Getting past not being able to swallow cum

[seeshelly]

The art of swallowing

I gagged the first time. My memory about the event must be mixed up because it seems like I would have been 16 but of course that can't be because it would not be socially acceptable. So, now that I think back it must have been on my 18th birthday. Anyway, I had never been fucked and wanted to so bad. A guy had been flirting with me and invited me to his house to listen to music. He lived with his mom and I knew she would be at work. I told my mom that I was going to my girlfriends house. My older sister told me not to fuck him if he did not have condoms and she said that he would be just as happy if I sucked him. So, he did not have condoms and I was just as curious about sucking as I was about fucking. So I went to plan "B" as in blowjob. Rather than plan "F."

He told me that he was about to cum. I knew he was letting me know because a lot of girls don't like guys finishing in their mouth. But my sister and my girlfriend had both told me that guys love girls that suck and swallow. So, when he said he was about to cum I went faster rather than pull off. He knew what that meant and shot a huge amount of cum in my virgin mouth.

I wanted the moment to be so special and yet I ended up gagging and almost vomited. It was horrible and I was worried that he would be disappointed and not let me try again.

When I got home I was balling my eyes out and told my sister how bad it went. Later my girlfriend told me how to swallow.

So, if you are having problems I suggest you try this because it worked for me and I have been doing it that way ever since.

When you feel the nuts pull up and you know the guy is going to ejaculate back off just enough to get it out of your throat and shove the cock-head inside your cheek. Let the cum gush against the inside of your cheek instead of in your throat. Then when he is done swash it around in your mouth with a lot of spit that will be building up anyway and then gulp it down in one gulp.

The guy let me suck him the next day and it worked really well. I am 40 years old now so that was 24 years ago, I mean 22 years ago, and I have only gagged a few times since then and those times have all been because I did not get the cock head planted inside my cheek in time.

I hope that helps.

 

[bimori]

Was able to get with my friend finally the other day. I was determined to get him off with my mouth and was able to carry through. Wasn't bad at all and I am looking forward to trying it again soon.

I’ve been eating cum for more than 40 years now. But I also remember how hard it was to swallow that first time. I would love the feel of the cock explodingin my mouth. But then I would spit it out as soon as I could. I guess I though if I swallowedthat would mean I was gay or something. Of course it felt ok to have a cock in your mouth soooooo. After awhile I found how much I liked the after taste. Then after swallowing that first time just enjoy the feel of how his cock felt in my mouth and how I felt that hiscum was my reward for treating hiscock so nice. Mmmmm now I think that cum should never be wasted in a tissue.

 

[Astroman72]

Based on science, for those who are interested...

One discussion that has helped people I've dated learn to love to swallow is to set the right "expectations". Whether or not food tastes like you anticipate it's going to taste, that is, the "expectation", makes a huge difference in whether you enjoy it. For example, see here here and here.

That is, if you think that you're about to bite a grape, and it turns out to be an olive, your initial response will be strong disgust. If you think cum is going to taste like ice cream, your initial response will also be disgust.

Trying your own cum might be a good start so at least you're not startled by mouthful of totally novel taste. Or taking your first taste of someone else's in a way you can totally control, but dabbing a bit onto your tongue. Like, what else would you like to have your first taste of injected into your mouth?

What I'd really like to see is some cum recipes so people could learn to mix up something that tastes similar to different types of cum. For example, 2 tsp sour cream, 1 tsp salt, 1 tsp soy sauce, a pinch of sugar... that sort of thing. Any suggestions from the experienced swallowers?

I got a squirting dildo a year or so ago, and experimented with some cum recipes that I found.

I did this:

Dissolve a couple tablespoons of corn starch in a cup of water, then slowly heat that in a pan on the stove, stirring constantly until it starts to thicken up a bit. Take it off the heat, and let it cool off slightly.

Add a little sugar, a little salt and a tablespoon or so of unflavored yogurt and mix until dissolved. If you have them, you can also add a little of the pasteurized egg whites that come in the carton (just make sure the mixture has cooled enough so that they don't cook.)

You might have to experiment with the amounts of the ingredients, but I have to say this came out VERY close to the taste and texture of my own cum.

