Have I been banned?

I do appreciate it thank you Smoking. Forgive me for being a bit off right now. I have a funeral to attend tomorrow but also the subject of the original poster asking over and over of what they did when they have be told...and the reason for the ban...it does make me angry.

I have worked as a fraud investigator for a bank and I have done a lot of tech support and I have heard from people who cannot afford to donate but they do anyway because they are genuinely good people and they want to help people..it does I admit make me angry. I think people who try and scam others out of money should be in jail and I would personally love to punch them in the gut. It is a curated planned action. You cannot accidentally scam someone out of money. (not that some other crimes are not on purpose but that's not what that person got banned for) You have to actively lie and not give a shit about someone you could be fucking over horribly financially. The pensioners were the ones who made me the angriest.

I promise I will shake this off and go back to being the semi lovable asshole I usually am. I hope everyone has a lovely weekend though.
 
I do appreciate it thank you Smoking. Forgive me for being a bit off right now. I have a funeral to attend tomorrow but also the subject of the original poster asking over and over of what they did when they have be told...and the reason for the ban...it does make me angry.

I have worked as a fraud investigator for a bank and I have done a lot of tech support and I have heard from people who cannot afford to donate but they do anyway because they are genuinely good people and they want to help people..it does I admit make me angry. I think people who try and scam others out of money should be in jail and I would personally love to punch them in the gut. It is a curated planned action. You cannot accidentally scam someone out of money. (not that some other crimes are not on purpose but that's not what that person got banned for) You have to actively lie and not give a shit about someone you could be fucking over horribly financially. The pensioners were the ones who made me the angriest.

I promise I will shake this off and go back to being the semi lovable asshole I usually am. I hope everyone has a lovely weekend though.
I probably shouldn't mention that I gave my AmEx Platinum card number to one of the "Pretty Womans in Your City for Night" ladies... 😬
 
I probably shouldn't mention that I gave my AmEx Platinum card number to one of the "Pretty Womans in Your City for Night" ladies... 😬
These things happen...i include the love scammers in that wanting to beat them, only those i want to punch them in the face. with a brick..

I hope you were able to get it reversed or recupe your losses.
 
These things happen...i include the love scammers in that wanting to beat them, only those i want to punch them in the face. with a brick..

I hope you were able to get it reversed or recupe your losses.
I was joking again, Sunny. I hope that after the funeral (my sympathies), you're able to decompress. You're a good mod and seem like a good person. You may not know that the other mods speak very highly of you. Take care, and I promise I'll shut up now. 😊
 
Most likely the reason the last time you were banned Dadofdau49....oh wait my mistake you have an m at the end of your name how could i get the two of you crazy kids mixed up? or was it Daddyperv49M...sighs its so hard to keep track...

If you want me to tell you again you can pm but it will not be reversed.
 
But *also* DadOfDau - this has not been addressed on two seperate threads. You are considered ban on sight, so you'll be banned on sight and stuff.
 
@tulsamopar -- yes, you have been banned. If you require further details, please enable private messaging on your account. We do not discuss bans in public for privacy reasons.

To enable private messaging:

Go to your profile at the top right -- click on the circle that's there, click privacy, then make sure it says "start conversations with you" (toward the bottom of that box and either set it to "members only" or "all visitors") for some reason it defaults to no one until you change it.​

-- hat tip to @Thesunmaid for these instructions, because I had no idea how to set the notifications.​


Once you've done that, click on my avatar (the spiffy cat in glasses) and click the box that says "start conversation," and I'll be happy to discuss the ban with you.
 
i often just watch the room, and i can safely tell you that if you use the word "female" as a noun i'm not ever going to chat. i'm female, but i'm not "a female" like a zoological specimen tyvm
I'm no feminist, but that always sounded rather redneck or something else I can't place.
 
Anyone would think women don't get explosive orgasms but the best guys are those with a silver tongue, in more ways than one. True, the female orgasm is 90% about thinking and feeling rather than a hand down your pants, so the words that go with that fingers count for a lot. I take all of my favourite fantasies and get them down on paper and writing it all down gets me going too. If you'd like to see the results see the BDSM Taking Control series
 
Yes curious you are banned. you can pm to find out why. You were banned on the 8th of October 2024.
Hey, Sunny. Hope things are going better for you now, and that you're getting back to your normal lovable snarky self. @ToPleaseHim has been holding down the fort pretty good for us, but glad to have you back.
 
