Gender Play and Feminization

[satinmarabana]

On a similar line I will one of these decades get around to writing up a transformation story. I got it pretty well planned out just a matter of actually typing it.

Just to be an evil little slut I'm gonna tell ya'll about it.

For transformation setups, that one sounds original and interesting. Please let us know when you write it.

 

[satinmarabana]

I've often wondered about the psychology behind my sexual urges. I'm a married guy who has always LOVED having sex with women in the alpha male persona. I find women extremely sexy and arousing. However, I'm also an avid and enthusiastic cocksucker. Not only do I enjoy the act itself, but I love the submissive and slutty feeling I get when I'm on my knees and a guy is holding my head and fucking my mouth and throat like a pussy. I also enjoy the passive role when I'm on my hands and knees as my wife fucks my ass with her very big strapon dildo. In both situations I can experience the sensation of being penetrated by a cock. To know how it feels to have a cock pushing into and sliding in and out of my body and ejaculating inside me. I can enjoy both being the penetrator AND being the one penetrated. To be the semen recipient as well as the donor. I have NO desire to be abused or humiliated sexually, I don't want to wear woman's clothing, and I don't identify as a female while engaging in these activities. I enjoy the ROLE reversal, but I don't see it as a GENDER reversal. In this way, I can experience the pleasure that a woman might feel when engaging in sexual activities that I know that I enjoy from the male perspective. It's almost hypocritical to expect my partner to enjoy a role that I'm unwilling to experience and also enjoy .

One of my lovers explained it to me this way: When he is sucking on my strapon or receiving it in his bottom, he's being given something, given expression of his lover's desire for him. True the strapon never gets soft, but its close enough. He felt sexy and loved and special by being penetrated.

 

[cf23430]

One of my lovers explained it to me this way: When he is sucking on my strapon or receiving it in his bottom, he's being given something, given expression of his lover's desire for him. True the strapon never gets soft, but its close enough. He felt sexy and loved and special by being penetrated.

Yes I feel the same way. It can be very intimate.....gratifying....very sensual...if done right...

Love your thread

 

[woman_inside]

I'm addicted to femboys and shemales. Convincing cross dressers are also really hot. Never been with either types but I'll jump at the first opportunity to do so. My wildest fantasies involve turning androgynous straight males into cock hungry bitch boys through forced feminization.

Wow, I need to meet more men like you.

 

[1tim]

what i crave me the feeling of being fucked the full feeling in my butt.
what drives me not being in charge in the bed room.
i express my self by dressing is sexy lingerie for my self and my woman
lets face if lingerie feels so sexy on the body why can,t guy wear it

 

[satinmarabana]

For those of you who have asked about my real life experiences, I've begun writing them up. The first one has been approved by the moderators and is here:

http://www.literotica.com/stories/showstory.php?id=414219

It's the straight story without embellishment, if a little quick in the telling. Reading it again, I was struck at how quickly I adapted to the dominance/submission relationship, but that's how it was. John really woke something in me I didn't know I craved.

 

[hoodooman]

i remember having erotic feelings of acting fem when i was very young...that sort of thing was not allowed and i suppressed the thoughts...

but now i feel a strong desire to act out...not like the ridiculous antics of a comedy movie but i crave to hear a woman call me a bitch, cunt, faggot and etc. as she slides her hand over my ass....

i recently found a woman who is into it...she did all those things i crave including ordering me to spread my legs before she lubed up a gloved hand...

next time we'll have a strap on and she may have a male friend of hers there so she can order me to suck his cock as she watches and directs...while telling me how much cum i'm going to swallow

it makes me happy just thinking about it

 

[Stella_Omega]

New to this forum, I've spent my time in author's hangout!

I want to ask-- do any of you see something different about "sissification" as opposed to feminization?

Or does "sissy" mean "feminine" in general? Let me say upfront that, speaking as a female queer, I have some qualms about that, but good sex excuses almost everything...

emap, I like your story idea!

 

[Shywong]

New to this forum, I've spent my time in author's hangout!

I want to ask-- do any of you see something different about "sissification" as opposed to feminization?

Or does "sissy" mean "feminine" in general? Let me say upfront that, speaking as a female queer, I have some qualms about that, but good sex excuses almost everything...

emap, I like your story idea!

For me, sissy was always a term synonymous with wuss, weak, frail or in other words calling a male a pussy because he was scared of something. Feminine to me means more ladylike and elegant. We used it to describe males who acted rather girly compared to most guys, but he wasn't scared to stand his ground in a confrontation.

So my Definition:

Sissy = Weak, Frail, Girly and Cowardly
Feminine = Elegant, Ladylike and Proud

 

[Stella_Omega]

For me, sissy was always a term synonymous with wuss, weak, frail or in other words calling a male a pussy because he was scared of something. Feminine to me means more ladylike and elegant. We used it to describe males who acted rather girly compared to most guys, but he wasn't scared to stand his ground in a confrontation.

So my Definition:

Sissy = Weak, Frail, Girly and Cowardly
Feminine = Elegant, Ladylike and Proud

Yeah, that's what I thought. (edited to say; I'm glad there is a difference)
I sure do wish pussy didn't mean coward. I have one, and I ain't one.


