Forced sex and verbal abuse/humiliation

I guess part of what I am wondering is how someone can have a consensual rape fantasy when by definition rape is not consensual.
Words are fluid (and thus rendered a bit meaningless) like that. It is oxymoronic, but it still describes a certain state of events.
 
This thread brings a question to mind. I do understand that brutal rape by a stranger, perhaps at knifepoint would be dangerous and traumatic for any woman, but not all rape is so dangerous. Let me ask a question under this scenario: If you had went to a neighbor’s house to visit a friend, and found that she was not at home, and only her husband was there. Her husband is a man whom you admire and feel safe with, knowing that he would never physically harm you. And perhaps during friendly conversation, he forces you to the bedroom and rapes you. If would be rape because you did not consent to having sex. The rape is not particularly brutal, and you are not physically harmed, but he is very forceful and dominating. The question is: To you as a woman, would this be traumatic, or would it be erotic?

I’m not looking for any particular answer, and as many women can answer as they like.

You're kind of missing the very definition of rape being a non-consensual act. If I didn't fucking want it, then it would be traumatic because it would be rape. If I wanted it and had a good time, it wouldn't be rape now would it?

If it were me in that situation, I'd like to think that I'd take the man's "gentleness" as an opportunity to kick him in the side of his fucking skull, hopefully doing his wife and everyone else a favor by removing him from the gene pool.
 
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