Guys who appreciate sluts

[zach20092]

I love being with men who appreciate sluts. I will always come home to him, but what’s some casual sex or meaningless blowjobs between friends or strangers?

Completely agree!!

 

[TwoHeadsBald]

I'm one of those guys. I love when my woman wants to be my "personal porn star" and just surrender herself to her desires and pleasure. There isn't any "humiliation" or anything like that. I love the pure sexual energy when I'm with a true "slut" that does not hide her desire. My job is to keep her safe and enjoy the ride, both literally and metaphorically.

I prefer lascivious women any day to any prudish women. I actually trust you more and find you more interesting. Especially if you are open about your sexuality.

 

[TwoHeadsBald]

When I was a teen I did my best to hide my sluttiness from my BFs, which meant that I cheated a lot. But gradually a found (accidentally) that there was a certain kind of guy that really liked and appreciated girls like me and I found that I went out of my way to meet such guys and perform for them.

These guys are not into humiliation. They just like sluts like me. Any comments (from male or female) on what makes such guys what they are -- slut friendly? And comments also from women who like men like this.

I like to use the word lascivious. I have have several ladies they liked that word better.

 

[SlutAddicted]

I prefer lascivious women any day to any prudish women. I actually trust you more and find you more interesting. Especially if you are open about your sexuality.

It is interesting that you refer to trust. I feel the same way. It has always seemed odd to me the way some guys associate non-monogamous or promiscuous women with not being trustworthy. In my experience I have found the women who are open about their sexual preferences and exploits to be among the most trustworthy because they have already made a decision to be honest about it in spite of the judgment of others. They are nothing like the people who chose to lie and cheat to avoid being honest.

 

[Jasmine12345]

It is interesting that you refer to trust. I feel the same way. It has always seemed odd to me the way some guys associate non-monogamous or promiscuous women with not being trustworthy. In my experience I have found the women who are open about their sexual preferences and exploits to be among themes trustworthy because they have already made a decision to be honest about it in spite of the judgment of others. They are nothing like the people who chose to lie and cheat to avoid being honest.

to quote some people over the Personals boards, "Your inbox will be exploded"

Not to leave me out OK?

 

[KinkStevens]

Sluts aren’t by definition honest or upfront. Some are, and those women are cool because you don’t need to wonder what they will or are willing to do sexually. But make no mistakes, there is an equal amount of sluts that do cheat and lie. It may even be part of the appeal. Idk. And there is a difference between women who are creative, open, and sexuality adventurous and women who are scruple-less, moral less, and dishonest in the name of a good shag. The former is preferred. The latter can be great fun, but not one to build anything significant with

 

[TwoHeadsBald]

Sluts aren’t by definition honest or upfront. Some are, and those women are cool because you don’t need to wonder what they will or are willing to do sexually. But make no mistakes, there is an equal amount of sluts that do cheat and lie. It may even be part of the appeal. Idk. And there is a difference between women who are creative, open, and sexuality adventurous and women who are scruple-less, moral less, and dishonest in the name of a good shag. The former is preferred. The latter can be great fun, but not one to build anything significant with

I do see your point. But I have stated open and honest upfront. Not what I refer to as a bimbo. I do believe from your statements,you know what I mean

 

[the_single_gal_unconfidential]

I had to take a vacation, getaway - so a couple of wks in Switzerland.
I spent a week in Interlaken, it's the gateway to the hiking and sights of the beautiful alps.
I wasn't at all looking for an amorous encounter. but I found one, my pussy has a way of leading me haha.
the luck guy was one of those guys that takes tourists paragliding. really amazing, they take off from way up on the mountain, drift down. I didn't do it.
anyway - he and I had some fun. one afternoon after a nature hike, then the next morning.
the next morning was a bj - something to send him off happy. he's a brit, living in Manchester. he was going back for a week to take holiday w his kid.
and the bj - also because his huge cock made my puss sore.
anyway, he lived in a studio apt. it was a whole small complex of studios, where the paragliding guys lived. in the winter I guess it's used by ski bums.
I was there a couple of times, there's a break room where I went down and got us some coffee - there was always a few guys in there chatting.
the morning I sucked my friend off, I was in the break room - skimpy nylon gym shorts, t shirt - no bra.
being in there w those guys, they're all studs, and knowing I was going to get cock made me quite wanna get fucked over n over.
anyway, he was leaving that afternoon - I felt like asking him if I could use his apt to fuck the other guys there.
the guys might like having 'some free pussy down in room 119' haha.
when I start, I like to keep going.
anyway, I didn't ask him.
missed opportunity. but I didn't know how he would like me doing that.