Here's what I like; men who still look virile, even when they are being used. I once did a gender-fuck costuming seminar, where I started out in butch chauffeur's clothes, and then wrapped myself in a sari. From Dom to Domme in three minutes

I had several extra saris with me, and someone brought their sub up to be dressed. He was your basic grain-fed midwestern boy, and we stripped him down to his tighty whities, and I wound him up in a purple sari with yellow daisies-- and damned if he didn't look like Prince Siddhartha all of a sudden! NOTHING humiliating about it. And when he knelt to his mistress, it was simply breathtaking...

 

[satinmarabana]

New to this forum, I've spent my time in author's hangout!

I want to ask-- do any of you see something different about "sissification" as opposed to feminization?

Or does "sissy" mean "feminine" in general? Let me say upfront that, speaking as a female queer, I have some qualms about that, but good sex excuses almost everything...

I suppose they are closely related, but I would say Sissification has definite elements of dominance and submission of the male, the transformation can be humiliating, the clothes given are either fetish or equally sexual, very symbolic.

Feminization can be sexual as well, but is much more cooperative without the dominance of the woman or any reluctance from the man. It is more outwardly respectful, like the woman is helping the man open up as a flower and helping him realize how far he wants to go.

My experience has only been with Sissification. The three men I've been with were definite sissies and craved that experience. It was intensely sexual but none of them craved to be a woman in normal, non-sexual areas of life.

 

[emap]

Thanks Stella, and you know I kinda miss your rather cute mustached AV.

Satin I'm actually bad when it comes to talking about what I am actually writing up. Besides which I don't even know when I would start, since all I am thinking about is the one I'm working on now, and a couple other thoughts, I've got so many set up stories. I got a superhero type, a sci fi, a female conan type, the one I mentioned, it's a crapshoot on which I do after I finally finish this one.

 

[subpup123]

my thoughts

I love to be dominated but not necessarily sissied or feminised per se. For me doing as she wishes and being fucked by her is the turn on. Often part of that is accepting what she wants to see me in and one partner did indeed get off on me wearing very girlie clothing. The whole act of submitting is the turn on for me. Where it goes is of secondary importance.

 

[satinmarabana]

Thanks for sharing subpup123

 

[subpup123]

my first time with a domme

my last relationship was with a female domme 8 yrs my senior. we met after some online comm. We agreed our expectations, she would be in control, I would do as told and limits were agreed. I went to hers and after a few drinks and mutual respect we felt comfortable taking it to a sexual level. She wore leather trousers and jacket(my request) and it had been agreed that I would be subjected to dildo treatment, details were naturally left to circumstance. Once back at hers i we sat close and I took every chance to touch her clothes , feeling the leather material. She took every chance to test my resolve and enforce the rules.
She made it clear I could stay as her bitch and that I would have to prove myself in order to enjoy any sexual relief. We drank and chatted and got on very well. I made every effort to allow her control and prove her trust in me. I wanted her to feel totaslly comfortable allowing me to stay the night. I could feel the power relationship change as I took in her leather outfit and increasing confidence. We kissed and touched. We moaned and made all the right signals.
I was told to strip and lay on the bed, close my eyes and hold my breath. Then I was told to breathe out and hold it till told. She moved next to me and held something silky soft over my nose and mouth. She told me to breathe in and I felt a wonderful sensation take me. She had worn her panties for several days and was forcing me to breathe in everything!!!

 

[satinmarabana]

I like her style. Please continue.

 

[gagginforit]

I think this is pretty popular. I have fantasies about it but have never done anything about it.

There's a popular "I wish I was her" porn post thread that shows how much some people really dig it. It seems if you have the urge, it's often very, very strong.

 

[satinmarabana]

I think this is pretty popular. I have fantasies about it but have never done anything about it.

There's a popular "I wish I was her" porn post thread that shows how much some people really dig it. It seems if you have the urge, it's often very, very strong.

I'd say with most fetishes, the urge can be incredibly strong. The men I've been with and let them play sissy were rock hard all through 'play time', from the first panties I ordered them to wear through their strapon discipline session. It hits all the right neurons in their sex brains I guess.

 

[subpup123]

I like her style. Please continue.

she held her panties tightly over my nose and mouth and told me to relax and breathe deeply. I couldnt tell u how hard it made me!! After a few minutes I was totally relaxed and enjoying the best hard on ever! She layed back and told me to remove her pants and knickers. I had to please her with my mouth until she had come. I eagerly complied since that is what I love to do to a woman. I slid my tongue over her long, hardened clit and up and down slowly inside her wet pussy. She moaned loudly and pushed back onto me, moving up and down so my nose went into her pussy, then sliding so my tongue went to her other hole.
"Mmake sure u please that hole as well, bitch!" she ordered, " Use ur tongue and then ur fingers" I pleased her butt for a few minutes as her moans increased. She got up and told me to put the panties over my face while she got her toy. She came back with a large soft rubber dildo, a small egg shaped vibe with remote control and a ball gag. She placed the gag into my mouth and checked it was tight. She turned me over and slapped my soft ass hard several times hard. I screamed mutedly and squirmed around. She ordered me to wiggle my was after each slap. "Good bitch" she repeated several times.

