Girl not allowed to cum

[eastern sun]

My orgasms have never been the focus of our sexual experience. And I have been on "formal" orgasm denial for a period of a few months or so, when he was pushing me to find other partners with whom I was allowed to cum.

The period of denial with him did cause a lot of physical tension and emotional upheaval. I was more prone to losing patience and lashing out at the kids. That was actually what ultimately put an end to it. . .

But using orgasms as sexual reward and punishment has effectively modified my behavior over the years. And the experience of nearly constant sexual arousal with controlled release - though it has not been sustainable for more than a year or two at a time without affecting my health - has given me access to incredibly creative sources of energy that I don't know if I would have discovered any other way.

Actually, some forms of dance have taken me there too. But I don't dance as often . . .

 

[soccergurl7]

no fair to hold us back!

 

[Corbal]

I've never enjoyed edging, and become highly frustrated if it goes on too long.

 

[quimsical]

I've never enjoyed edging, and become highly frustrated if it goes on too long.

Firstly, it's a Corbal sighting -- yay!

Secondly, I like a little of this, but agree that letting it run on for two long would be plain silly. Though I should say that few things are hotter than a little whimper of frustration

 

[DeepGreenEyes]

The answer to successful orgasm denial is making the denied party thank you for the privilege of being denied.

Then everyone's happy.

 

[Celesialslave91111]

Thats true, how ever, like alot of people have said let it go on and we'll beging to get bored of it... but it is interesting every once in a while to see how your body and the body of your other reacts to one or the other being denyed and then being given the pleassure of cumming and releaving that frustration.

 

[Mjlonir97]

Thats true, how ever, like alot of people have said let it go on and we'll beging to get bored of it... but

Begging to get bored of what ? The constant denial of orgasm or boring teasing If he cant keep you "edged" then he probably isn't doing it right

 

[DVS]

There's a distinct skill to orgasm denial. It's a lot more than just saying "no" to somebody in need. Knowing what to say, how to say it, how to stimulate and not stimulate, etc. You have to know where to touch someone so they just get hotter and the desire just grows. And part of it is knowing when the denial has gone on long enough. That's when you turn the key and get out of the way.

If you don't do everything correctly, the whole thing is going to be just a waste of time and energy. Sure, it might work a couple of times, but you need to keep it on the edge, and just short of orgasm. That takes a lot of practice and knowing your victim's body and mind...what makes them tick.

 

[spiritualxtc]

http://www.xvideos.com/video406345/orgasm_denial_gets_angel_sopping_wet

Another good video.

 

[SeeYouInTee]

We play the orgasm denial game at my request. He loves my orgasms but knows i need denial. We just finished a round of 90 days - 45 days of denial followed by 45 days of (mostly) daily orgasms.

He is so good at the game. He gives me instructions to keep me so aware of my body and, other times, intentionally ignores my silent pleas for attention. i'm given an end date and i have to keep track of the days. When i'm allowed to cum again, the orgasms pour out of me.

Since i'm neither new at this or perputating a myth, i suppose i'm the exception to the rule?

ETA: DVS, you are exactly right. He knows what i need and has mastered the game.

 

[girlinkansas]

I think that a girl not being allowed to cum is totally hot. Being controlled that way is probably my biggest fantasy but my hubby is NOT into that!