 

[Astroman72]

I gagged the first time. My memory about the event must be mixed up because it seems like I would have been 16 but of course that can't be because it would not be socially acceptable. So, now that I think back it must have been on my 18th birthday. Anyway, I had never been fucked and wanted to so bad. A guy had been flirting with me and invited me to his house to listen to music. He lived with his mom and I knew she would be at work. I told my mom that I was going to my girlfriends house. My older sister told me not to fuck him if he did not have condoms and she said that he would be just as happy if I sucked him. So, he did not have condoms and I was just as curious about sucking as I was about fucking. So I went to plan "B" as in blowjob. Rather than plan "F."

He told me that he was about to cum. I knew he was letting me know because a lot of girls don't like guys finishing in their mouth. But my sister and my girlfriend had both told me that guys love girls that suck and swallow. So, when he said he was about to cum I went faster rather than pull off. He knew what that meant and shot a huge amount of cum in my virgin mouth.

I wanted the moment to be so special and yet I ended up gagging and almost vomited. It was horrible and I was worried that he would be disappointed and not let me try again.

When I got home I was balling my eyes out and told my sister how bad it went. Later my girlfriend told me how to swallow.

So, if you are having problems I suggest you try this because it worked for me and I have been doing it that way ever since.

When you feel the nuts pull up and you know the guy is going to ejaculate back off just enough to get it out of your throat and shove the cock-head inside your cheek. Let the cum gush against the inside of your cheek instead of in your throat. Then when he is done swash it around in your mouth with a lot of spit that will be building up anyway and then gulp it down in one gulp.

The guy let me suck him the next day and it worked really well. I am 40 years old now so that was 24 years ago, I mean 22 years ago, and I have only gagged a few times since then and those times have all been because I did not get the cock head planted inside my cheek in time.

I hope that helps.

Wow, older sister and girlfriend giving you advice on sucking cocks. That is so hot.

 

[carln3346]

Was able to get with my friend finally the other day. I was determined to get him off with my mouth and was able to carry through. Wasn't bad at all and I am looking forward to trying it again soon.

Congrats! Be careful, you might like it too much lol

 

[bimori]

I got a squirting dildo a year or so ago, and experimented with some cum recipes that I found.

I did this:

Dissolve a couple tablespoons of corn starch in a cup of water, then slowly heat that in a pan on the stove, stirring constantly until it starts to thicken up a bit. Take it off the heat, and let it cool off slightly.

Add a little sugar, a little salt and a tablespoon or so of unflavored yogurt and mix until dissolved. If you have them, you can also add a little of the pasteurized egg whites that come in the carton (just make sure the mixture has cooled enough so that they don't cook.)

You might have to experiment with the amounts of the ingredients, but I have to say this came out VERY close to the taste and texture of my own cum.

Mmmm I have a great recipe that is also home made. I’m sure you will love every last drop. Mmmmm

 

[confort]

Was able to get with my friend finally the other day. I was determined to get him off with my mouth and was able to carry through. Wasn't bad at all and I am looking forward to trying it again soon.

From the very first time I took another man's cum, it was a positive experience. Having tasted my own over the years, I had an idea what to expect. It has never been about the taste to me. The feeling of his cock swelling as he gets close, his hips gently moving to the rhythm of my mouth, the tempo of his breathing, the moans or gasps as he reaches orgasam. It's almost beyond words. It feels so natural and completely blissful as my mouth is filled with his hot, liquid pleasure. It's the whole experience that makes it so satisfying for me to swallow. After he cums in my mouth, I feel a sense of satisfaction similar to cumming myself.

I'm only sharing my experience, and I don't have a whole lot, but it seems like staying for the whole performance it the way to go, especially the encore. Everyone's different. Find your niche and make it the best it can be.

If there's one thing I've been a little disappointed in, it's that I've yet to have a massive load that comes too fast for me to swallow it all before some spills from the corners of my mouth and I get to lick it up. While it goes against my nature to call names, "cumslut" really feels like my comfort zone.

 

[carln3346]

From the very first time I took another man's cum, it was a positive experience. Having tasted my own over the years, I had an idea what to expect. It has never been about the taste to me. The feeling of his cock swelling as he gets close, his hips gently moving to the rhythm of my mouth, the tempo of his breathing, the moans or gasps as he reaches orgasam. It's almost beyond words. It feels so natural and completely blissful as my mouth is filled with his hot, liquid pleasure. It's the whole experience that makes it so satisfying for me to swallow. After he cums in my mouth, I feel a sense of satisfaction similar to cumming myself.