 

[subpup123]

my first domme pt 3

When she was satisfied with the state of my ass she stopped and rubbed it gently, squeezing my balls and teasing my hole with her index finger.
"Your my cock sucking bitch arent you?"
"Yes miss" I tried to say but only a muffled noise was heard
"First me" she gave me the dildo and laid back with her legs wide. I slowly teased her lips with the large toy, swirling it round to pick up her cum on the head. It was a lifelike dick with fake veins and lovely helmet.
She moaned her approval and I started to slide it in, very slowly. It slowly slid in, some resistance at first and then iyt slid very easily quite far inside.. I worked it slowly in and out several times.
"Oh fuck yes" she kept moaning." Take off the gag, cocksucker" she ordered.
My heart pumped. I wanted this so much. She told me to lay beside her but with my head on her chest. She cupped my chin with one hand and held the cum soaked dildo inches from my face.

I stretched to taste it and her hand snapped my head back. Several times I tried eagerly to taste her and get that lovely cock into my mouth. She laughed with satisfaction and kept egging me on and repeating that I should try harder.
After she had had her fun, she allowed me to reach it and I made loud moans of delight as I finally got to close my lips around the helmet
"Yeah, thats my cocksucking bitch, eat it all up and u can have some more" she spoke in a teasing, feminine tone

 

[stlpenguin]

Being transgendered myself, I find gender play very sexually gratifying. I was lucky enough to find a Domme who not only supports me as a friend in dealing with my transgenderism, but who also indulges my fantasies to be a woman in the bedroom.

One of the hottest times we had was when she gave me to her husband as an anniversary gift. The two of them went out to a movie, and I came over secretly (I have a key). I got myself all shaved, painted my nails, did my makeup, and put on a sexy cheerleader outfit, complete with frilly little nylon ankle socks. I cooked dinner for them, and then I gave myself to her husband to be used in whatever manor he wanted!

 

[subpup123]

For those of you who have asked about my real life experiences, I've begun writing them up. The first one has been approved by the moderators and is here:

http://www.literotica.com/stories/showstory.php?id=414219

It's the straight story without embellishment, if a little quick in the telling. Reading it again, I was struck at how quickly I adapted to the dominance/submission relationship, but that's how it was. John really woke something in me I didn't know I craved.

absolutely love your story! loved the way u suddenly took control, a very nice suprise for him I'm sure. x

 

[rcms]

My female side

I've written about this before in other threads about what I get from being a bisexual male, but I recently had a chance to explore my "female" side further so I thought I'd share on the topic. My female awareness started early when I discovered that I enjoyed sucking my buddy's cock more if I imagined I was a girl when doing it. I didn't have a feeling of gender confusion really, but I had wondered what girls felt when having sex, so that's how it worked in my young brain. It wasn't long before my mind wondered to what else I could enjoy as an extension of my oral gender bending fun, so I started exploring anal play and found the "like a girl" idea worked well for that too. After a while I could slide down on my dildo and imagine it was filling my "pussy" and work myself to very interesting orgasms without touching my cock, and even cum without an erection. By the time I finally got around to having sex with another man in real life I was quite adept at imagining myself in the female role and loved the way my body would respond so differently than when I was with a woman.

With a woman my nipples have almost no response, but with a man it feels like I have breasts that I love to have fondled and squeezed. If a woman penetrates me with a finger I feel nothing sexual, but for a man I will open myself and moan from the pleasure of his cock plunging deep inside me. With a man I can have multiple orgasms and cum just drips from my swollen but not hard cock and I could go on for hours; but with a woman I have one cum shooting orgasm and need a rest. I love fucking a woman in the ass, but(t) fucking a man doesn't interest me, nor does a woman with a strap on. With a man my cock doesn't get very hard, but is super sensitive; with a woman I get hard as a rock but it takes a lot to get me off.

So that's my version of gender role-play. When I'm with a woman I respond like a man and I never think about being a woman at all. But get me naked with a man I turn into a real cock hungry cum slut with small tits, an open swollen pussy and an easy to find clit. I tried dressing the part once or twice but it didn't do anything for me, and I'd rather be naked in any case anyway.

For me , bisexual is really both worlds.

 

[satinmarabana]

Thanks for sharing, rcms.

 

[clt48011]

For those of you who have asked about my real life experiences, I've begun writing them up. The first one has been approved by the moderators and is here:

http://www.literotica.com/stories/showstory.php?id=414219

It's the straight story without embellishment, if a little quick in the telling. Reading it again, I was struck at how quickly I adapted to the dominance/submission relationship, but that's how it was. John really woke something in me I didn't know I craved.

I had read your story several weeks ago and wished I was to do that with my wife. I have only dressed with other men and LOVE to play like lesbian lovers. I would LOVE to dress for a woman and have her treat me as her lesbian lover (with a strap-on)