Gay & small cock

[LincolnDuncan]

I think that the attitude a guy has about cock size has a lot to do with the relevant information he receives on the topic in his formative years. When I was a kid I had an older cousin who I would jerk with. No touching, but he was very obsessed with size and it therefore became much more important to me than it should.

 

[Rogue25]

Thanks for the replies and private messages. A lot of the messages appear to say the same thing "me too and I am depressed" which is sad for all of us but in a strange way, at least I know I am not alone.

I guess if you find the right person they either accept you or just make it work! Get cock extenders or mix it up with toys.

 

[HomerSimpson123]

Thanks for the replies and private messages. A lot of the messages appear to say the same thing "me too and I am depressed" which is sad for all of us but in a strange way, at least I know I am not alone.

I guess if you find the right person they either accept you or just make it work! Get cock extenders or mix it up with toys.

I like your attitude.

I have a small cock, too.

I've also noticed that a big part of (straight) interactions between men seem to take the psychological form of "my dick is bigger than yours".

 

[hornyhole]

I would like to take your 4.8" cock and wash it gently getting you nice and hard. Then I would lay you on your back and spread your legs to get access to your asshole. With my mouth on your cock and my tongue licking the head I would put two fingers in your ass and massage your prostate until you shot a load in my mouth. I would continue to suck it until your eyes changed colors. Allowing you some time to rest I would get you hard again and have you fuck me. I like being on my stomach with a pillow under my hips and my legs spread wide. You could burry your cock in me and pump me till you collapsed. I almost forgot, I would wear panties and a short skirt when you fucked me.

 

[Nudenative]

Gay and Small Cock

Hi there,

I am bisexual and technically versatile, but I actually prefer to bottom and I like small cocks penetrating me. I agree in many people obsessing about really large penises because of the internet and porn. As a tight bottom, small cocks are only uncomfortable for a moment when penetrated for the first time. I would actually prefer yours to an average sized erection!

 

[4yourpleasureiam]

Thanks for the replies and private messages. A lot of the messages appear to say the same thing "me too and I am depressed" which is sad for all of us but in a strange way, at least I know I am not alone.

I guess if you find the right person they either accept you or just make it work! Get cock extenders or mix it up with toys.

Rogue you need to come visit me one evening. I will make you feel as if you have the biggest cock ever. Believe me you have a great cock.

 

[PJPenner]

I am a bi guy with a 5" cock. I have enjoyed group sex and sex parties for 30+ years. I mutually enjoy the sexual pleasures of women and men. I really don't think that my small(er) size has been a factor more than a few times over the many years.

The size of a guy's cock - large or small - has NEVER determined my desire to be sexual with him. The guy's attitude, passion, sexual hunger, and sexual generosity are the determining attributes that make him attractive to me.

Of the myriad of guys I have had sex with, my very best sexual experiences (with the exception of one) have been with guys with smaller cocks. It has been my experience that many well-endowed guys are takers ... not givers. That attitude (and/or behavior) doesn't bode well for an intimate experience that is best enjoyed by the mutual giving and receiving of sexual pleasure.

 

[freakykink]

I have had some amazing experiences with small cocks.

 

[none2_none2]

Hormones affect what bothers you...

Rogue, I would also add that sometimes it is just part of the maturing phase. If the "25" in your name represents your age, then you youthfulness may be a contributing factor. Many young people simply are very concerned about the physical stuff. If not cock size, then height, weight, etc. Many men (and of course women) deal with that. Probably the thing that gets young men past that is simply time and hormones. Some guys can be satisfied with just jacking off if they feel inadequate, but for many of us those years there was such an urge to "connect" with another human being that inadequacies were not enough to keep us to ourselves... You simply find yourself "driven" to seek sexual companionship with others.

Just make sure when you do choose to "connect" make sure that you don't lie upfront, yet do NOT dwell on it. If you dwell on it, you may end up making a bigger deal out if it that it needs to be. Not because it is important to your partner, but constantly talking about it makes it seem like a huge issue (no pun intended).

