Getting used...

[BiTodd]

some of us guys want to be used to....

 

[horny4incest]

Agreed I find the thought of getting used sexually quite erotic!

 

[PoisonedEve]

Am I the only girl that wants to get used and ruthlessly fucked from time to time? I've found no threads on this. It entails almost every kink in the book... Whatever he wants: anal, rapeplay, bdsm, voyerism, ect.

I love getting taken the way he wants it. Maybe it's just a super submissive thing. I'd like to hear some thoughts on this.

Aren't you trading on muddy grounds here? Or should I say asking people to open bags full of cats? LOL

 

[dirtyprincess]

use and abuse

a slap across the face as he forces his thick cock deep into my dripping wet pussy. Is pain pleasure? Is pleasure pain?

 

[bluesky496]

a slap across the face as he forces his thick cock deep into my dripping wet pussy. Is pain pleasure? Is pleasure pain?

mmmm, that sounds like heaven ,x

 

[skinnysinner]

a slap across the face as he forces his thick cock deep into my dripping wet pussy. Is pain pleasure? Is pleasure pain?

A slap on the face feels harsh, a spank of the ass is arousing, in time with each thrust or before over my knee. A tug on a nipple, a slap on the wet spread pussy lips... All asked for and enjoyed by both

 

[JudasIscariot]

I hope this thread really takes off

Please ladies do continue

 

[curiousmom80]

For me, it's not so much spanking or bondage. I like to humiliate a woman in public....make her wear slutty clothes to a nice restaurant, for example. My ultimate fantasy would be to fuck her in the bathroom and make her walk back to the table with smeared lipstick, mussed hair, reeking of cum.

Really sounds like you can read my needs. I like giving myself to someone who is primal and takes me making me beg for more when he gives just a little

 

[Ahi_Viking]

Yes

I love this idea, too, and find it empowering. A group of anonymous men taking my body any way they want. First, it takes the pressure off me. And second, it's just really hot to think you could get that many men off with so many parts of our bodies

That's beautiful. In fact, just reading it started to make me swell up...

 

[Que]

Pretending to be the slut just picked up at a bar and fucked in the alley is fun, but actually being the slut picked up at a bar and fucked in the alley is exhilarating. No hugs and kisses afterwards. Just zip up and leave me behind the dumpster. If I don't feel shame and a loss of dignity, then you weren't doing it right.

Admittedly, I'm probably not a model of sound mental health.

au contrere (sp?) the fact that you OWN your desire and can openly acknowledge your hunger for humiliation is very healthy.

Its the ones that pretend to be a bit drunker than they are to justify being used in the way they want to be used that are unhealthy.

How about a guy who isn't sure what he is?

You know...I remember the first time I tied up my ex...I was fairly inexperienced and she had asked about and heard how I used to tie up a girlfriend...that was innocent tease and tickly stuff...

I didn't quite fathom the darker side of bondage much less was I aware of my latent desires in that arena.

She asked me to spank her and then insistently with a real visceral hungry edge hissed, 'Harder!!"

I did.

I ended up at some point slapping her across the face...shocked her, and she loved it...I don't think that was necessarily the kinkiest thing we ever did, but for some reason I never repeated it again.

I was conflicted about my arousal at the scene...

I have come to accept that primal, deep-seated facet of myself.

Later at times when rough play was involved she would report (fanciful imagination or her part or something discernible) She used to say that she could see a change in my eyes when I was "on edge" . She felt there was always the possibility that I might go to far like for example during asphixia play.

 

[dirtywilf]

Pretending to be the slut just picked up at a bar and fucked in the alley is fun, but actually being the slut picked up at a bar and fucked in the alley is exhilarating. No hugs and kisses afterwards. Just zip up and leave me behind the dumpster. If I don't feel shame and a loss of dignity, then you weren't doing it right.

Admittedly, I'm probably not a model of sound mental health.

Amazeballs.

Can I live vicariously through you?

Fuck the hugs, fuck the kisses. Fill my holes and leave me dripping.

Ok an edit to that. I would like to know my partner in some capacity. To have some followup; him making sure I put my panties back on after he has used me, to be reminded of how my hole was used by the wetness. But I'm not interested in any of the cuddly after care.

 

[BiTodd]

Amazeballs.

Can I live vicariously through you?

Fuck the hugs, fuck the kisses. Fill my holes and leave me dripping.

Ok an edit to that. I would like to know my partner in some capacity. To have some followup; him making sure I put my panties back on after he has used me, to be reminded of how my hole was used by the wetness. But I'm not interested in any of the cuddly after care.

Name the bar........

 

[Amanda83]

Pretending to be the slut just picked up at a bar and fucked in the alley is fun, but actually being the slut picked up at a bar and fucked in the alley is exhilarating. No hugs and kisses afterwards. Just zip up and leave me behind the dumpster. If I don't feel shame and a loss of dignity, then you weren't doing it right.

I have actually done that.

