Fuck you!!(my turn to rant, dammit!!)

[Desdemona]

I think some of you people are missing my point...

The original posters of this idiocy aren't the real fuckups...they are obviously retarded and can't help it. But shouldn't everyone else know better than to respond with a sincere 'good luck with your thing', no matter how insane it is? Jesus Harold Christ, if you walk in on your mom being triple penetrated by a German shepherd, a chair leg, and Patrick Swayze, do you offer to help clean up after, or do you react like a person with a fucking I.Q., and freak the hell out? Should you really support, even jokingly, the sick activities of a bunch of mental midgets with all the common sense of the north end of a south-bound mule?!?

Well, I see it like this. If I walk in and find my mom being triple penetrated as you describe, she definitely needs some help. I'm going to call her doctor, find out if she's developed a brain tumor or had a stroke or something and get her some treatment so she doesn't do that again. That would be real life. She's my mom and I'm going to take care of her. She's not getting any younger.

If I see somebody post that they like being triple penetrated by a German shepherd, a chair leg and Patrick Swayze, I figure they're retarded and posting a bunch of bullshit. This is not real life. I don't think it's worth my time to respond and I owe them nothing. I admit, I have tried being supportive in the past. I thought for a while I needed to try and not judge other people's kinks, no matter how bizzarre or disgusting I find it. Now, I just don't even bother opening threads about that stuff.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Judgement is a funny thing though....what is one person's kink, is another's illness as we in the community are so often reminded when told we are sick to enjoy some of the things we do. Come to that, I have met vanilla's who think it sick to want sex more than once a week or in anything but the missionary position with the lights off. Is all very subjective and seen from one person's perspective and understanding when turned into a judgement type statement. And surprisingly, I am sure the majority of us if we are honest, can recall at least one thing we said was sick and not on in the past that we no longer think twice about participating in, and resent being told now we are sick for enjoying.

Catalina

 

[Desdemona]

Judgement is a funny thing though....what is one person's kink, is another's illness as we in the community are so often reminded when told we are sick to enjoy some of the things we do. Come to that, I have met vanilla's who think it sick to want sex more than once a week or in anything but the missionary position with the lights off. Is all very subjective and seen from one person's perspective and understanding when turned into a judgement type statement. And surprisingly, I am sure the majority of us if we are honest, can recall at least one thing we said was sick and not on in the past that we no longer think twice about participating in, and resent being told now we are sick for enjoying.

Catalina

Precisely. I have had the same experience, Catalina. Our limits expand and change over time and with experience. So, if it's not for me, fine. I don't have to like what other people do or say they do.

Now, if somebody posts a how to type question or a question about the safety of something (i.e. taking a wine enema), I'll probably wade in if a bunch of people haven't already made my point.

Am I going to flame somebody for a post about screwing their dog, goat, monkey, or pet pirrhana? Personally, I find that repugnant. But, so what?

Do I think it's wrong to participate in snuff play or incest? Absolutely. Am I going to flame them? Probably not. I figure it's mostly fantasy or shit stirring. Besides that, there are those of you who absolutely can't resist going after them. I will, however, shun them. Most assholes eventually go away if you don't give them attention.

That said, if I found someone raping a child or snuffing somebody in real life, yeah, I'd call the cops. Online, it's all smoke and mirrors.

 

[Kajira Callista]

Thats exactly it....if we were posting on a different "nilla" message board.....wouldnt we be the freaks he is talking about? Its all about how things are perceived by someone...if it bothers you by all means say so, but remember that your post may bother someone else that will tell you so, and you may not want to hear what they have to say.

 

[catalina_francisco]

I personally have no problem with someone objecting to something I participate in or I discuss, though I would like most to respond in a manner that employs more thought than the abusive type. I guess what I was trying to say is often we are all too ready to put down someone for their choices or openness in considering options, without finding out the circumstances or reasons, then find later in another time and place we are that person, participating in the very thing we condemned. I know we all grow and evolve and it is natural, but I do think also a little forethought before jumping in all fours or twos to condemn or ridicule without a second thought might be wiser and save face a little down the line. And yes, as with most, I have been there where I have said 'never' about something only to find it is not that bad and was a matter of my not thinking outside the box. Fortunately I find this is more a thing of the past as the days pass and my experience broadens.

Catalina

 

[WriterDom]

The Eating Scarlet thread was kept alive for weeks. Had it been ignored, it would have died. Stupid threads are like farts. If you don't open the door, you don't have to smell them.

 

[catalina_francisco]

The Eating Scarlet thread was kept alive for weeks. Had it been ignored, it would have died. Stupid threads are like farts. If you don't open the door, you don't have to smell them.