I'm only sharing my experience, and I don't have a whole lot, but ii seems like staying for the whole performance it the way to go, especially the encore. Everyone's different. Find your niche and make it the best it can be.

If there's one thing I've been a little disappointed in, it's that I've yet to have a massive load that comes too fast for me to swallow it all before some spills from the corners of my mouth and I get to lick it up. While it goes against my nature to call names, "cumslut" really feels like my comfort zone.

Hot post - your description of the act in the first paragraph is spot on . .

 

[Jaime1493]

Start by forcing yourself to eat your own, then you will love it.

 

[tristantrotsky]

From the very first time I took another man's cum, it was a positive experience. Having tasted my own over the years, I had an idea what to expect. It has never been about the taste to me. The feeling of his cock swelling as he gets close, his hips gently moving to the rhythm of my mouth, the tempo of his breathing, the moans or gasps as he reaches orgasam. It's almost beyond words. It feels so natural and completely blissful as my mouth is filled with his hot, liquid pleasure. It's the whole experience that makes it so satisfying for me to swallow. After he cums in my mouth, I feel a sense of satisfaction similar to cumming myself.

I'm only sharing my experience, and I don't have a whole lot, but it seems like staying for the whole performance it the way to go, especially the encore. Everyone's different. Find your niche and make it the best it can be.

If there's one thing I've been a little disappointed in, it's that I've yet to have a massive load that comes too fast for me to swallow it all before some spills from the corners of my mouth and I get to lick it up. While it goes against my nature to call names, "cumslut" really feels like my comfort zone.

Confort,
online Porn has a lot to answer for. It leads to unrealistic expectations of sex that reality sometimes falls short of achieving. All guys don't cum in huge amounts. Sometimes - you're unmistakably aware that he's cumming in your mouth by the way the cock you're sucking starts pulsing and kicking, and you hear his grunts and heavy breathing, but the actual amount of spunk ejaculated, when its dissolved in your own saliva, is negligible. That can be disappointing for the cock-sucker. Of course - finding a gusher can be exquisite, just don't expect it every time.
Personally… even more frustrating, is the first-timer who is so scared and nervous that he can't even get a hard-on, no matter how much you suck him…!

 

[blklthrjkt]

Getting it direct from the source is a great inducement go swallowing. Tastes better fresh and hot and directly into the mouth.

 

[mtsnowrider]

Confort,
online Porn has a lot to answer for. It leads to unrealistic expectations of sex that reality sometimes falls short of achieving. All guys don't cum in huge amounts. Sometimes - you're unmistakably aware that he's cumming in your mouth by the way the cock you're sucking starts pulsing and kicking, and you hear his grunts and heavy breathing, but the actual amount of spunk ejaculated, when its dissolved in your own saliva, is negligible. That can be disappointing for the cock-sucker. Of course - finding a gusher can be exquisite, just don't expect it every time.
Personally… even more frustrating, is the first-timer who is so scared and nervous that he can't even get a hard-on, no matter how much you suck him…!

Been there, done that. Real life rarely matches porn but with enough practice it can come close

 

[bwb58]

Are you gay or bi? If bi, then I suggest eating a creampie first, just make sure you have not cummed yet. After I ate my first creampie, it wasn't long tll I wanted it from the source.

 

[bimori]

Are you gay or bi? If bi, then I suggest eating a creampie first, just make sure you have not cummed yet. After I ate my first creampie, it wasn't long tll I wanted it from the source.

I always found that after eatting my creampie that I just wanted to refill and repeat. Mmmm

 

[Astroman72]

Mmmm I have a great recipe that is also home made. I’m sure you will love every last drop. Mmmmm

I don't know, I'd probably have to try it several times to really form an opinion.

 

[bimori]

I don't know, I'd probably have to try it several times to really form an opinion.

I’m always a willing giver or taker or a swap is always nice.

 

[CuriousinPennsylvania]

Think Mary Poppins

Keep a packet of sweetener nearby. Remember, "Just a spoon full of sugar helps the medicine go down - in the most delightful way."

 

[Iwanttwo]

I thought I wouldn’t like it as women always refused to let me cum in their mouths, saying it was gross. After years of wondering what could be so bad about it, and to satisfy a curiosity, I finally talked a gay friend into letting me see what it was like to suck a cock and take a load in my mouth. He warned me that if I was curious, it meant I was probably a cocksucker in denial, and that once I tried it I would love it. He had a nice cock and I started slow, licking and kissing it. He encouraged me, saying it felt great as I started sucking it into my mouth, bobbing up and down on it, enjoying it’s smoothness and texture.

