For Handjob lovers, what's on your mind?

[shymalea]

i love giving handjobs,it,s the only time i feel a bit in control,normally it,s me getting used.Jerking him off,teasingly kising his ears,lips,wispering naughty words about the things he like like showing me off in sexy lingerie&high heels,what a slut i was when family&friends etc were around and at last i make sure i,ve got stockings&high heels on because i want his cum on them

 

[Nellie60]

Haha mostly things like how much I love their cock, how hard they are for me, asking them how much they want to come for me, what we're going to do next

Oh god thats nice...I just love it when women make good eye contact and verbally tell me how turned on they are and even talk dirty stories while stroking fast.

 

[Nellie60]

I have no doubts.

If the young lady has more to share that would make a lot of people happy ....like is there any stories you like to share?

 

[Nellie60]

I have more...

That got me looking at your post as well. Here's my fantasy. I love handjobs and you love masturbation. I would love to watch you gjve a handjob or better give one to .....

 

[lovecurvyandthickladies]

What an arousing thread. I have had some great BJs but have never had a hand job. The most arousing part for me is if she wants to do it, she is enjoying it. Mutual masturbation is an unfulfilled fantasy. I would be would be thinking about how she is feeling and wanting her to experience the same level of pleasure that I am by watching her.

 

[UtilityCurve]

asking them how much they want to come for me

That is HUGE for me. (No irony or sarcasm intended.)

Particularly when we were "new," and even more so on "first times," it was (remains) important for me to, um, demonstrate how good she has made me feel. Being reminded that  she is cognizant of how much that matters to me by urging me to  show her is a wonderful technique for accomplishing a "standing" ovation. (Okay, that was an intended pun.)

Don't know if you had advice from a more experienced female (older sisters are the greatest gift of God to boyfriends) or got there through trial and error (or extraordinary luck--for HIM!), but your instincts are spot-on.

 

[Nellie60]

like most when your partner or random hook up knows what to do and does it well they can be amazing and my ex girlfriend had that ability and then some and enjoys every minute of it

I want a woman who is enthusiatic and loves giving handjobs.

 

[eroticspank]

This is my favourite sexual act or fetish. But the intimacy for myself is best when we are side by side. My question is what are you thinking in your head when you are are in the throes of finishing him off eg are you fantasing about something, someone else, a handjob from the past, your partner, husband or boyfriend or you are so hot you just want him to get off or maybe you just want to Or maybe you are just doing him a favor?

And part of yhe same thought, what turns you on about handjobs.

There are so many different types of handjobs. Slow and sensual, quick and fast,
kinky and fetish, and Femdom to name a few. I like them all with the right woman. She has to be really enjoying herself giving the handjob. It is about her being in control, enjoying the control, and skillfully demonstrating it. As mentioned, a big part is sexy talk. If she gets into your head, watch out!

My thoughts on the receiving end are enjoying the ride by wondering what she is going to do next. How will I react? Will the finish be intense?
ES

 

[Nellie60]

There are so many different types of handjobs. Slow and sensual, quick and fast,
kinky and fetish, and Femdom to name a few. I like them all with the right woman. She has to be really enjoying herself giving the handjob. It is about her being in control, enjoying the control, and skillfully demonstrating it. As mentioned, a big part is sexy talk. If she gets into your head, watch out!

My thoughts on the receiving end are enjoying the ride by wondering what she is going to do next. How will I react? Will the finish be intense?
ES

I enjoyed all hjs from all former girlfriends even if it wasn't my preferred technique etc. It all to do with the girl having fun. A lot of my pleasure comes from her enjoyment, seeing and hearing her excitement. To able to experience each of them in their own ways is pretty special.

 

[eroticspank]

I enjoyed all hjs from all former girlfriends even if it wasn't my preferred technique etc. It all to do with the girl having fun. A lot of my pleasure comes from her enjoyment, seeing and hearing her excitement. To able to experience each of them in their own ways is pretty special.

I had a gf that liked my dick a lot. She even loved to hold it when I was peeing. I remember that her handjobs were not the best technique but her enthusiasm was outstanding. She loved to make me cum and direct the stream of sperm. I still remember her aahs and oohs when I erupted!
ES

 

[Nellie60]

I had a gf that liked my dick a lot. She even loved to hold it when I was peeing. I remember that her handjobs were not the best technique but her enthusiasm was outstanding. She loved to make me cum and direct the stream of sperm. I still remember her aahs and oohs when I erupted!
ES

Technique can be taught or improved but natural hot enthusiasm maybe not. As long as she is excited its becomes enjoyable.