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she always goes smoking. And I am feeling betterish...other than I think I am getting a cold..its at that is it allergies or am i sick stage..here is hopeing some extra strength allergie pills fixes me up.
 
I'm the other way around. I like guys who are on the rough end, and if I enter chat it's probably because I want... you know, certain roleplaying.

But the thing I can't stand is when it's a boring template like "Hey what's up?" or "How are you today?" Like if I wanted to talk about the weather I'd just go out and chat with my coworkers and professors. I do think it's nice when a guy takes the time to look over my profile and stories since they're going the extra mile, but once I get to know someone too well, things get also less exciting.
 
@Reiki02 -- yes, you have been banned from Chat. I am PMing you with the reason; we do not discuss bans publicly for privacy reasons.
 
i'm sorry if everything i'm saying seems to be negative, and i'm sure that there are some lovely, gorgeous guys out there, and maybe this is the last time i'll be so down on ya, SO...

If your name contains the word "alpha" or you state in the room that you're "alpha," i can assure you that whatever you believe "alpha" to be, then, oh boy, you are not it.
 
Pia you are not being negative. Honestly its just a case of there is a lot of lovely gorgeous guys out there...but they sometimes are drowned out by the douche nuggets.

also in regard to men with the word Alpha in their name to quote a gent named Glenn F. Henrickson on twitter "When men refer to themselves as "alpha males", I hear that in the context of software, where alpha versions are unstable, missing important features. filled with flaws. and not fit for the public."

As someone who built their own computer and has been interested in technology and has over (dear god this makes me feel old) over 20 years of IT experience I am going to have to agree with this. I have worked in multiple companies and managers decide to take the software we used for a very long time...are familiar with and it works and replace it with some barely tested bullshit and people get pissed off and leave.

Well you alpha fellas...yeah we get pissed off with your bullshit and leave. When the common denominator in you not getting women to talk to you is you...think about that. And before someone whines that "all women want chads!" I am happily married and with my husband for the past 17 years who is 4 inches shorter than me has a dad bod but he makes me laugh and feel beautiful and I still think he is the hottest thing on two legs even all these years later.

That was kind of the point of this thread...to tell the guys what we ladies want. Yes some woman prefer a man who is taller...some want a guy with a jaw line that can cut glass and abs you can wash laundry on...but and come closer so i can let you into a lil secret...we are individuals who like different things. I know fucking shocking.

I mean a dick pic is not the way to my bed. But then it might be for someone else. So go forth and read and maybe you might just get lucky. Maybe try talking to people ya know like they are people...alot of ladies on here are telling you what they want. Maybe listen?
 
Pia you are not being negative. Honestly its just a case of there is a lot of lovely gorgeous guys out there...but they sometimes are drowned out by the douche nuggets.

also in regard to men with the word Alpha in their name to quote a gent named Glenn F. Henrickson on twitter "When men refer to themselves as "alpha males", I hear that in the context of software, where alpha versions are unstable, missing important features. filled with flaws. and not fit for the public."

As someone who built their own computer and has been interested in technology and has over (dear god this makes me feel old) over 20 years of IT experience I am going to have to agree with this. I have worked in multiple companies and managers decide to take the software we used for a very long time...are familiar with and it works and replace it with some barely tested bullshit and people get pissed off and leave.

Well you alpha fellas...yeah we get pissed off with your bullshit and leave. When the common denominator in you not getting women to talk to you is you...think about that. And before someone whines that "all women want chads!" I am happily married and with my husband for the past 17 years who is 4 inches shorter than me has a dad bod but he makes me laugh and feel beautiful and I still think he is the hottest thing on two legs even all these years later.

That was kind of the point of this thread...to tell the guys what we ladies want. Yes some woman prefer a man who is taller...some want a guy with a jaw line that can cut glass and abs you can wash laundry on...but and come closer so i can let you into a lil secret...we are individuals who like different things. I know fucking shocking.

I mean a dick pic is not the way to my bed. But then it might be for someone else. So go forth and read and maybe you might just get lucky. Maybe try talking to people ya know like they are people...alot of ladies on here are telling you what they want. Maybe listen?
Bless you Sunny and the quote made me laaaaaaaaaugh! i was just self-conscious of saying "and another thing, you morons" like i didn't have anything positive to say on this whole thread
 
I truly hope no one minds if I post this question, I looked for an answer and did not see it, but my question is..

I have noticed when I am on the chat I get booted out a lot, is there a way to stop that? Or is it just something that happens? I know there are multiple rooms with many MANY people so its a lot for your servers, I just wanted to know if its something I am doing?
 
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