That is true, but so often something is learned by someone in the opening. While discussion survives, hope can live.

C

 

[Netzach]

Des is the Voice of Reason in here. The outlandishly moronic need no encouragement.

Beyond that, though, if it's your body and your kink I don't see it as my personal job to try desperately to save you from yourself, even if I happen to think "he's totally out of his mind."

Which is where I agree with Johnny on some fundamental level, as highly suspect as that might seem . It's still my right to *think* or even go out on a limb and say someone is starkers and or stupid, no matter how tolerant and open minded I may lean towards. If everything is merely a shade of kink, genocide and rape becomes flavor of the month, not a problem.

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

Thats exactly it....if we were posting on a different "nilla" message board.....wouldnt we be the freaks he is talking about? Its all about how things are perceived by someone...if it bothers you by all means say so, but remember that your post may bother someone else that will tell you so, and you may not want to hear what they have to say.

You are the freaks I'm talking about!!


Jeez, you guys, all of you...

 

[Kajira Callista]

You are the freaks I'm talking about!!


Jeez, you guys, all of you...

Is it because you dont want to hear what we have to say? (did i make my point there?)

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

Is it because you dont want to hear what we have to say? (did i make my point there?)

You have a point? I had one, and everyone missed it completely.

 

[BrightFlower]

The Eating Scarlet thread was kept alive for weeks. Had it been ignored, it would have died. Stupid threads are like farts. If you don't open the door, you don't have to smell them.

Words to live by.....

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

Sometimes, I am overcome with the urge to smack you people FUCKING SENSELESS!!! Goddammit, do I have to start whacking you folks with a shit-dipped sea bass?

 

[Kajira Callista]

MMMMM now we're talking darling

 

[BrightFlower]

Sometimes, I am overcome with the urge to smack you people FUCKING SENSELESS!!! Goddammit, do I have to start whacking you folks with a shit-dipped sea bass?

Hmmmm, never tried THAT one......

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

Hmmmm, never tried THAT one......

Yeah, well...keep it up and you'll find out, you bloody *expletive deleted*.

 

[Kajira Callista]

PURRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR

 

[BrightFlower]

Yeah, well...keep it up and you'll find out, you bloody *expletive deleted*.

Whoaaaaa Nellie - don't you remember, I was one who agreed with you LOL
But, if you're offering......LOL
And I have NEVER been called and expletive deleted before - of all the nerve......

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

Whoaaaaa Nellie - don't you remember, I was one who agreed with you LOL
But, if you're offering......LOL
And I have NEVER been called and expletive deleted before - of all the nerve......

YEah, I should start a thread about beating people with shit-covered fish...I can tell you what the response will be, too...

"Oh, well, have fun with that...make sure you cover the furniture with sheets of plastic to avoid staining!! "

 

[catalina_francisco]

YEah, I should start a thread about beating people with shit-covered fish...I can tell you what the response will be, too...

"Oh, well, have fun with that...make sure you cover the furniture with sheets of plastic to avoid staining!! "

Oh that is such good advice.....now we know you must have personal experience to have such learned insight to such a complex issue which would not occur to those of us less enlightened until it were too late.

Catalina

 

[BrightFlower]

Oh that is such good advice.....now we know you must have personal experience to have such learned insight to such a complex issue which would not occur to those of us less enlightened until it were too late.

Catalina

And here we all thought Francisco was the Savior!

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

I think you are all fooking mad.

 

[catalina_francisco]

And here we all thought Francisco was the Savior!

He's sleeping so like a good slave I try and fill in as he would wish to ease the workload.

 

[Luna_Wolf72]

OK

i read through the thread...and ummm...i am confused. If people are actually asking for ideas to insanely stupid questions...why bother answering at all? To me it just makes sense to avoid that whole thing by not going near those particular threads. After all, i could one day decide to wake up and hump a giant jellyfish...i will then know just who to ask!!! (the starters of all those inane threads...and the people who gave such good advice in them)

pet

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

Re: OK

i read through the thread...and ummm...i am confused. If people are actually asking for ideas to insanely stupid questions...why bother answering at all? To me it just makes sense to avoid that whole thing by not going near those particular threads. After all, i could one day decide to wake up and hump a giant jellyfish...i will then know just who to ask!!! (the starters of all those inane threads...and the people who gave such good advice in them)

pet

That's just the thing...NOBODY FUCKING IGNORES THEM!!!! Jesus, the last thing we want to do is be judgmental, and we all want to help...goddammed morons!!