 

[savmitch1038]

I love/prefer "slutty" women, or as I prefer, sexually confident and adventurous qomen. They know what they like, aren't afraid to try new experiences, and are more fun in general.

 

[the_single_gal_unconfidential]

yes, I'm a slut.
meeting someone new - that familiar nice warm sensation of mutual sexual attraction - satisfying our urges completes our interactions.
I'm single, and really enjoy cumming, and the thrill of getting a guy to cum.
if circumstances allow for interlude - I'll openly invite the guy. casual sex is as casual to me as having a coffee and cheese danish.
which gets us to the appreciation part -
consummating a friendship is just that. satisfying the sex part of our inner biologic and psych needs.
I like the term casual sex.
more than appreciation, I like respect. that our interlude was just that. sexual release.
anything more - depends on circumstances and respect and appreciation.

fondly thinking back to Todd. he had that comfy lazyboy chair - I kept looking at it, the parts moved w electric motor. it was so comfy to lean the back way back flat, hook my legs over the arm rests. kept the foot thing down.
it worked the other way too - back down flat, so soft on my knees with my face down and ass right there for them.
he had nice friends - the all showed appreciation, respect. they knew I didn't need anything from them other than what we gave to each other.

so yes, appreciation of a gal's sexual drive can be very rewarding.

 

[Lucy_Lastic]

YES!! As a teenager I always envied and admired girls who had reputations of being sluts! They liked sex and didn't care who knew it.

I had that reputation at school. But you're wrong about it being cos I liked sex. I didn't. teenage boys are shit fucks. I didn't know what the fuss was about and one guy called me frigid because I didn't respond thoughout the 30 seconds of his desperate prodding.

I knew I could have orgasms, because I masturbated a lot, but I thought it was my fault that sex wasn't exciting for me. The guys certainly seemed to like it. Everyone went on about sex and how great it was and I slept around a lot because I wanted to be liked, I wanted to be 'normal' and I wanted this amazing sexual thrill that everyone talked about. The only thing I really enjoyed was giving blow jobs. I spent 3 years having shit sex with lads who didnt have a clue before I met a man who changed everything and I realised it was not my fault that boys didn't know how to do it right.

 

[Mtnmike]

yes, I'm a slut.
meeting someone new - that familiar nice warm sensation of mutual sexual attraction - satisfying our urges completes our interactions.
I'm single, and really enjoy cumming, and the thrill of getting a guy to cum.
if circumstances allow for interlude - I'll openly invite the guy. casual sex is as casual to me as having a coffee and cheese danish.
which gets us to the appreciation part -
consummating a friendship is just that. satisfying the sex part of our inner biologic and psych needs.
I like the term casual sex.
more than appreciation, I like respect. that our interlude was just that. sexual release.
anything more - depends on circumstances and respect and appreciation.

fondly thinking back to Todd. he had that comfy lazyboy chair - I kept looking at it, the parts moved w electric motor. it was so comfy to lean the back way back flat, hook my legs over the arm rests. kept the foot thing down.
it worked the other way too - back down flat, so soft on my knees with my face down and ass right there for them.
he had nice friends - the all showed appreciation, respect. they knew I didn't need anything from them other than what we gave to each other.

so yes, appreciation of a gal's sexual drive can be very rewarding.

I admit I wasn't a fan when younger but have become one with age. I didn't date much in my youth so guess I was protective of the one's I did, hindsight is 20/20 they say. I'd like to thank you & any other ladies that are & own it, you are wonderful.

 

[lil_jenni]

I knew I could have orgasms, because I masturbated a lot, but I thought it was my fault that sex wasn't exciting for me. The guys certainly seemed to like it. Everyone went on about sex and how great it was and I slept around a lot because I wanted to be liked, I wanted to be 'normal' and I wanted this amazing sexual thrill that everyone talked about. The only thing I really enjoyed was giving blow jobs. I spent 3 years having shit sex with lads who didnt have a clue before I met a man who changed everything and I realised it was not my fault that boys didn't know how to do it right.

