I turned my PM's off the second day I was here. *shudders* Glad to know I wasn't the only one turned off by being repeatedly "flashed" every five minutes.
Is it that bad? As you can see I'm new here and I'd love to get to know people but I don't want to come across like that. Well I like to think I'm looking for something a bit different.
I'll try and take all of your advice.