 

[BiTodd]

Pretending to be the slut just picked up at a bar and fucked in the alley is fun, but actually being the slut picked up at a bar and fucked in the alley is exhilarating. No hugs and kisses afterwards. Just zip up and leave me behind the dumpster. If I don't feel shame and a loss of dignity, then you weren't doing it right.

I have actually done that.

me too!

 

[stareingharder]

Pretending to be the slut just picked up at a bar and fucked in the alley is fun, but actually being the slut picked up at a bar and fucked in the alley is exhilarating. No hugs and kisses afterwards. Just zip up and leave me behind the dumpster. If I don't feel shame and a loss of dignity, then you weren't doing it right.

I have actually done that.

I'd like to hear that story.

 

[never_say]

I prefer it that way, actually. It just feels so primal. One of my favorite things.

 

[siobhansmut]

rapeplay<3

 

[5watcher]

Sometimes being with a good guy pretending to be a bad guy isn't enough. Sometimes I need to be with an actual bad guy.

After reading all these post from women and their wants....this is me. I really dont know how to be a bad guy....

I think I can learn, but then per Knottygirl...seems that women can tell.

Women, thanks for the insight. Just learned a little about my self today.

 

[Xojlene2015xo]

I love the when a man just uses me n fucks me every which way. Cumming in n on me, it turns me. Calling me names. Mmmm

 

[obsessedb8er]

I love the when a man just uses me n fucks me every which way. Cumming in n on me, it turns me. Calling me names. Mmmm

One thing I've learned over the years in my online exploits is that the idea or fantasy of using a woman as a fuck-hole is quite thrilling to me. The name calling is simply icing on the cake.

Catharsis and therapy all in one as I take out my frustrations on another person without causing physical harm.

 

[MilkFountain]

There are posts, however . . .

Am I the only girl that wants to get used and ruthlessly fucked from time to time? I've found no threads on this. It entails almost every kink in the book... Whatever he wants: anal, rapeplay, bdsm, voyerism, ect.

I love getting taken the way he wants it. Maybe it's just a super submissive thing. I'd like to hear some thoughts on this.

I'm male . . . I've found that the girls who want me are the ones who sensed the danger or, afterward, wanted more . . . especially the quiet, sensible ones.

You've successfully started the thread you wanted! There are a lot of posts involving this. For one, I can tell you that my wife, and I believe almost every woman, is slave to her estrus peak during her menstrual cycle―that time when she's flooded with oxytocin and just wants sex, is open to suggestions and adventure. I've taken advantage of that with my wife, in that I love when a man or other men want her, and have led us through or suggested quite a few adventures, which, once she knew I really loved her, she joined in wholeheartedly.

 

[MaddysSecret]

Am I the only girl that wants to get used and ruthlessly fucked from time to time? I've found no threads on this. It entails almost every kink in the book... Whatever he wants: anal, rapeplay, bdsm, voyerism, ect.

I love getting taken the way he wants it. Maybe it's just a super submissive thing. I'd like to hear some thoughts on this.

I think this deserves a lot more discussion than it gets because, no, you're not the only one. I'm with you on this and have a lot of girlfriends who agree. I love giving pleasure, and the role you are describing really opens up the possibilities for a guy receiving pleasure, and I get pleasure from knowing that I am being used for his pleasure.

 

[funluvinaj]

I love being that girl that gets all my holes fucked hard... I've yet to find a man who can fuck me too hard, even my ass... During it... Spank me, grip my hair, call me slut, whore, bitch... Put your cum wherever you want... But when it's over you better treat me like your princess... Cuddles, kisses, drawn me a hot bath.... Slut in bed, your queen out.

I've found close to this twice but availability for one and distance for the other made them impossible to pursue.

This weekend I'm going to be a play pet for a couple... Up until now I've always been a partnered member of multiple person sex... Will be interesting being the single one.

 

[MilkFountain]

You hit it on the head, You'll-Be-Wet

Just wanting to be used does not make one a slut, at least not in my book. I'm sure that many here won't object, it's merely an observation. Incidentally, I think they are looking for a man who knows what "they" want

A woman following through when she's in heat is just honest, alive, loving, wanted and celebrating life itself.

 

[MilkFountain]

Interesting statement . . .

I love to be taken by men when there is more than 1 guy and when I am on holiday

Dear Vicci, my wife too. And when we're in synch on this, both of us get off on her being with more than one guy. And yes, it's so much easier on holiday. We've done it 3 times, once at natural hot-pool in the Canadian Rockies, with 4 thirty-somethings, once with 3 Boy Scouts in the campground where we were, and once at our home, with 4 mountain climbers just back from an important climb. In each case, she was in estrus, had had some wine, and we both liked and felt comfortable with the men. In every case they made do, finishing outside, on her body or face, although at least twice I know of, they came in her bareback (we were lucky on that count). When not in estrus, she's a bit conservative, resistent to my suggestions.