Have I been banned?

[friskylilkitten]

I was able to enter chat earlier this afternoon, but now getting the error that I'm unable to enter and retry. I don't think I did anything to get banned, but perhaps I did?

Yes, you were banned PM a mod/admin for information

 

[friskylilkitten]

sometimes it seems to take a day or two for the two systerms to communicate. you can also try clearing your cookies and cache and such, sometimes help

 

[Oralilustodo]

Thanks, yes some time passed and things did get resolved.

 

[Might_As_Well]

I haven’t been able to login to chat. Is there a problem with the site or my account? Please let me know. Thank you.

 

[Quip]

You were banned. You've been messaged.

 

[Prem96]

I am banned now from the chat but the mod said abusive words to me so I paid back in the same coin and now I am banned from the chat. I request the concernd persons to kindly investigate it and unban me. I have never used abusive words to anyone in my life unless the next person is being uncouth. The mod himself was uncultured so he used bad language in the first place. I am visiting this site since last about 10 years and never found an arrogant mod like that one who banned me. Thanks in advance. This is a wonderful site.

 

[Thesunmaid]

I am glad you think this is a wonderful site...but...I read the conversation and it would seem the entire encounter was completely unnecessary and was initiated by you. You started off with being aggressive. So sorry to be boring but I sadly do pity you as he was indeed a mod. I know this mod and his self esteem is just fine, He is also indeed not a father but I am sure he will be a fabulous one if he chooses to become one someday and also....as someone with a slit below I am puzzled to know why you seem to think this is worthy of using it as an insult? I have found it has not hindered my life in most ways and sadly I do not have a sister to scream about this with. But my parents did teach me to speak with respect so...respectfully...

I assure you the majority of the words used here were not mine but I simply used the ones you spouted at the mod as insults when you were warned not to do something in a room. To which you could have simply taken the warning and gone about your day but...You started with being uncouth in fact and had you perhaps not taken this concern in such a manner I would consider unbanning you but as you felt the need to double down again..I think I will decline your kind offer. So perhaps go outside...pet a dog and live your life.

Have the day you deserve. And you are welcome for taking time out of my day to have this dialogue with you.

To anyone else forgive my barking in such a manner I will take my leave now.

 

[DoctorGood]

I've tried a number of times to connect and cannot. I purposely entered a wrong password and got a message saying the username or password were incorrect. Tried rebooting a few times and, again, used the correct username and password.

 

[Quip]

When is the the last time you were able to access chat?

 

[DoctorGood]

On Tuesday, May 7 or Wednesday, May 8.

 

[Prem96]

He first said to fuck off. That was the first abusive word he used. Once you use abusive words, don't expect good words from others. Also when I am asking why there is no star for his name if he is a mod, he is showing me attitude by saying ummm and other ways. I have not seen at least a mod like this in my life. I do remember interacting with you and you ask anyone in chat, how my behaviour is.

Are mods there to provoke and look at fun after that or are they there to resolve the issues?

I am not sure if anyone will read it, but take it in writing from me that this particular mod (the one who banned me) is highly provocative. I request to take away his mod privileges. Thanks.

 

[Prem96]

Isedora is actually the bot that runs chat so won't be able to do too much. Look in the chat mod office (usually near the bottom of the room list) or for someone with a pretty silver star and they can help you

But one cannot trust if silver star is not there that the person is not mod. A person can be mod without silver star as well? Can be person be non mod even if he has a silver Star?

 

[Prem96]

Also, if someone is giving some warning in the group (Indians), that person should be eligible to give threats, right? He was giving threats to ban to room (it was good reason, logical reason and not bad or illogical reason I agree, but still it was a threat). So don't we have right to know if a person is mod or not ? Especially he has no silver star? Don't we have right to see ID proof of a police if he claims to be a police? He was behaving like a goon and then was saying that he is a mod. How to believe it? Also, he is the one who is starting abusive language first! Who made him mod and how he became a mod is the real question!

 

[Prem96]

You are right, the entire encounter was unnecessary. But you are thinking that. Does the (so called) mod who banned me also thinks that? I can dissect each and every your sentence and can discuss more and more on this till one of gets tired, without using any abusive words, but are you expecting me to keep quiet even if you will use abusive words? Let everyone know that here. If a person is mod, he is supposed to me more mature (at least some times). If he keeps showing constant rude and confusing behaviour and if not answering simple questions like if he a mod properly (I had to ask it in the first place because he had not put the silver star and was behaving like a goon), what's wrong if I call him boring? He was confusing and boring I will reiterate here! Also, why mods are allowed to do moderation activity without wearing the star? Are they ashamed of the star or think it unnecessarily to use it even when banning someone? How to identify if a person is mod? Only based on what he says so? I am an astronaut then! If anyone will use little logic, they can clearly see that this particular mod is highly provocative. Kindly scrutinize all his moderation activities is my request.