I was similar at that age, but some of it for me was because sex often hurt unless I was really buzzed or drunk. And even then it did not do much for me -- I never came from sex, and I rarely came from guys fingering or licking me. I gave a lot of BJs and then took care of myself later. My enjoyment of sex in college improved some (especially with some added stimulus, such as multiple guys or doing it in a room with an open door at a party... things like that could help me come), although it being painful was still an issue without copious amounts of alcohol to relax me (I never engaged in any form of sex back then without at least some alcohol in me, but vaginal sex required quite a bit to relax me). So, after my first year and a half or so at college, I kind of fell back into giving mainly giving BJ's to hookups and going back home and jilling off.

That lasted until I met he who would become my husband. Oh, he knew what he was doing. And I really liked him, which I found also helped me relaxed. After a couple of months together, I could even have sex without alcohol... and I came more often than not. These days, it's pretty rare that I don't come when we fuck... or make love. And the last took a bit for it to be most of the time. For quite a while, even with him, I often needed it rough or humiliating or both to ensure I would climax form vaginal sex. We still do that, for fun, but I am glad I don't need it (or alcohol) anymore.

 

[Lucy_Lastic]

The word 'slut' carries a derogatory connotation to bystanders, but it may ignite erotic power when the 2 individuals have a strong bond and know when to use it.

Agreed. I am not a slut but can behave like one when I want to. The word itself only works if the right person says it in the right context.

 

[Justfantasies]

Agreed. I am not a slut but can behave like one when I want to. The word itself only works if the right person says it in the right context.

Yes for sure -- my experience is that she likes it if she knows he appreciates her sexuality and likes to hear her sexual history and perhaps if he treats everything with a smile

 

[Lucy_Lastic]

she likes it if

she likes it if she likes it. There's no one size fits all. Women aren't machines, except in your fantasies.

Your experience isn't a good indicator. I was the biggest 'slut' when I didn't appreciate my sexuality and I didn't enjoy sex. I slept around to try to be the sort of person guys like you wanted me to be. Now I know I'm better than that.

 

[Justfantasies]

she likes it if she likes it. There's no one size fits all. Women aren't machines, except in your fantasies.

Your experience isn't a good indicator. I was the biggest 'slut' when I didn't appreciate my sexuality and I didn't enjoy sex. I slept around to try to be the sort of person guys like you wanted me to be. Now I know I'm better than that.

I doubt that I ever thought women were machines -- I was just saying that men appreciate sluts when they treat the whole thing with good humor and without jealousy

 

[Lucy_Lastic]

I doubt that I ever thought women were machines -- I was just saying that men appreciate sluts when they treat the whole thing with good humor and without jealousy

surely you mean me appreciate women... not all women like labels like that. Call me a slut in the wrong context and you're going home with a black eye.

 

[Justfantasies]

surely you mean me appreciate women... not all women like labels like that. Call me a slut in the wrong context and you're going home with a black eye.

Yes I do understand that. Not all women want to be called "sluts" ever -- actually most don't. Some do, but usually when it isn't meant too seriously. Personally, I would be cautious about using the term.

 

[Bbl87]

surely you mean me appreciate women... not all women like labels like that. Call me a slut in the wrong context and you're going home with a black eye.

Certainly depends on the context. I've said it as dirty talk during sex but outside of that... I'm not an idiot. Nor that rude, honestly.

 

[HumpDayHoratio]

Certainly depends on the context. I've said it as dirty talk during sex but outside of that... I'm not an idiot. Nor that rude, honestly.

I would be hesitant to use the term also unless I knew my partner really liked it during RP or dirty talk. I think I tried it on my wife once…once!

 

[Justfantasies]

If you tried it once and it didn't work makes sense not do it again. But what if it turned her on too.

 

[HumpDayHoratio]

If you tried it once and it didn't work makes sense not do it again. But what if it turned her on too.

If it turned her on I’d certainly do if more. It’s been a while, but I seem to remember she didn’t like it very much. it’s entirely possible I was using it in the wrong way or at the wrong time though.

Maybe I’ll give it a shot again. Will report back.

 

[Justfantasies]

What made you say it? How were you hoping she would react?

 

[Bbl87]

I would be hesitant to use the term also unless I knew my partner really liked it during RP or dirty talk. I think I tried it on my wife once…once!

The first time I tossed it out during dirty texting, my wife responded with "Hey now!", followed soon after by, "(but I am a dirty little slut )." Ah, the good ol' days...