The world is full of all sorts of sexual permutations of the human body as well as tastes for that human body. Imagine a world where we were all the same shape and sizes? What would distinguish us from one another?

There will always be people who reject you on one thing or another. Some of the silliest I have heard from guys interested in other guys was length of hair and/or whether you have facial hair or not. Those things can be changed so easily that I would think guys would lighten up. Imagine if you fell in love with a guy, and he told you he would leave you if you ever let your hair grow longer than "x" centimeters or ever grew a beard (or shaved one you had off). Such a guy would never love you as he isn't interested in growing with you on your journey, he wants an image only. At least with cock size which you really cannot change, you know right away where you stand and don't need to waste time on guys focused on size...

Another thing that might help is just go to places with nude men, then you might see that we all come in different packages. You will find that we are all different. Also start to sympathize with others that you might not find attractive. (Don't have pity sex with them, just realize that being wanted is human nature for everybody.)

Case in point, I had a dear friend in college when I was young. He never knew I was attracted to men because I couldn't tell him. (He had too many religious hangups about non-str8 sex.) Anyway he had a HUGE penis. It meant nothing to me as I am a top and have only viewed large penises as something I wish I too possessed -- not something I wanted in me or needed to touch.) Anyway, one time a guy came on to him in the sauna and he told me the story. He asked me why someone as ugly as himself would have a dude come on to him. (He was concerned that he acted or looked gay and thus got the unwanted attention.)

You see he had a horrible case of acme and pimples. His face, his torso and back and bottom had so many pimples -- only his arms and legs were spared. He had to wear pajamas so that he wouldn't pop some of the pimples and get his sheets all dirty. (I knew all this because we lived in the dorm together.) When you shook his hand, even his palm felt "damp" or "oily".

Anyway, except for his religious hangups about gays, you couldn't ask for a kinder, dearer friend. I wanted to tell him point blank that the guy who came on with him was simply a shallow, gay, size queen stalking public saunas; but I didn't want him to suspect that I was gay so I simply told him that he was simply a perv that he ran into.

My friend had a size queen's dream penis, but I'm willing to guess that he would have gladly wished for a smaller penis if it mean he hadn't had to deal with his skin issues. I don't know where he is now, but I hope his skin problems cleared up for his own peace of mind.

 

[klippert]

We're our own worst Critics... Especially our psychical being. Live your life man. You're born with what you have. The Isn't a choice. Be happy with your health. Think about those bottom be hammered with a monster cock. Then the days of pain and visits to the Obama'kare office... taking a monster reverse dick-turd has it's draw backs. And don't worry about the size Queenz...

 

[Rogue25]

I hear all your very, very valid comments but it just pains me. After years of depression over my sexuality, you would think when that was over, I would be able to have a "normal" sex life and be happy but I was cursed with a small cock.....so even though I may feel better about being gay, I am cursed not to find someone or enjoy casual sex.

This officially is just awful. I am sooooo depressed.

 

[NebraskaFetish]

So I am only like 4.8 inches hard.....I am overcome with depression about it. I know perhaps this isn't the place for sympathy or counselling but anyone have anything supportive to say? Gays only want monster cocks apparently.

Perhaps you've only found (sought?) the wrong kind of man? If you're entering a loving relationship and not just seeking a booty call, your partner should love you just as you are. Surely, I cannot speak for everyone (and not for gay men) but I doubt "everyone" wants a monster cock.

Anyway, if you're with someone as shallow than that then they're not worth you!!

Depression is a bitch and never easy. Do you have a support group you can lean on? Family, friends, and the like...?

 

[IWonderWhy]

I dont believe you have anything to worry about, I am not Andre the Giant myself, found this on the news

http://www.nbcnews.com/health/mens-...normal-reveals-average-manhood-length-n316086