 

[ThinkWrite]

Handjobs are very underrated. The times a woman has had me sit or lay back while she slowly lubricates her hands, then takes me in hand, talking to me, maintaining eye contact, rubbing below, varying her touch and speed while watching my reaction, until I cum when she is ready are some of my hottest memories…

 

[gtnlynn]

My wife gave me my first hand job in college after she had practiced on a few other guys. I asked her what she was thinking, and she said she was just enjoying being kissed while I fingered her pussy and she handled my cock. Then I erupted and she stopped kissing me, looking in amazement at the load I just fired toward the roof of my car. She said she had never seen anything that strong and wondered what it would feel like in her pussy.

 

[eroticspank]

Handjobs are very underrated. The times a woman has had me sit or lay back while she slowly lubricates her hands, then takes me in hand, talking to me, maintaining eye contact, rubbing below, varying her touch and speed while watching my reaction, until I cum when she is ready are some of my hottest memories…

Well said! Some of my hottest memories too.
ES

 

[Nellie60]

Handjobs are very underrated. The times a woman has had me sit or lay back while she slowly lubricates her hands, then takes me in hand, talking to me, maintaining eye contact, rubbing below, varying her touch and speed while watching my reaction, until I cum when she is ready are some of my hottest memories…

Very nice...my best memories were in the car

 

[boytoyjoy]

I got a few of thhem when I was younger and looking back, I underappreciated the act. They are fond memories.

 

[wankerholic42]

Just spotted this thread that hasn’t had any responses for over a year now. As a lover/giver of handjobs (in porn and real life) it would be good to see this thread revived. Any fellow enthusiasts out there like to contribute? I’m sure Nellie60 who created it would be delighted.

 

[Dashabout]

Here's an account of a college girl's first time stroking a penis to pleasure. Enjoyable all the way around.

An excellent read, the first sexual play for most all after/during a make out session. From the first way back, to last Sunday, a major part of my/our sex play to this day. Furtive fumblings in a car or theater, under a beach blanket or in the woods. Thanks for the memories, you never forget your firsts.

 

[cruiser_2015]

I enjoy receiving a hand job because short of full sex it offers the best access to your partners body. My wife hand jobs me by kneeling beside me as I lie naked on my back. Her position puts her breasrs right above me and her legs, pussy and bottom placed just right for my hands. I like giving a hand job to a man because I like the sheer eroticusm of it, the feel of a man's erect cock, the skill in holding him back to prolong his pleasure and I love seeing him spurt. I like hand jobbing a woman for the excitement of pleasuring her, watching her breasts wobble, seeing her squirm, thrust and kick when she climaxes, and I love a woman's orgasm cry.

 

[Nellie60]

Just spotted this thread that hasn’t had any responses for over a year now. As a lover/giver of handjobs (in porn and real life) it would be good to see this thread revived. Any fellow enthusiasts out there like to contribute? I’m sure Nellie60 who created it would be delighted.

Thank you. Originally intention was to get response particularly female readers what goes on in your head when you are giving. Do you fantasy about someone else or you are fully passionate about it enjoying doing it etc

 

[Nellie60]

I enjoy receiving a hand job because short of full sex it offers the best access to your partners body. My wife hand jobs me by kneeling beside me as I lie naked on my back. Her position puts her breasrs right above me and her legs, pussy and bottom placed just right for my hands. I like giving a hand job to a man because I like the sheer eroticusm of it, the feel of a man's erect cock, the skill in holding him back to prolong his pleasure and I love seeing him spurt. I like hand jobbing a woman for the excitement of pleasuring her, watching her breasts wobble, seeing her squirm, thrust and kick when she climaxes, and I love a woman's orgasm cry.

Very nice..... like the thrusting of her legs... this thread can be about man on woman or man on man wherever gets you going!

 

[Nellie60]

I enjoy receiving a hand job because short of full sex it offers the best access to your partners body. My wife hand jobs me by kneeling beside me as I lie naked on my back. Her position puts her breasrs right above me and her legs, pussy and bottom placed just right for my hands. I like giving a hand job to a man because I like the sheer eroticusm of it, the feel of a man's erect cock, the skill in holding him back to prolong his pleasure and I love seeing him spurt. I like hand jobbing a woman for the excitement of pleasuring her, watching her breasts wobble, seeing her squirm, thrust and kick when she climaxes, and I love a woman's orgasm cry.

It's the kissing and eye contact

 

[Hipshot1554]

An excellent read, the first sexual play for most all after/during a make out session. From the first way back, to last Sunday, a major part of my/our sex play to this day. Furtive fumblings in a car or theater, under a beach blanket or in the woods. Thanks for the memories, you never forget your firsts.

The first for many!

 

[Dashabout]

The first for many!

Firsts are fun and memorable.

 

[Hipshot1554]

Firsts are fun and memorable.

And lead to things more memorable! ')