Guys, Am I alone on this?
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OpenMouth
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I don't see a man here, I see the most gorgeous princess. I would totally French kiss her all night long.
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I don't recall this 9 year old thread. Nevertheless, I find that the most intimate sex is being inside a man. Guys who love just to give lollipop sex are a dime a dozen, . Rimming is also pretty intimate. Unfortunately, not all men clean themselves down there. As for kissing, I love it, but strangely I don't have to have it during sex. In my past, I had a hard time seeing someone multiple times who had hang ups such as no emotional depth to want to kiss, hug, or cuddle at any time or hang around a bit after. Its right down frigid. With so many guys out there, who would want to settle for someone with such character flaws? Even now with my ED, I still have a very high sex drive. After I climax, I still want to be close. Perhaps, I was a proctologist with a VERY successful practice in a prior life.
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OpenMouth
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I think it's a very subjective thing, but to my mind kissing is more intimate than fucking or sucking. I think it's actually the most intimate thing you can do with another person.
Perhaps that's why it's something I have to hold back for women.
Perhaps that's why it's something I have to hold back for women.
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Nope you are not alone:
When I'm in the m/m sex setting...I have never gone in thinking 'yum, make-out time". In certain circumstances and plenty of drugs and alcohol involved; kissing happened. I have never had the intimacy / romance connection with a guy....Never had U-Haul dream after M/M sex.
to each their own...My buddy now, has the same opinion ... You want a kiss buddy....let me tongue your ass...I know, but, who said there were rules.
I don't see a man here, I see the most gorgeous princess. I would totally French kiss her all night long.
She is a gorgeous princess!
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If I had approached a guy with an engagement ring before I let myself engage in m2m sex, I'd still be a virgin.
I got my first mortgage when I was 23, and the house was in my name only and it was just for me. As to live in partners, my first (and only) wasn't until I was 44 years old. By that age most men are have clinging to some skirt (or multiple ones) for decades. I've had plenty of m2m sex over my lifetime, and quite frankly brief "sex only" scheduled interactions get BORING pretty quickly no matter how hot a guy may seem.
For some of us our sex drive is too strong to put it in some calendar planner.
I got what I want in a partner. I just don't want guys to think their main option is some shallow once in a while squeeze in a sex only encounter. If it wasn't for my ED, I'd be inside my guy as often as he would let me, and he never complained about having a headache or some other silly excuse. He gets plenty of kisses from me, it just wasn't usually during sex. I kiss him when he leaves the farm. I wish he would stop smoking and drinking so much coffee, but a good man deserves to be kissed regardless.
I couldn't put up with a bitchy partner a bunch of fridged hangups. I would never kiss in public and wouldn't even if my partner was a woman. I was never someone who had to make some kind of public display of myself to feel good about myself or someone I cared about.
I got my first mortgage when I was 23, and the house was in my name only and it was just for me. As to live in partners, my first (and only) wasn't until I was 44 years old. By that age most men are have clinging to some skirt (or multiple ones) for decades. I've had plenty of m2m sex over my lifetime, and quite frankly brief "sex only" scheduled interactions get BORING pretty quickly no matter how hot a guy may seem.
For some of us our sex drive is too strong to put it in some calendar planner.
I got what I want in a partner. I just don't want guys to think their main option is some shallow once in a while squeeze in a sex only encounter. If it wasn't for my ED, I'd be inside my guy as often as he would let me, and he never complained about having a headache or some other silly excuse. He gets plenty of kisses from me, it just wasn't usually during sex. I kiss him when he leaves the farm. I wish he would stop smoking and drinking so much coffee, but a good man deserves to be kissed regardless.
I couldn't put up with a bitchy partner a bunch of fridged hangups. I would never kiss in public and wouldn't even if my partner was a woman. I was never someone who had to make some kind of public display of myself to feel good about myself or someone I cared about.
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I've very neutral about kissing a guy.
It doesn't particularly repulse me---I suppose if I was in the heat of sex and he wanted to, I'd go along with it. But it doesn't hold the same appeal as kissing a woman, and it's definitely not a strong craving for me in the same way that sucking cock or assfucking is.
It doesn't particularly repulse me---I suppose if I was in the heat of sex and he wanted to, I'd go along with it. But it doesn't hold the same appeal as kissing a woman, and it's definitely not a strong craving for me in the same way that sucking cock or assfucking is.
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For me it all depends on the mood, the atomosphere and the guy I'm with. Are we having raw, hard, butt slamming fuck, or a passionate sensual encounter?
The first time I kissed a guy was during a passionate, sensual night that started with him giving me a massage. From there embracing seemed natural, and I really wanted to experience his kissses, too. So we made out while he fucked me and it was great.
But mostly, with men, kissing seems out of place or inappropriate.
The first time I kissed a guy was during a passionate, sensual night that started with him giving me a massage. From there embracing seemed natural, and I really wanted to experience his kissses, too. So we made out while he fucked me and it was great.
But mostly, with men, kissing seems out of place or inappropriate.
Yeh, I feel the same way. I have no desire to kiss a guy but I have lots of fantasies about sucking cock and being fucked. Its also a real turn on for me if a sexy woman is involved.
yep, I know exactly how you feel. I am the same way
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Cum-Kisses
I tend not to get 'romantically' involved with men.
But cum kisses are definitely an exception. Tongue-kissing a guy when he has cum in his mouth or dripping and dribbling on his face is a major turn-on.
Sharing a mouthful of cum is just about as intimate as it gets...
I tend not to get 'romantically' involved with men.
But cum kisses are definitely an exception. Tongue-kissing a guy when he has cum in his mouth or dripping and dribbling on his face is a major turn-on.
Sharing a mouthful of cum is just about as intimate as it gets...
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Sorry, if a guy is going to have sex with me, and I have had a lot of sex with a lot of guys, he damn well better be going to kiss me too.
I too have zero interest in another guy other than his dick and my ass. I have been fucked a handful of times by the same guy (the most bi person I have ever imagined, equally into oral/fucking with men and women). I have a pretty nice dick, fairly thick and a real 7" but would love to suck a cock that is like mine or bigger (cut). I have practiced deep throating with a dildo and now believe I could do it with the real thing. In fact, at this point in my life that is what I would really like to do at least once.
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I totally agree!
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I do enjoy kissing another man, at first it was weird but didn't take long to get into it. If the other guy is not into that's fine but if they are even better. 
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I have not had a relationship with another man yet but my desire is for an intimate one which includes lots of deep passionate kissing.It was the same for me. Never thought I could kiss another guy, but now it it is an essential part of of sex with another man.
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I'll be doing that in a couple of weeks got a FWB that I haven't seen in awhile.It was the same for me. Never thought I could kiss another guy, but now it it is an essential part of of sex with another man.
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use to think kissing was the grossest thing ever, then i tried it, and it was awesome! always surprised a guy will let you suck his cock, but no kissing. romance has nothing to do with it, it just doubles the passion...
