Nope.
Why meeting at a gay bar? You aren’t trying to pick up anyone just go to a bar you both like
His choice. Need any other information?
I was just wondering why two MWM who are meeting up would go to a gay bar?
I can only speculate that he had been there before and felt comfortable and safe there. For me I didn't care where we met up just that we would meet up.
I don't know if you read between the lines of the first post. After all, you seem to be familiar with this kind of thing.
There were no lines to read between as I was straight forward and honest in my first post. You keep trying to insinuate that I had some hidden agenda, and I didn't, and still don't. Good grief I'm glad the guy I finally met isn't like some of you here. Like I said previously I wouldn't ask a few of you here that commented for advice on anything let alone the topic I posted here.
Sorry this thread got so angry. Many people seem to be on edge these days, wanting to argue with whoever shows up next.
And that "forget it is a gay bar at all and just assume it's full of ordinary people happy to get out of the house to have a good time with others" is some fabulous advice. Thank you for understanding what I was trying to say.
You weren't meeting another married guy at a gay bar to see if you two wanted to do gay stuff together?
How does my saying that directly that I was meeting another MWM at a gay bar for a potential hookup have anything to do with someone reading between the lines?
In that first post I was talking about, you didn't say it was a potential hookup, that's why I was talking about reading between the lines. How is that some kind of an attack?
Well, I hope I'm blocked, then. The only problem I have with you is the way you read hostility into everything I write - even when it was not aimed at you at all. You still manage to take it personally even when I'm talking to someone else entirely, about something I didn't expect you to contradict at all.
My first post was about protocol. When I followed up I clearly said what I was attempting to do. I haven't hidden a single thing.
Nobody's accusing you of hiding anything. Or suggesting you were. It's the absolute opposite - the other guy didn't understand why you were meeting a guy in a gay bar. Why am I getting all this shit for pointing it out to the guy?
Well if a guy doesn't understand why a man is meeting a man in a Gay bar all I can do is pity him.
What a wild adventure this post turned into. Sorry it turned that way.
You know what? Fuck it, I asked a simple straight forward question and got some really great advice and some shit from assholes. Fortunately, every man I've met, either Gay or Bi has been an amazing person and understanding of what I was doing.
hahaha I know I know. Some people are super duper sensitive. They are looking for anything to get mad about.
I agree. I dont want a fast wham bam. relax enjoy have fun