I got lost in what I was doing and thought to myself, why haven’t I ever done this before? He was moaning, telling me that I was a natural cocksucker, and erupted in my mouth. I found the taste delicious and he was right, I did love it, and am definitely a cock sucker and have never considered not swallowing. Go with it, you will love it.

 

[tristantrotsky]

Learning The Game

My first married Boyfriend talked to me a lot about the health-benefits of swallowing spunk, about how freshly-ejaculated semen is rich in protein, citric acid, free amino acids, fructose, enzymes, phosphorylcholine, prostaglandin, potassium, and zinc. A generous cocktail of easily and pleasurably-digestable goodness.
Not that I ever needed any such inducement to swallow his spunk on a regular basis…! It was my delight.

 

[Jennygurlluvs2play]

To me it's all a head game. Once you get past it you'll not likely go back! I know I wouldn't!!!

 

[debycha1968]

I couldn't agree more !!!

From the very first time I took another man's cum, it was a positive experience. Having tasted my own over the years, I had an idea what to expect. It has never been about the taste to me. The feeling of his cock swelling as he gets close, his hips gently moving to the rhythm of my mouth, the tempo of his breathing, the moans or gasps as he reaches orgasam. It's almost beyond words. It feels so natural and completely blissful as my mouth is filled with his hot, liquid pleasure. It's the whole experience that makes it so satisfying for me to swallow. After he cums in my mouth, I feel a sense of satisfaction similar to cumming myself.

I'm only sharing my experience, and I don't have a whole lot, but it seems like staying for the whole performance it the way to go, especially the encore. Everyone's different. Find your niche and make it the best it can be.

If there's one thing I've been a little disappointed in, it's that I've yet to have a massive load that comes too fast for me to swallow it all before some spills from the corners of my mouth and I get to lick it up. While it goes against my nature to call names, "cumslut" really feels like my comfort zone.

Nothing wrong with being a cumslut with a mouth full of cum and some leaking out of the corner of your mouth.

 

[SuperSissy]

I have been eating my own cum since probably that very first day I ejaculated after years of dry orgasms. (I was 18 at the time, of course). I'll admit, the first few times it was a little sour, but once I flipped my legs over my head and came in my mouth it was all good. So when I was 18 (yes, later that year) and I gave my first BJ, I don't think twice about swallowing, and loved the taste and texture. The funniest thing was when I was around 20 and my GF gave me a surprise snowball, I guess wondering how I would react, and I swallowed it right down, and licked the rest off her lips.

 

[BBCfan]

I got a squirting dildo a year or so ago, and experimented with some cum recipes that I found.

I did this:

Dissolve a couple tablespoons of corn starch in a cup of water, then slowly heat that in a pan on the stove, stirring constantly until it starts to thicken up a bit. Take it off the heat, and let it cool off slightly.

Add a little sugar, a little salt and a tablespoon or so of unflavored yogurt and mix until dissolved. If you have them, you can also add a little of the pasteurized egg whites that come in the carton (just make sure the mixture has cooled enough so that they don't cook.)

You might have to experiment with the amounts of the ingredients, but I have to say this came out VERY close to the taste and texture of my own cum.

I've been wanting to get a squirting dildo...what kind did you get? Are you happy with it?

 

[swflsrmale]

My wife decided one day that I should start taking my own cum. After my orgasm I would lose interest in doing anything for a while. One day she suggested some bondage and tied me up. She teased, stroked and edged me for an hour and then allowed me to cum. Then she said I would take it and when I refused, she simply pinched my nose shut and when I opened my mouth to breathe, she shoveled it in. I couldn't move until I swallowed all of it. She smiled and told me it would be the first of many I would take without refusing.

 

[bimori]

My wife decided one day that I should start taking my own cum. After my orgasm I would lose interest in doing anything for a while. One day she suggested some bondage and tied me up. She teased, stroked and edged me for an hour and then allowed me to cum. Then she said I would take it and when I refused, she simply pinched my nose shut and when I opened my mouth to breathe, she shoveled it in. I couldn't move until I swallowed all of it. She smiled and told me it would be the first of many I would take without refusing.

What a great wife helping you get past your fear. But what you didn’t say was how much you liked it. Or loved it can’t wait for your next taste.