Hair Pulling

I seem to run counter to the norm here, but...

I wouldn't mind a gentle grip of strong intensity, a strong grip with a loving touch, but if you jerk my head viciously and violently, or surprise me with a death-grip on my hair by the roots... well, then we're both gonna feel pain, and anything sexy about our little scenario shall very likely go... *poof*.
...Depending upon my mood, of course.
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It's funny how everyone likes it a little different, but I haven't come across anyone yet that doesn't like it at all.
 
Like!

As close to the base as he can grab, either by intertwining his fingers to grip my head or bunching it in his hand. Just tugging on the ends is painful and leaves a lot of slack in the reins, so to speak :p

Also like! As long as it's from the base.
 
So is it good only when he's taking you from behind, or is it also good when he takes you by the hair and directs the kissing as well?

Just feeling his physical control, either being held firmly in place or directed where he wants me. Also the occasional insistent yank to make sure you're focused and paying attention.
 
Just feeling his physical control, either being held firmly in place or directed where he wants me. Also the occasional insistent yank to make sure you're focused and paying attention.

So a man that's in control is what you like? Is there ever a time where you like to take the reins, so to speak?
 
So a man that's in control is what you like? Is there ever a time where you like to take the reins, so to speak?

I'll assume you're still talking about hair-pulling with that (just to stay on topic). I love to run my fingers through a guys hair, when just snuggling up or making out heavily, but I wouldn't pull on it as a control thing. I might grab onto it desperately while riding out an orgasm. Maybe. Sometimes. It's happened, that's all I'm saying.
 
My girlfriend loves it when I pull her hair while I'm taking her from behind. She also likes it when we're making out and I use hair pulling as a way to take her lips off of mine so I can kiss her neck or suck on her nipples.
 
I haven't found a woman yet that doesn't like it in general.

Agree

Intertwine your fingers in her hair close to the base and exert pressure, enough to bend the neck back so you can plant kisses

Men also like it, if their hair is long enough - especially if their mouth is full I find
 
I'm curious... Are there any women out there that don't like your hair pulled during sex? And if you do like it, is there a certain way that's better than other ways?

I have to be the one to disappoint. I dont like it. I cant even wear a headset because it gets entangled in my hair. I hate pulling of any kind.
 
So that's two down for no pulling at all. It just goes to show that there is a variety of opinions out there. Each lover should be talked to... What are their wants, needs, desires, and kinks. Learn about your lover, study them, become an expert in them and the rewards will be unending...
 
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