in an exclusive relationship and try to honor that. I use these things to fuel my lust with my partner. In this age of hyper awareness of sexual harassment in the workplace it is more challenging. I think I get away with more because I am considered fairly handsome or at least not a troll. Lol. But I still take my time until I know they are into this flirting game.

I'm just curious if anyone else enjoys this kind of fun.
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I used to do this type of flirting at work a lot in my late teens through early 30s. Mainly because I worked in environments that I could do this and not get into trouble. The work environments were much more relaxed and I had some great female coworkers that I had developed a really strong rapport with. No one took anything that I said seriously, mostly because I did it to make them laugh and to brighten their day.

Now that I am in my 40s and work in a very female centric, professional office, I had suppressed a lot of that type of flirty behavior (our HR department LOVES to let people go). I do have one or two coworkers outside of my department that I have this kind of banter relationship with (and don't have to worry about them reporting me to HR). I am able to banter with the women that I work with, I just keep the double entendre and flirty words to a very bare minimum.
 
eric_erosfan said:
Does anyone enjoy engaging in flirting that is not overt but somewhat subtle especially at work? What I mean is a combination of "accidental" flashing of down blouse or upskirt or growing bulges in pants. Or "Innocent double entendres" such as "careful you'll get wet" then pointing at their dripping water bottle. I engage in this kind of thing with married female coworkers. When I start getting double entendres back I know they are playing along. The other day I complained of all the penis enlargement Spam I get in my inbox and she said "Why do they keep sending spam for things you don't need?" My dick bounced a little with that perfect comeback. 😀

I say "with boundaries because I am in an exclusive relationship and try to honor that. I use these things to fuel my lust with my partner. In this age of hyper awareness of sexual harassment in the workplace it is more challenging. I think I get away with more because I am considered fairly handsome or at least not a troll. Lol. But I still take my time until I know they are into this flirting game.

I'm just curious if anyone else enjoys this kind of fun.
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Fuck yes it's the boundaries that make it hot. Anytime you're pushing boundaries, it's sexy.

I used to work as an exotic dancer. I worked in a nude club but had to leave, so I landed a job nearby at a topless club.

The guys at the topless club would go wiiiiild if you showed some pubes or put your hand in your panties or whatever, while the guys in the nude club sometimes seemed bored staring at your uncovered pussy.

Maybe not a great example but there you go.
 
jaF0 said:
It doesn't really matter if both parties are in agreement. If it's outside company rules or local laws, you can still get fired, sued or both. All it takes is someone else, someone you might not even know to file a complaint based on what they saw.

If one party happens to be in management over the other, here are places in the US where you could be arrested.

I've gotten crap just for looking in someone's direction, basically staring off into space thinking about how to solve a problem, not even knowing the other person was there.
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Have you ever gotten crap for sticking your nose into other people's fantasies and being a wet towel?
 
vibes said:
Cant believe you managed to limit yourselves @eric_erosfan
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Definitely the closest we came to going over the boundaries. But we just have this unspoken agreement. At on point she was up on a stool her cameltoe right at face level. I was fighting an urge to just dive in and lick. I did the same to her moved my bulge really close to her face. She was staring right at it and I even made it twitch a couple times. But then back to the job. It was very hot.
 
My wife had super flirtation skills without seeming too obvious. The boundaries were crossed a lot in college, but she learned how to maintain boundaries after we married. I enjoyed watching her use her skills.
 
I find that showing off my average sized cock through thin fabric and flirting through eye contact and subtle entendre heightens my energy and enhances my confidence which improves my monogamous relationship. I stopped flirting when I got married and I think it made me less confident and therefore less attractive. When my wife told me that she flirts with boundaries I started doing it again but it doesn’t give the same that it used to. I think it was the uncertainty and sexual tension that made it magical. Now I get laid frequently with my beautiful wife; that takes some of the adventure out of chasing strange pussy.
 
Nice to see this thread revived. I love this stuff.

I've rediscovered flirting since my marriage opened. I'm better at it, have more fun, and give more fun with it than I did >20 years ago.

My present workplace is fairly small, so this largely happens in other contexts other than work. But there have been some notable moments.

As long as "flirting" isn't explicitly "making a pass" or proposition to a co-worker, the risk of firing or arrest is minimal. People really over-fear these things these days. No problem, more game for me when everyone else is paralyzed.

"Plausible deniability" is the idea. Have fun, together and without making it weird, and you'll be fine.
 
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