Communication is key. I think you're in for an extremely good time. Both of you. I bet you were hard almost immediately when she turned you down.We communicated a bit about and throughout the day. She is open to but shes self conscious on how and what to do and she didnt want to let me down. I ensured her she could never let me down and that its new for both of us. We can practice and try new things and find out what works for us.
Got home and told her I needed to shower and probably should give the cage a cleaning. When she agreed I asked if I could edge myself in the shower. She replied "No! You can't be trusted. Wash it and get the cage back on."
I think its coming together