 

[Quip]

Points of order: While moderators often wear their star. You were treated with decorum and respect and then started to insult the moderator in question. It was explained to you that the moderator was not required to wear their star, at which point you called them boring and started to insult them. You take objection to the one statement made, but seem quick to gloss over your own behavior which was absolutely insulting and offensive. The log does not indicate confusion from you, but dissatisfaction. Also, as you have availed yourself of the forum to post this complaint, you must have seen our moderator list on display for all forum users: https://forum.literotica.com/threads/chat-moderators-and-admin-2023.1584584/ your complaint has been noted. Your ban will stand.

 

[Quip]

https://forum.literotica.com/threads/chat-moderators-and-admin-2023.1584584/

 

[Thesunmaid]

All of this information is made available to anyone who wishes to see it. Also Mods as well as any admins do this as a volunteer position. We are not paid by Literotica in anyway and are not technically employees. We are simply long running chatters who are now given a few extra buttons because we wish to keep the site free of harassment and other undesirable behavior of which I will not get into because it makes me cringe to think about it. Shadow storm has been a mod in good standing and we do not require our mods to clock in and out for a shift per say because they do have lives to live. We even encourage them to not star up and simply enjoy the site as any chatter would to relax because that is exactly what we all started out as and why we were here. Shadow despite not being required to mod made himself available and then you chose to harrass him and yes he said fuck off...which is his right to do so when someone comes at him. If you are insulted by the word fuck or vulgarity I would suggest you find a nice quilting bee to join where they talk more gently.

I for one am fully willing to admit when our mods have done things wrong and we have subsequently removed some from their position. Some of the regulars would know about this...but a mod telling a chatter that seems to be piling on the insults is perfectly with in thier rights to say fuck off. He has not abused his power in anyway and you could have simply taken the warning and then went about your day but...you chose not to. Did your parents ever teach you manners?

So bark all you like my dear you are doing nothing to prove to us that yes we indeed should allow you back in. Quip and I have done everything in our power as well as the other mods to keep our tempers but alas we are only human...and will occasionally throw out the big mean F word...I use it quite liberally...its very versatile I must admit.

See when I said I used to be the nice mod I meant it..I was bright eyed and helpful and wanting to make the site a better place. And then people like yourself come along and it does degenerate into things like this. And for those who know me they know well I have the vocabulary of a well educated sailor. *winks*

So in closing I will not be so vulgar and I was insulted in the like by you trying to imply being female was an insult so might I suggest some less insulting words than "slit" shall we begin?

I quite enjoy some old timey ways of saying things like...Venus' honeypot (1719), or sassy box (1983) and don't think I left out you gents...here is some things to call your penis..best leg of three (1890) or nine-inch knocker (1696). Now if you will excuse me I will take myself and my sassy box and go enjoy the rest of my Sunday. Don't you just love learning new things? I sure do.

So glad we had this talk. Do have a great weekend.

 

[Prem96]

Ok. As both of you wish. I have already shared that this (Shadow_storm I guess is his username) mod is a problematic one. Maybe you will agree with me when you will see other reports. Anyways. I suggest you to take action at least when certain number of (how much should be this number is up to you) complaints are raised against him. Till that time you might think that you are right and that is ok.

 

[Prem96]

Also, I leaned a new thing, sure! That boring is abusive word but fuck is not! Have a nice day!

 

[Prem96]

God bless you!

 

[Nandni]

I'm not able to login. Is there any problem with my account?

 

[Thesunmaid]

Thank you sweetie but I am an athiest. I do appreciate the thought.

 

[Thesunmaid]

He is not problematic at all actually. Honestly most of the complaints we get are people who complain because they got caught and banned for things. Also I do reviews of the bans all the time and I have very few that I ask the mods in question for...and none of them have been shadows. You would actually be the first one to complain about him and considering you are the one who started the fight I am inclined to give it a hand wave as you seem to not understand what my 5 year old granddaughter understands. When you are told no a tantrum is not going to change anything. Also as for what words are abusive...context is everything darling.

 

[sweety24]

Hi I am able to login to chat but cannot enter the Lit lobby for some reason. I cannot recollect violating any chat rules or decorum knowingly. Trying to understand if I am banned or facing an issue.

 

[DoctorGood]

What can I do to get back onto the live chat? It was working one day and then not a few days later (I've been traveling since I last chatted on May 7 or 8).